Empath’s fail , being vulnerable in sharing
shame , and having just 1 person who hears
you . I gave up trying to please those folks
who don’t earn the right, or hold space for
my story …
I’m getting more discerning , failing to acknowledge
the no shows , grateful for the brave hearts who
try ; knowing and doing better ..
Newton’s Law :
For every action ….
Shame by Brene’ Brown
I have a few ideas on why I fall into the HSP , but I
tested 100% , 15 years ago.. A tad too vulnerable , many
life lessons and my surrender to evolving in my highest
mission, having been judged unfit , in the very soul of my
being , began the self love and nurture necessary , to open
healing , trust and openings of Beloveds , returns of others
and allowance of my seed planting , rooting beautifully
as well as stuck areas , in statuary of my space , I feel
what I feel, eat, sleep, bathe , function fully open to receive
all that is in my highest good..
Tonight , I was given a green light, all is in alighnment , my/ our
story , the manifestation of all my deepest desires . Not replacing
but a brand new dance, joy in my heart, fun, tenderness ,
solid foundations upon which family is most assuredly to thrive
to bloom in liberation of spirit , of desire instead of need, of
fullness, instead of lack. Of creation of something each day
if but an omelette ! Of being proud of progress, forgiving of
errors , and every day understanding that each person is
doing their best and has their own soul purpose.
I don’t feel odd for my sensitivity , knowing the gift once I
gather the information, and the ” tools” of protecting
my space.
Repeating I think, I can I think I can, despite the shadow’s
multi attempts to thwart me, I accept I am multidimensional .
Take this test and find out if you’re a Highly Sensitive Person.
— Read on hsperson.com/test/highly-sensitive-test/
Just finding this tonight, and knowing the tendency to
consider cuss words vulgar, or evil, I keep reading that
it’s a sign of high intelligence.
FAQ: The Status of the Shits Women Have Left to Give – McSweeney’s Internet Tendency
— Read on www.mcsweeneys.net/articles/faq-the-status-of-the-shits-women-have-left-to-give
I would agree, creativity , and imagination
bode better outcomes that the forced nonsense
included in schools . Teach the child what they
need , not what it’s thought they should know
makes for a child with creative imagination
and skills of unity in projects.
Toy company funds research suggesting educational development can be hindered by early formal schooling. So are UK schools getting it wrong?
— Read on www.theguardian.com/education/2016/mar/15/children-learn-play-age-eight-lego
‘Immature people falling in love destroy each other’s freedo’m, create a bondage, make a prison. Mature persons in love help each other to be free; they help each other to destroy all sorts of bondages. And when love flows with freedom there is beauty. When love flows with dependence there is ugliness.
A mature person does not fall in love, he or she rises in love. Only immature people fall; they stumble and fall down in love. Somehow they were managing and standing. Now they cannot manage and they cannot stand. They were always ready to fall on the ground and to creep. They don’t have the backbone, the spine; they don’t have the integrity to stand alone.
A mature person has the integrity to stand alone. And when a mature person gives love, he or she gives without any strings attached to it. When two mature persons are in love, one of the great paradoxes of life happens, one of the most beautiful phenomena: they are together and yet tremendously alone. They are together so much that they are almost one. Two mature persons in love help each other to become more free. There is no politics involved, no diplomacy, no effort to dominate. Only freedom and love.’
~ Osho ♥️
I had a huge breakthrough in the Shame gig , so
worthy that I know I personally don’t have to go
there , nor allow anyone or anything to take me
to that place ..
I totally get it, and all it’s fall out , and have empathy
for anyone holding shame .
Allowing myself to be vulnerable , is part of my 51 out of
55 score on emotional intelligence .. My words , my actions
are catching up with my score 🙏🏼
10 years , a respite , that far from being frustrating , has
liberated me in many ways , as well as wishing to
be totally cleared and regenerated for Beloved .
A true new beginning ..🤩😍
Push your negative thoughts surrounding masturbation and self-love to the side.
— Read on www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/celibacy-and-the-spirituality-of-masturbation_us_593940aae4b0b65670e567d6
Dylan Lenox and David Lewis were confused as a same-sex couple before setting the record straight about their relationship.
— Read on www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/photo-girl-5-posing-birth-dad-bonus-dad-father-daughter-dance-goes-viral-224144393.html
They asked me to tell you what it was like to be twenty and pregnant in 1950 and when you tell your boyfriend you’re pregnant, he tells you about a friend of his in the army whose girl told him she was pregnant, so he got all his buddies to come and say,
*** ” We all fucked her, so who knows who the father is?” And he laughs at the good joke….
( This was the threat against my Mom at 17)
What was it like, if you were planning to go to graduate school and get a degree and earn a living so you could support yourself and do the work you loved—what it was like to be a senior at Radcliffe and pregnant and if you bore this child, this child which the law demanded you bear and would then call “unlawful,” “illegitimate,” this child whose father denied it … What was it like? […]
It’s like this: if I had dropped out of college, thrown away my education, depended on my parents … if I had done all that, which is what the anti-abortion people want me to have done, I would have borne a child for them, … the authorities, the theorists, the fundamentalists; I would have born a child for them, their child.
But I would not have born my own first child, or second child, or third child. My children.
The life of that fetus would have prevented, would have aborted, three other fetuses … the three wanted children, the three I had with my husband—whom, if I had not aborted the unwanted one, I would never have met … I would have been an “unwed mother” of a three-year-old in California, without work, with half an education, living off her parents….
But it is the children I have to come back to, my children Elisabeth, Caroline, Theodore, my joy, my pride, my loves. If I had not broken the law and aborted that life nobody wanted, they would have been aborted by a cruel, bigoted, and senseless law. They would never have been born. This thought I cannot bear.
What was it like, in the Dark Ages when abortion was a crime, for the girl whose dad couldn’t borrow cash, as my dad could? What was it like for the girl who couldn’t even tell her dad, because he would go crazy with shame and rage? Who couldn’t tell her mother? Who had to go alone to that filthy room and put herself body and soul into the hands of a professional criminal? – because that is what every doctor who did an abortion was, whether he was an extortionist or an idealist.
You know what it was like for her. You know and I know; that is why we are here. We are not going back to the Dark Ages. We are not going to let anybody in this country have that kind of power over any girl or woman. There are great powers, outside the government and in it, trying to legislate the return of darkness. We are not great powers. But we are the light. Nobody can put us out. May all of you shine very bright and steady, today and always.
Ursula K. Le Guin
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