Category: Parential Alienation-Child Abuse

Ann’s Behavior & Timing of Accident / Death

Child Abuse and Child Sex Trafficking. Ann had lots of trauma and this piece brings up many pertinent facts .

Read some of the comments . Another gal had a fatal car accident who worked with Ann on her documentary on child trafficking.

It’s also possible that this was staged as I’ve learned other have , altering their looks and life style in order to escape the shadow that corrupts small children .

I knew a gal who was molested by her Dad at 9 months , and yes like Ann , Mom knew and did nothing to protect her .

I had uneasy feelings about folks / family around our sons but the reality of what could have harmed them , when I wasn’t there is my reality .

I had that feeling leaving them with their Dad … and made my excursions short , but I realize too late how vulnerable they were and possibly brain washed in secretive ceremony, I wasn’t aware of until 2007 that ex was a member !?

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Lawyer : Industry of Family Law Fail

I am a lawyer.  It didn’t help me any.  We need to create a network of lawyers in all 50 States who are experts in this.  I have attended Family Law bar meetings (not lately) but the INDUSTRY of family law from a lawyer’s perspective is “for profit” and “winning.”  Until we have a group of lawyers that actively believe that the for profit/winning mentality is superceded by saving a relationship (good luck) no one ever can win.

We need to start collating cases.  That means, having court observers, reading the dockets for your county, and finding ALL the targeted parents.  I am sure everyone knows the AMBER law, for a missing child, but there isn’t crap for the targeted parent.  Sadly as a pragmatist, and a survivor, venting is one thing, but changing things is another.  I want ANOTHER.  

This only works if this group wants to do the hard work.  I know that I LOST at every turn.  I was outsmarted and out maneuvered and I have exactly zero trust left.  None. I don’t trust anyone, anywhere.  Everything I did was used against me.  

Tonight on 60 minutes was a young man who started teaching the law to men in African prisons 13 years ago.  He is making change and was on Amanpour and 60 minutes.  Lawyers are smart.  They will find an answer to every answer.  So we have to be smarter.

I have lost both my children.  I have nothing better to do for the rest of my life.   Who wants to do this?  Not alone.  I can’t do it alone.  I waited to long. 

NOT ALONE.

We are not there yet : Your Child Really Loves You

I know what you are thinking…

My alienated child hates me.
No true, your child is being brainwashed to reject you.
Your child really loves you.

Maybe I wasn’t a good parent.
Not true, you were and are an awesome parent- no doubts.

My child is going to forget all the good times we had.
Not true. Your child remembers everything and wants to have you back in their life. They can’t right now; they are trying to survive.

My child talks badly about me to their friends.
Believe it or not- they don’t. They praise you and sometimes brag about you.

My child will never come back to me.
A bond between a biological child and a parent is almost impossible to break. There is a very good chance that once they gain clarity on what happened to them, they will reach out to you.

My child is probably going to be screwed up for the rest of their life.
Not true. Alienated kids are survivors with incredible resilience. They know how to adapt, show allegiance and fight for what they believe.

I am never going to be happy unless my child is back in my life.
Oh, not true. While your child is gone, this is a wonderful opportunity for you to work on you and develop positive self esteem. This is your time to be happy despite your pain. Make friends, meditate, pray, take long walks… Get ready…So when they return, they can say- “ Wow, my Mom/Dad is sooo awesome!”

You are beautiful, unique and special❤️

Incoming Light ❤️‍🩹

LADY NADA – INTENSE WAKE UP

Brothers and sisters, there’s a solar light tube coming to Earth. It comes directly from the Sun of Alcyone and will flood this planet with an intensity of light never seen before in this universe’s dial.

This light will increase the energy of awakening exponentially. It is this energy, which we have been waiting for a long time, that will allow the mass awakening.

Beloved, be ready to assist your brothers and sisters in this great time, when the forces of light will become visible to all humanity.

There will be billions of beings waking up from their deep slumber of incarnation immersion and this will be wonderful but it will also require a lot of balance from you light workers who are already awake and ready for this mom What the heck.

It’s been years of preparation and we are certain that you are more than ready to assume your spiritual guidance role in this new phase of the Ascension journey.

Beloved, this violet light tube comes to transmute energies that are being released from you and it will have a significant impact on all men and women, without distinction, on the Planet.

It’s an event of monumental proportions and will push everyone to make the final decision: to accept the light or declare themselves permanently bound to the third dimension. There will be no one else in the fence and that will be clear to everyone.

This volume of purple energy will unleash an intense wave of spiritual awakening, bringing out the best and the worst in your society.

There will be no more mistakes, you will recognize from your attitudes and speeches who will embrace awakening and who will choose to remain immersed in the energies of physical density and polarized of three-dimensionality.

Listen, dear ones, carefully and unconditionally love all those who hinder your way.

Help those who come seeking help and answers.

As for others, listen with gratitude and compassion to their loving lamentations and sorrows, but do not in any case enter into argument or conflict.

Accept the free will of every being. Offer your friendly shoulder to everyone and simply walk away from any conflict.

Remember that you are the anchors of awakening and your brothers and sisters are expected to find within you the balance and peace that the Ascension energy brings.

