Tag: grandchildren

Suddenly you were my everything

Exactly how I felt, knowing the exquisite, love of our 1st born , triggered his Dad , and much abuse of both of us proceeded .

However I have been targeted as the “ evil “ monster , and the distortion has destroyed our mother child relationship ..

That’s not acceptable to Divine ,whose got her hands on the steering wheel and will correct the abuser , who has never heard me on the effects of his distorted acts on our children and grandchildren . So glad to have as much closure as possible on my own, and to have healed through tremendous challenges , and this clears the generational abuses and traumas .

My maternal Grandfather with his parents . Grayson Oswald Thomason

Youngest son , named his 1st son Grayson, not knowing his great grandfather shared the name .. I waited a few days to share that news.. Our sons don’t claim my side of the family , just Dad’s

#ChildPsychologicalAbuse

Grandmother – Granddaughter – Child Psychological Abuse

My grandchildren just left and it’s so sad .I know it’s hard on any mother or father that going through this and the rest of the family .my grandchildren were brain washed into thinking their mom didn’t love them and she didn’t want them . My grand daughter told her mom today that she was going to leave something here that belonged to her so her mom wouldn’t forget her .I told her straight up that her mom has always wanted her and her brother. I left it at that I don’t know what else to say or do . We
Are grow up we know the truth of the matter but these children hasn’t had a choice in what they believe it was forced on them .my granddaughter doesn’t understand . She back talks her mom calls her names . Gives her a real hard time while they are here but when it’s time for them to leave my granddaughter can’t talk because she’s crying so hard . It hard on us but imagine the children’s feelings . They believe what has been forced in their little minds anyone that could do this to a child should not be allowed around children period . Myself I’m trying to have something done about this it’s not fair that the innocent have to pay for this .

44 Million @ Risk of Eviction Under Present Laws

This report is pretty through and points out the facts and adversity of landlord retaliation and abuse as rent cost rise and wages stay low . It’s not a legacy I wanted for myself or want for anyone .

Change must come soon .

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Mother in Law

The war never ended from her possession of her son . I gave up after years of trying ; once sitting with her and stating that it was ok if she didn’t care for me , that we could have some semblance of a relationship. She replied ” as a Christian, I’ve never met anyone that I didn’t like ” .

I understood her from that point on and witnessed her get hands on and loving towards our sons when someone was watching .

She was abusive to me openly and it was witnessed and he said nothing in my defense for it was very uncalled for .

I watched her smack at her 90 year old Mother’s hands for getting flour on the floor when making biscuits!

I believe her eldest children experienced a lot of trauma at her hands and he alluded to my having no idea .

I believe he found his Dad weak to her as she called him Mr _____ and he allowed her to rule . As he faded out , she lamented the place’s they would not be able to travel and her health challenges but how she couldn’t do her thing for taking care of him . His obit declared her a Daughter of the Eastern Star and he a 32nd degree Mason which I was unaware of ! Why the secret ?

She talked so sweetly to her daughters and never once had that tone with me .

Inviting her and sister in law to cook outs at our home stopped when the 4 huddled in one area as if too good to mingle with my parents.

My Mom’s Mom died close to Thanksgiving and we were eating at her house and as she said the prayer my Mom began to cry and had to leave the table , which was met with shame from her and I was so stunned I just sat there .

So as his partner and confidant I was used as leverage and as his ” crazy” drugged and vulnerable wife whom he just offered was sick or didn’t want to attend a family function , when he was ready to jump in with the new supply, she was totally supportive and our sons became possessions that could not betray her or their Dad by being in anyway supportive or compassionate toward me .

Mother in laws , aunts and wives have assumed the mother toll, discouraging any healing or connection with me as they admire her wealth and longevity. She is quite an artist and I’ve been told of her abuse towards our sons that was uncalled for .

I’m sure she feels she has a place in Heaven but to me she is demonic and hides under her know it all attitude and money/power .

I long ago allowed her to know I was not impressed and found the bond between she and her son unholy . He’s attached to her so deeply and it proved to destroy his relationship with his twin , another 20 years of leveraging a woman to get Mom’s favor and execute her finances !

God only knows what he’s pocketed , for anything he touches and wants belongs to him .

What a house of cards !!!

Mother In Law – Ted Talks

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Mother Love

I’ll be your voice

When you cannot speak

I’ll be your eyes

When you cannot see

I’ll be your heart

When you cannot feel

I’ll be your strength

When you feel you can’t go on

I’ll be your guide

When you’ve lost your way

I’ll be your hope

When you’ve lost faith in the world

I’ll be your confidence

When you’ve lost trust in yourself

I’ll be your biggest supporter

When your heart has been broken

I’ll be your inspiration

When you’ve lost motivation

I’ll be your compass

When you’ve lost direction

And I’ll be your mirror

When you cannot see your beauty

But as you grow, I won’t always be there

To support you and offer help

So I will teach you to do and be

All of the above for yourself

But in the meantime, I’ll do all I can and more

To help you flourish and thrive

And teach you to grow wings

So that you may one day fly.

– A love letter to my future children

Words by Tahlia Hunter

Artwork by Katie m. Berggren

There were those who found fault , silently , critically and in alignment with the judgement that children did not need their Mom after age 7 .

Our youngest was 6 when psychiatry intervened and I was never the same .

It only got worse , until it ended our family .

My intentions were to be there for our sons and educate them in ways their Dad was not as to self love , forgiveness , compassion and wholeness ✔️