For Domestic Violence Survivors, Family Court Becomes Site of Continued Abuse

This too is changing , as awareness becomes reality ,

compassionate folks who stand beside children in

courts , insuring no trauma, or advantage is targeted

against a child in continuation of a parent who

is indisposed , disadvantaged , out monied , ie

discriminated against in every way . A very grievous,

vulgar and unnecessary , socially accepted human

rights violation.. And it’s motion of transformation

is upon us as leaders domestically abuse us , shadow

is exposed and thankfully a million stars align

to open a healing as never imagined ..Heaven

on Hearth begins with Peace in Ones ♥️

Family courts often lean toward joint custody, a preference that some abusers use to continue harassing former partners.
— Read on truthout.org/articles/for-domestic-violence-survivors-family-court-becomes-site-of-continued-abuse/

Mariska Hargitay documentary on rape kit crisis puts survivors front and center – Women’s Media Center

The standards and practices accepted as normal

have surfaced to expose the reality of apathetic ,

often abusive treatment in times of extreme trauma.

As harsh as we know this situation is for the feminine ,

I know men have to be heard , and healed of sexual

force that few seek help for.

What remains within both? Rage …Children carry this

in ways that are not acknowledged ..

One goal I have is to see a safe healing place for our

women and children , fleeing abuse.. Privatized

due to the inept abuse of current systems , our local

women healers getting to the heart of the matter , thus

returning a family within that woman , supported

uplifted , loved thru a shameful power trip , avoiding

more abuses ❤️ Empowered !

Mariska Hargitay documentary on rape kit crisis puts survivors front and center – Women’s Media Center
— Read on www.womensmediacenter.com/news-features/mariska-hargitay-documentary-on-rape-kit-crisis-puts-survivors-front-and-center

College track star warned police about her ex-boyfriend 6 times in the 10 days before he killed her – ThinkProgress

I have been mocked , by professionals, black robed on

down….realizing he could , I bought a weapon

He uses others to do his bidding ..he doesn’t have

what it takes ..fear driven .

Very common that women are not heard , as

when in my beginning of wakefulness , in my

hometown , a Mom repeatedly called for her adult

son, who had a mental illness , but was ignored.

Son decapitated her and more , was in their home

upwards of a week before police made their grizzly

discovery .

A Mom of 2 , repeatedly asked for protection of

her husband in a new separation , evidence existed

but she was ignored.

Kids were sleeping over , and he slit a screen

entered their home , killed her and himself .

Upon sentencing judge stated son had killed

the only person who had ever loved him,

his Mom.. No mention after the one acknowledgement

of the failure to respond by police and magistrates .

College track star warned police about her ex-boyfriend 6 times in the 10 days before he killed her – ThinkProgress
— Read on thinkprogress.org/mccluskey-university-of-utah-warned-police-about-ex-boyfriend-6-times-bc08aed0fad

Trauma’s Labyrinth – Laura K. Kerr, PhD

A very lovey woman, her work is uber researched

and I highly recommend her ..either site

included is historical trauma..

Trauma’s Labyrinth – Laura K. Kerr, PhD
— Read on www.laurakkerr.com/traumas-labyrinth/

What Causes Attachment Based Parental Alienation in Narcissistic Relationships? | The Recovery Expert

Psychiatric Dr created the ” unfit mother ” in me

with toxic RX , incapacitating me , so my abuser

had a clear shot to have a separation and divorce

he paid 2 lawyers to put together his way.

3 men came together , to cut me off at the knees

avoiding facts, for which I had 30 days to respond

to …I incorrectly thought my lawyer had my best

interest at heart .

He had been partners with ex’s lawyer , and over

powered, with only 6 % of his work in family law.

Of course it took, coming to , reading the contracts

of dissolution as if I were in agreement , ” no fault”

was his desire . Making me responsible for my own

health care , and legal fees. As to personal property

he had me signing loan notes , buying himself

and sons cars, and his new love and he going through

our home , keeping all he wanted ..

To say I had a choice, as a misdiagnosed and medicated

mental patient , cover up of such much abuse

where winner takes all, and that’s generated by money.

Whose lawyer is connected and or owed a favor

and not about what’s best for children. Of course

he saved tons , waiting until youngest was 16…

Gone Guy ARE You Happy ? Yet . That gal he left

with/for left him this year …

And all he said as he left , was he had to leave to be

happy , openly dating immediately, living with her

leaving our youngest to live in our very neglected

and abused home .

Of course that was my fault too. Too sick to do

my job , was laziness .

As a Dad , as a partner he did much harm..As a

monied landowner , he has had family connections

and seemingly a permanent ” get out of jail free

card ” and it’s always the other person’s fault.

“It’s funny how sometimes the people you’d take the bullet for, are the ones behind the trigger.” What exactly is parental alienation in the context of a
— Read on pro.psychcentral.com/recovery-expert/2017/11/what-causes-attachment-based-parental-alienation-in-narcissistic-relationships/

Wisconsin Lawyer: Domestic Abuse: Little Impact on Child Custody and Placement:

Missing the very valid point

Domestic Abuse with children in house / witness

is Child Abuse ,

Wisconsin Lawyer: Domestic Abuse: Little Impact on Child Custody and Placement:
— Read on www.wisbar.org/NewsPublications/WisconsinLawyer/Pages/Article.aspx

Using energy testing to access the knowing of the Higher Self – Spiritual Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse

By observing your bodily sensations when you ask a question you can access the knowing of the Higher Self. The Higher Self is the mysterious source of intuitive knowing. The Higher Self operates independently of the overlay of mind-made ego interference and can guide you towards truth and love and away from the self-deception that…
— Read on abuse-recovery.com/2018/12/27/using-energy-testing-to-access-the-knowing-of-the-higher-self/

Know the Narcissist: The Narcissist’s Self-Importance and Grandiosity – Esteemology

Know the Narcissist: The Narcissist’s Self-Importance and Grandiosity – Esteemology
— Read on esteemology.com/know-the-narcissist-the-narcissists-self-importance-and-grandiosity/

Ruling in genital mutilation case shocks women’s advocates

MINNEAPOLIS (AP) — Women’s rights advocates said they were shocked when a federal judge in Michigan ruled this week that a law protecting girls from genital mutilation was unconstitutional. They called his decision a serious blow to girls’ rights. Legal experts said the judge made clear that U.S. states have authority to ban the practice, though only about half do. Here is a look at the ruling, which dismissed several charges against a doctor accused of cutting nine girls in three states as part of a religious custom, and what could happen next.
— Read on apnews.com/41a21048d86d499bafa1c869b2a00c17