There are countless ways this awakening will present itself.

The only thing that matters is that people are guided to follow the path of their heart.

Love must flow naturally from your lips and gestures, because you too will be touched by the intensity of the energy.

We remember all the steps and initiations you have already taken to be ready for this moment. Therefore, be tolerant and patient with your brothers and sisters who may be confused and thirsty for information and care.

You, brothers and sisters, will have the opportunity to practice your mastery. This will be the time to put everything you have learned during the years of internalization in the quest of self-mastery into practice.

We, the Ascended Masters, will work with you, side by side, intimately connected with your higher selves, to give you the support you need at this great time.

My dear ones, it is with great joy that I bring you this news. We know many of you are looking forward to this moment, which will be a historic milestone. Everything will fall apart before and after this collective awakening.

And do not forget: offer love, only love to all beings, even those physically distant, because even your energetic reach will increase in proportion to this new wave of light arriving on the planet.

Be at peace and joyfully celebrate this great event that the Divine Hierarchy will bring you.

With gratitude and love, I salute you.

I am Master Nada and I offer you my peace.

NEW EARTH that is rising

Laureate G Goncalves

Via Maria Bodnariuc

Amen Alpha Omega Om Om Om Om

Life Lessons

10 THINGS TIME HAS TAUGHT ME

1. Most of our life is spent chasing false goals and worshipping false ideals. The day you realise that is the day you really start to live.

2. You really, truly cannot please all of the people all of the time. Please yourself first and your loved ones second, everyone else is busy pleasing themselves anyway, trust me.

3. Fighting the ageing process is like trying to catch the wind. Go with it, enjoy it. Your body is changing, but it always has been. Don’t waste time trying to reverse that, instead change your mindset to see the beauty in the new.

4. Nobody is perfect and nobody is truly happy with their lot. When that sinks in you are free of comparison and free of judgement. It’s truly liberating.

5. No one really sees what you do right, everyone sees what you do wrong. When that becomes clear to you, you will start doing things for the right reason and you will start having so much more fun.

6. You will regret the years you spent berating your looks, the sooner you can make peace with the vessel your soul lives in, the better. Your body is amazing and important but it does not define you.

7. Your health is obviously important but stress, fear and worry are far more damaging than any delicious food or drink you may deny yourself. Happiness and peace are the best medicine.

8. Who will remember you and for what, become important factors as you age. Your love and your wisdom will live on far longer than any material thing you can pass down. Tell your stories, they can travel farther than you can imagine.

9. We are not here for long but if you are living against the wind it can feel like a life-sentence. Life should not feel like a chore, it should feel like an adventure.

10. Always, always, drink the good champagne and use the things you keep for ‘best’. Tomorrow is guaranteed to no one. Today is a gift that’s why we call it the present. Eat, Drink (or don’t) & Be Merry.

Donna Ashworth

From ‘To The Women: words to live by’

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Masculinity

MARS now enters the intrepid Gemini, and the SUN will enter analytical Virgo in a few hours. Both masculine planets enter mental signs, where their activity is most potent and raw.

As they come to square each other, they also hit off Chiron in Aries, triggering issues around wounded masculinity and how men, particularly, currently feel about themselves.

The transit stresses circumstances about what it means to be a man, and conflicts generate internal questions about whether individuals lack a sense of masculinity at some level.

Coping with this dilemma may see men acting out by outright rejecting masculinity as bogus or outdated or by overcompensating, trying to demonstrate to others (and themselves) that they are ‘real’ men.

Either extreme is troubling, and we best stay mindful that the next few days could evoke crises which may require our tender understanding and support…

[pic: Vanessa Alan]

No Future in sticking by Narcissist

One of the reasons it’s so hard to accept the narcissist for who they are is believing they think the same way we do.⁠

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They repeat the script and we believe them.⁠

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Their script keeps the fantasy alive in our minds that they care, that we’re deeply connected to them, and that we have a special bond with them that no one understands.⁠

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Only…this is nothing more than a storyline we keep alive in our imagination (with the narcissist’s help, of course).⁠

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The truth is too painful, so we deny the reality that keeps playing out before us, even in the face of unquestionable proof.⁠

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We project our empathy and compassion onto them, falling prey to the idea that they’re just a hurt soul who is trying to live and survive like anyone else.⁠

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And all while you’re giving them second chances and the benefit of the doubt, they’re planning on ways to destroy you…it’s only a matter of time.⁠

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I promise you that if you’re dealing with a narcissist, they may pretend to be a decent person here and there, but you will be hit with the shock of their deceit…and probably sooner than later.⁠

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Which will later lead to crippling feelings of anger and revenge. You will be so consumed with hatred for them, you won’t be able to see straight.⁠

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You’ll be so obsessed with feelings of revenge, you won’t be able to function in everyday life.⁠

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How can I say this so confidently? Because not only do I hear it from my students and clients (every day), I experienced these feelings myself.⁠

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If you’re struggling to detach from the narcissist, to resist their hoovering, or are feeling fed up with yourself for the number of times you’ve forgiven them, chances are it’s because you’ve bought into one or more of their schemes.

