Wednesday Wisdom
Severely character disordered people aren’t going to change. When these people are your family or someone else you love dearly, this is a hard truth to accept. It is not that these people cannot change, it is that they see no need to change.
Why would they change if they don’t value love? Their approach to relationships is to take everything for themselves so they are happy. Yet, the irony is that there is never enough of anything or anyone that satisfies their needs for happiness.
Many question ask how our toxic family members can they be so totally okay when losing a relationships with us. The answer is, they don’t see it as their loss. They see our losing a relationship with them as our loss.
They do not allow themselves to take ownerships for the truth of why we end relationships with them because they never genuinely cared about our happiness to begin with.
Let them go. Move on. Find your happiness. Live your best life while they continue to live lying to themselves.
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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited
I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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