Quality of Mom’s happiness has most effects on baby/child thriving

I had to consider my Mom , who was someone I tried to avoid due to her moods and distance …

Sad 😢

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Rediscovering yourself – Ending daily trauma with a Narcissist/ Gabor Mate’

Yes 💯🙌🙏❤️

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Full Moon Aries 10/14/2024

“Just by being yourself,

That’s how you are of service to others,

whether you know it or not.

Just walking down the street being yourself, smiling, radiating happiness

and fulfillment.

How do you know that some other person walking down the street won’t just observe you and go, ‘That person makes me feel so much better. Today I was having a lousy day but now, seeing that person smile,

they’ve changed my day.’ And you never even meet that person.

“How do you know you’re not being of service just by being yourself?

Don’t think it has to look a certain way. Don’t think you even have to know about it. You are being your service when you are YOU because being YOU is your purpose in life. And when you are being YOU, you have no idea how many other people you’re affecting. You may never know.

“But you do know you are doing what you need to do to be YOU. That’s the only way you can be of service, just by being you.

If you’re someone else, how can you be of service to anyone? Because you’re not there for them to find. So trust the unfoldment of your path and know that every step along the way when You are Being Authentically YOU, You are Being of Service, whether you know it or not.”

~ Bashar, through Darryl Anka, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0tRjn3WiJXc

Love is no easy path ❤️🙌

Sometimes people walk away from love because it is so beautiful that it terrifies them. Sometimes they leave because the connection shines a bright light on their dark places and they are not ready to work them through. Sometimes they run away because they are not developmentally prepared to merge with another- they have more individuation work to do first. Sometimes they take off because love is not a priority in their lives- they have another path and purpose to walk first. Sometimes they end it because they prefer a relationship that is more practical than conscious, one that does not threaten the ways that they organize reality. Because so many of us carry shame, we have a tendency to personalize love’s leavings, triggered by the rejection and feelings of abandonment. But this is not always true. Sometimes it has nothing to do with us. Sometimes the one who leaves is just not ready to hold it safe. Sometimes they know something we don’t- they know their limits at that moment in time. Real love is no easy path- readiness is everything. May we grieve loss without personalizing it. May we learn to love ourselves in the absence of the lover. ~Jeff Brown

Changing the World – Tahlia Hunter

Patience visited me

And it reminded me

That good things take time

to come to fruition

And grow slowly with stability

Peace visited me

And it reminded me

That I may remain Calm

through the storms of life

Regardless of the chaos surrounding me

Hope visited me

And it reminded me

That better times lay ahead

And it would Always be there

To guide and uplift me

Humility visited me

And it reminded me

That I may achieve it

Not by trying to shrink myself

and make myself less

But by Focusing on Serving the world

and Uplifting Those around me

Kindness visited me

And it reminded me

To be more Gentle, Forgiving and

Compassionate toward Myself

And Those surrounding me

Confidence visited me

And it reminded me

To not conceal or suppress

my gifts and talents

In order to make others

feel more comfortable

But to Embrace what makes me me

Focus visited me

And it reminded me

That other people’s insecurities and judgements about me

Are not my problem

And I should redirect my attention

From others back to Me

Freedom visited me

And it reminded me

That no one has control over

my mindset, thoughts and wellbeing

But Me

And Love visited me

And it reminded me

That I need not search for it in others

As it lies Within me.

– Tahlia Hunter ❤️