8th Monkey

Put 8 monkeys in a room. In the middle of the room is a ladder, leading to a bunch of bananas hanging from a hook on the ceiling. Each time a monkey tries to climb the ladder, all the monkeys are sprayed with ice water, which makes them miserable.

Soon enough, whenever a monkey attempts to climb the ladder, all of the other monkeys, not wanting to be sprayed on, set upon him and beat him up. Soon, none of the eight monkeys ever attempts to climb the ladder.

One of the original monkeys is then removed, and a new monkey is put in the room. Seeing the bananas and the ladder, he wonders why none of the other monkeys are doing the obvious. But undaunted, he immediately begins to climb the ladder.

All the other monkeys fall upon him and beat him silly and he has no idea why. However, he no longer attempts to climb the ladder.

A second original monkey is removed and replaced. The newcomer again attempts to climb the ladder, but all the other monkeys hammer the crap out of him. This includes the previous new monkey,

who, grateful that he’s not on the receiving end this time, participates in the beating because all the other monkeys are doing it. However, he has no idea why he’s attacking the new monkey. One by one, all the original monkeys are replaced.

Eight new monkeys are now in the room. None of them have ever been sprayed by ice water. None of them attempt to climb the ladder. All of them will enthusiastically beat up any new monkey who tries, without having any idea why.

That is how traditions, religion and ethnic profiling get established and followed.

Think twice before following a tradition, religion or negative ethnic profiling. It would make more sense if you get your own understanding to it!

-Author Unknown

Love A Woman

“If you want to change the world . . . love a woman — really love her.

Find the one who calls to your soul, who doesn’t make sense.

Throw away your check list and put your ear to her heart and listen.

Hear the names, the prayers, the songs of every living thing —

every winged one, every furry and scaled one,

every underground and underwater one, every green and flowering one,

every not yet born and dying one . . .

Hear their melancholy praises back to the One who gave them life.

If you haven’t heard your own name yet, you haven’t listened long enough.

If your eyes aren’t filled with tears, if you aren’t bowing at her feet, you haven’t ever grieved having almost lost her.

If you want to change the world . . . love a woman — one woman

beyond yourself, beyond desire and reason,

beyond your male preferences for youth, beauty and variety

and all your superficial concepts of freedom.

We have given ourselves so many choices

we have forgotten that true liberation

comes from standing in the middle of the soul’s fire

and burning through our resistance to Love.

There is only one Goddess.

Look into Her eyes and see — really see

if she is the one to bring the axe to your head.

If not, walk away. Right now.

Don’t waste time “trying.”

Know that your decision has nothing to do with her

because ultimately it’s not with who,

but when we choose to surrender.

If you want to change the world . . . love a woman.

Love her for life — beyond your fear of death,

beyond your fear of being manipulated

by the Mother inside your head.

Don’t tell her you’re willing to die for her.

Say you’re willing to LIVE with her,

plant trees with her and watch them grow.

Be her hero by telling her how beautiful she is in her vulnerable majesty,

by helping her to remember every day that she IS Goddess

through your adoration and devotion.

If you want to change the world . . . love a woman

in all her faces, through all her seasons

and she will heal you of your schizophrenia —

your double-mindedness and half-heartedness

which keeps your Spirit and body separate —

which keeps you alone and always looking outside your Self

for something to make your life worth living.

There will always be another woman.

Soon the new shiny one will become the old dull one

and you’ll grow restless again, trading in women like cars,

trading in the Goddess for the latest object of your desire.

Man doesn’t need any more choices.

What man needs is Woman, the Way of the Feminine,

of Patience and Compassion, non-seeking, non-doing,

of breathing in one place and sinking deep intertwining roots

strong enough to hold the Earth together

while she shakes off the cement and steel from her skin.

If you want to change the world . . . love a woman, just one woman.

Love and protect her as if she is the last holy vessel.

Love her through her fear of abandonment

which she has been holding for all of humanity.

No, the wound is not hers to heal alone.

No, she is not weak in her codependence.

If you want to change the world . . . love a woman

all the way through

until she believes you,

until her instincts, her visions, her voice, her art, her passion,

her wildness have returned to her —

until she is a force of love more powerful

than all the political media demons who seek to devalue and destroy her.

If you want to change the world,

lay down your causes, your guns and protest signs.

Lay down your inner war, your righteous anger

and love a woman . . .

beyond all of your striving for greatness,

beyond your tenacious quest for enlightenment.

The holy grail stands before you

if you would only take her in your arms

and let go of searching for something beyond this intimacy.

What if peace is a dream which can only be re-membered

through the heart of Woman?

What if a man’s love for Woman, the Way of the Feminine

is the key to opening Her heart?

If you want to change the world . . . love a woman

to the depths of your shadow,

to the highest reaches of your Being,

back to the Garden where you first met her,

to the gateway of the rainbow realm

where you walk through together as Light as One,

to the point of no return,

to the ends and the beginning of a new Earth.”

~ Lisa Citore

If You Want to Change the World, Love a Woman (2008)

Art: Chie Yoshii

Chie Yoshii

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