Tag: legacy

Christmas for the targeted parent

I know that a lot of you are not going to be with you child this Christmas. For some of you this will the first time you have this experience, for others you will have already been through this difficult period.

Whilst you cannot control the situation, you can control how you choose to respond.

Top tip # 1 – Keep yourself busy and try to make sure that you are with other people on Christmas Day and ideally other days as well.

Your X wants you to be feeling lonely and miserable, why do their job for them? If you are feeling sad and miserable, this will not impact what your children are doing. If you are managing to find comfort and even some happiness being with others, this will also not impact what your children are doing. It only impacts you!

Find some things that you want to do and which you have been denying yourself, such as treats or experiences. Book it and do it.

Push yourself to get out and do things, you will thank yourself later that you did.

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I personally know that x wants me to be low and emotional during this holiday season, and that just ain’t happening. It was not an unusual Xmas and I was home on my own…

X wishes me unalive , so grief filled that he can feed off that energy .

Once I accepted his shadow- demonic intentions, I just stayed intent and focused in my work/rest .

X as most Narcissists do, loves when I’m ill, and vulnerable , it consumes him , to seek revenge due to my silence .

I emailed x a plan to resolve the financial issues and business related problems mid month . No response .

I wrote our sons on the 25 th , wishing them a happy and safe holiday sharing my proposal email to x , which was generous given that he was illegal.

I’m sure he knows and is slinging some negative energy my way , though I have expressed that what he hexes me with is going coming back compounded to him.

He’s in control , no higher power , just him, his vendetta to shut me up and Divine has an accounting of all he has abused.

It’s his fate .

I know that a lot of you are not going to be with you child this Christmas. For some of you this will the first time you have this experience, for others you will have already been through this difficult period.

Whilst you cannot control the situation, you can control how you choose to respond.

Top tip # 1 – Keep yourself busy and try to make sure that you are with other people on Christmas Day and ideally other days as well.

Your X wants you to be feeling lonely and miserable, why do their job for them? If you are feeling sad and miserable, this will not impact what your children are doing. If you are managing to find comfort and even some happiness being with others, this will also not impact what your children are doing. It only impacts you!

Find some things that you want to do and which you have been denying yourself, such as treats or experiences. Book it and do it.

Push yourself to get out and do things, you will thank yourself later that you did.

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Elders Remind us

15 REMINDERS FROM THE ELDERS:

1. Get up with the sun to pray. Pray alone.

2. Be tolerant of those who have lost their way. Ignorance, presumption, anger, jealousy and greed come from a lost soul. Pray for them to find guidance.

3. Find yourself, by your own means. Do not let others make your path for you. It is your path, and only yours. Others may walk with you, but no one can make your way (or walk your path) for you.

4. Treat guests in your home with great consideration. Serve them the best food, give them the best bed and treat them with respect and honor.

5. Do not take what is not yours, whether from a person, a community, from the jungle or from a culture. It was not given or won. It is not yours.

6. Respect all the things that are on this earth, be they people, plants and animals.

7. Honor the thoughts, desires and words of all people. Never break them in, or make fun of them, or imitate them rudely. It gives each person the right to their personal expression.

8. Never talk about others in a bad way. The negative energy you put into the universe will multiply when it returns to you.

9. All people make mistakes. And all the mistakes can be forgiven.

10. Bad thoughts cause illness to the mind, body and spirit. Practice optimism.

11. Nature is not FOR us. It is PART of us. She’s part of your family in the world.

12. Children are the seeds of our future. Sow love in your hearts and water them with wisdom and life lessons. When they grow up, just give them space to grow up.

13. Avoid hurting the hearts of others. The poison of their suffering will return to you.

14. Be true (transparent ) all the time. Honesty is the test of one’s will in this universe.

15. Keep yourself balanced. Your Mental person, your Spiritual person, your Emotional person, and your Physical person: they all have the need to be strong, pure and healthy.

