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Let ‘Em Go Sherrie Campbell PhD

Wednesday Wisdom

Severely character disordered people aren’t going to change. When these people are your family or someone else you love dearly, this is a hard truth to accept. It is not that these people cannot change, it is that they see no need to change.

Why would they change if they don’t value love? Their approach to relationships is to take everything for themselves so they are happy. Yet, the irony is that there is never enough of anything or anyone that satisfies their needs for happiness.

Many question ask how our toxic family members can they be so totally okay when losing a relationships with us. The answer is, they don’t see it as their loss. They see our losing a relationship with them as our loss.

They do not allow themselves to take ownerships for the truth of why we end relationships with them because they never genuinely cared about our happiness to begin with.

Let them go. Move on. Find your happiness. Live your best life while they continue to live lying to themselves.

CERN Georgia’s Reaction via Stone

The 10 principals of man

kind for New Earth were

on those tablets of granite

even touching on reducing

our population.

Population control via the

New World Order .

Fingernails on the chalkboard

shadow ; you’ve exposed

yourself .

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Covert Narcissist

I’ve worked with many wonderful people who weren’t sure they were being subjected to narcissistic or emotional abuse because the person who was hurting them didn’t call them names or fly into narcissistic rages.⁣⁣

This is one of the traits of covert or “closet” narcissists. ⁣⁣

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I once knew a cerebral narcissist who was averse to shouting, yet he was very practiced at causing emotional pain in other ways.⁣⁣

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I know it’s hard to come to acceptance that someone you care about and love is narcissistic, or even a full-blown narcissist. This is partly due to having formed a trauma bond with them. Much like Stockholm Syndrome, targets of narcissistic abuse develop feelings of trust or affection towards their abuser. This is a survival mechanism.⁣⁣

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The main differences between these two phenomena are that with narcissistic abuse, you experience the same feelings as someone in a hostage situation…only instead of a stranger, it’s someone you know and love. And unlike a hostage situation consisting of a locked door or secret holding space, the prison is mostly in your own mind (owing, of course, to long-term manipulation and gaslighting).⁣⁣

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There are many ways narcissists implement and engage in emotional and narcissistic abuse. Listen to your gut. They may not meet every single criterion on whatever checklists you’ve seen, but it’s important to keep in mind that it only takes one pathological trait for a narcissist to destroy another person’s life. ⁣⁣

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