Tag: survivors

Why aren’t Americans getting married? – Deseret News

Interviews with the 30/40 years olds years back, stated they would have

” beta marriages ” , and receive every 10 years , and separate if the relationship wasn’t doing well without a lot of legal interference.

The 2023 American Family Survey finds fewer people think marriage is essential. Experts talk about stable families and what children need to thrive. Read more
— Read on www.deseret.com/2023/12/5/23973225/american-attitudes-about-marriage-survey

Your intentions set the way – Current Energy

THE WORK YOU’VE BEEN DOING, MIXED WITH THE ENERGIES OF THE NOW,

HAVE WORKED THEIR MAGIC!

YOU have the power within you!

You have gone through the eye of the proverbial needle.

All of these energies, day after day, have helped you to purge and clear, while you’ve upgraded your system.

Allowing YOU to feel and embrace the Quantum YOU more than ever before.

This is YOUR time.

The Energies are at their highest levels ever as your body expands to meet them.

Your new found powers are coming online.

You are able to manifest your life like never before.

You might have been on auto drive this whole time. Not realizing that you created the entirety of your world around you.

But now, you KNOW it to be true. Things don’t just happen. YOU MAKE THEM HAPPEN!

But it’s not about force, it’s about your vibration and YOUR attention.

Where your attention goes, your energy flows.

Your attention is the most powerful thing you have. You could say it’s your currency.

ATTENTION = ENERGY

ENERGY = MANIFESTATION

Spend time watching mainstream news, social media, and 3d realm anxiety. Your attention will manifest what you see and feel all around you.

Spend time in nature, meditation, self love, or doing things that bring you joy. Your attention will manifest overwhelming love and abundance.

Don’t overthink it. Allow your system to work for you.

If you want to Create Your World, start setting Intentions.

You can set Intentions all day long to Manifest just what you want or need in your life.

You have the power now, and things are happening fast.

Try Using Intentions, Manifest Your Life, Allow It!!

You are Divine, after all—time to start using those Divine powers.

As you know, everything can and will change in the blink of an eye.

This life is FOR and about YOU, so enjoy every moment!

Much love and light,

-SA Smith

AGirlintheUniverse.com

Easy Way Out – Sherrie Campbell PH D

It is easy to judge survivors who have created distance from, or no contact with, their family. It’s easy to judge an experience that one has never traveled. It’s easy to judge because outsiders do not have the full context on anyone else’s life. These outsiders don’t know what is going through a survivor’s mind or heart, let alone the events that have shaped them into the person they are today.

It is easy to be egotistical and unkind. It easy to attack survivors and call them liars. It is easy to attack the books they read, the therapists who are helping them navigate how to protect themselves from their abusive family. It is easy to attack the social media experts survivors turn to when they have nowhere else to go for support. It is easy to claim that survivors who have cut off from their families have been encouraged and manipulated to do by these experts.

Our abusive family members and their flying monkeys will always do what is easy; attack and judge. They consistently take the way that requires the least amount of effort, accountability and self-examination.

Remember, you are worth far more than the easy way out.

Akiko Busch: ‘Mrs. Dalloway’ Shows Aging Has Benefits – The Atlantic

My invisibility began in my early 30’s

As they age, women experience less public scrutiny—and entertain a wider set of choices about when and how they are seen.
— Read on www.theatlantic.com/entertainment/archive/2019/02/akiko-busch-mrs-dalloway-shows-aging-has-benefits/583480/

Enriched

“The years have touched her only to enrich her; the flower of her youth had not faded; it only hung more quietly on its stem.”

Henry James – The Portrait of a Lady, 1880’s.

Miriam Escofet – An Angel at My Table (portrait of the artist’s mother), Winner of the BP Portrait Award 2018.

Touch Starvation – Associated with Narcissist

This was treated like it was normal. Romantic gestures , kisses , hugs , intimacy were not part of marriage . It was deadly to my spirit and my soul , yet I held faith that change would come ..I think I became fearful of what life would be like with 3 small sons .. I learned to pick my battles in an time when there was soooo much going on . Discovering I had been responsible for everything except his day to day work, was daunting …

My body spoke to me when I quit smoking , Xanax covered and smothered my symptoms , as my highly sensitive self became an addict quickly and overdosed which was seen as bipolar ..

Touch was just one weapon in the brutality of a man at war , and is in charge ..

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Narcissist Never Ever

Don’t be fooled. The new supply will eventually learn the truth. And they will experience the slow fall off the pedestal as the narcissist devalues them and continues their perpetual search for new supply.

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