Mary Maddox , Ireland : survivor of psychiatric abuse

I was 52 when I finally managed to become free from prescription, psychotropic drugs. I was on lithium, Sermontil and Largactil very longterm. I was on tons of psychotropic drugs before then. Like most people labelled by psychiatry, I was a guinea pig. Guinea pigs or any other animals should not the treated this way either. I know other people labelled by psychiatry have had even more horrific journeys. I share mine because most of them are kept hidden. I also know that FaceBook and many other powerful media platforms don’t help but In spite of this I do find support and solidarity. It is better to do something no matter how little it may seem than nothing a all! This picture was taken at my 60th birthday party not long before our first grandchild, Lexie was born! She, Annalise and Harry have filled my life with joy. Thankfully I lived to be free to be part of their precious lives.

Your intentions set the way – Current Energy

THE WORK YOU’VE BEEN DOING, MIXED WITH THE ENERGIES OF THE NOW,

HAVE WORKED THEIR MAGIC!

YOU have the power within you!

You have gone through the eye of the proverbial needle.

All of these energies, day after day, have helped you to purge and clear, while you’ve upgraded your system.

Allowing YOU to feel and embrace the Quantum YOU more than ever before.

This is YOUR time.

The Energies are at their highest levels ever as your body expands to meet them.

Your new found powers are coming online.

You are able to manifest your life like never before.

You might have been on auto drive this whole time. Not realizing that you created the entirety of your world around you.

But now, you KNOW it to be true. Things don’t just happen. YOU MAKE THEM HAPPEN!

But it’s not about force, it’s about your vibration and YOUR attention.

Where your attention goes, your energy flows.

Your attention is the most powerful thing you have. You could say it’s your currency.

ATTENTION = ENERGY

ENERGY = MANIFESTATION

Spend time watching mainstream news, social media, and 3d realm anxiety. Your attention will manifest what you see and feel all around you.

Spend time in nature, meditation, self love, or doing things that bring you joy. Your attention will manifest overwhelming love and abundance.

Don’t overthink it. Allow your system to work for you.

If you want to Create Your World, start setting Intentions.

You can set Intentions all day long to Manifest just what you want or need in your life.

You have the power now, and things are happening fast.

Try Using Intentions, Manifest Your Life, Allow It!!

You are Divine, after all—time to start using those Divine powers.

As you know, everything can and will change in the blink of an eye.

This life is FOR and about YOU, so enjoy every moment!

Much love and light,

-SA Smith

AGirlintheUniverse.com

High Expectations May Be Damaging Our Kids, Study Shows

Are your high expectations of your children doing more harm than good? According to a recent study, they just might be. Keep reading to learn more.
— Read on www.creativehealthyfamily.com/high-expectations-damage-kids-study/

Akiko Busch: ‘Mrs. Dalloway’ Shows Aging Has Benefits – The Atlantic

My invisibility began in my early 30’s

As they age, women experience less public scrutiny—and entertain a wider set of choices about when and how they are seen.
— Read on www.theatlantic.com/entertainment/archive/2019/02/akiko-busch-mrs-dalloway-shows-aging-has-benefits/583480/

Enriched

“The years have touched her only to enrich her; the flower of her youth had not faded; it only hung more quietly on its stem.”

Henry James – The Portrait of a Lady, 1880’s.

Miriam Escofet – An Angel at My Table (portrait of the artist’s mother), Winner of the BP Portrait Award 2018.

Touch Starvation – Associated with Narcissist

This was treated like it was normal. Romantic gestures , kisses , hugs , intimacy were not part of marriage . It was deadly to my spirit and my soul , yet I held faith that change would come ..I think I became fearful of what life would be like with 3 small sons .. I learned to pick my battles in an time when there was soooo much going on . Discovering I had been responsible for everything except his day to day work, was daunting …

My body spoke to me when I quit smoking , Xanax covered and smothered my symptoms , as my highly sensitive self became an addict quickly and overdosed which was seen as bipolar ..

Touch was just one weapon in the brutality of a man at war , and is in charge ..

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