To Be a Woman

TO BE A WOMAN
‘What’s it like to be a woman?’a little bird whispered in my ear.‘Is it just like being human?’oh it is so much more, my dear.
We are the holders, we are the keepers,of the secrets and the truth.We are the safe place in a storm,the creator of all youth.
We are the place where life is softest,we are the colour in the story.We are the wisdom and the instinct,Mother Nature in all her glory.
We are the taker of all worry,we keep it deep within our heartsSo that others may unburden,so that great new lives may start.
We are the makers of the home,not just the walls but of the spirit.Bringing everyone together,letting love and laughter fill it.
We are sisters, mothers, wives,so many things in every day.We are the start of every life,we are the reason, we are the way.
We are fuelled by intuition,call it magic, if you likeWe are women, so much more,than any words that I could write.
Donna AshworthFrom ‘to the women’
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Art by Catrin Welz-Stein #catrinwelzsteinart 
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The Man who walks with the Healer

THE MAN WHO WALKS WITH THE HEALER
When a man chooses a woman who follows her calling, his only chance to maintain the connection is in following her… and above all in creating space for her to follow her own path.
It may happen that he needs to abandon his own neediness, or that he finds a means of healing through their common path – but not in the gentlest manner.
When a man chooses a woman who heals the collective wounds of the women by following her calling, his Yes for her equals a Yes to a bigger purpose far beyond building a house or raising children. Their connection goes beyond fulfilling the classical gender role models.
For this man accepts the job of having the back of this woman, of catching her when she cannot transform the pain of the world anymore. It means for him to welcome a different form of sexuality, since healing on the level of sexuality is one of the most profound issues of the woman who needs to become a healer.For him this, again, is about welcoming slowness, softness and healing – about holding back or redirecting his own drive… about being present for the whole.
Because when a man chooses a woman who aims for freedom, they can only achieve this together… and by him leaving his narcissistic aspects behind and recognizing the path of the woman as his own path towards freedom.
When a man chooses a woman who is bigger, he cannot dwell in the places of energies of oppression or of playing small. He – if he chooses to take on this mission with her – accepts a task serving the well-being of all men, even though it happens in the background. Within this background he creates space of security, of keeping her safe from an ambush bred by his own old wounds, driving her into submission.
When a man chooses a woman out of his fascination with her radiance and wisdom, it must be obvious to him that he cannot be stuck within his own deficits in a way that makes him want to diminish her radiance… purely out of fear of having to share her with others.
When a man chooses a woman who follows her calling, he cannot fear these words: respect, humility and surrender. He will rather walk the path of divinity – alongside his woman, the healer – with gratitude and an overflowing heart.
For such a woman will choose – if she ever needs to choose – in favour of the well-being of all women …and she will choose walking her path alone instead of leaving it for him. Nevertheless, she is aware of the power that lies in the presence of a man who is beating the drums… for her.
Author ~Moksha Devi Sunshine
🌀Nicole Sacred Wild Woman Medicine 
Artist~Autumn Skye Art

Watch “False Memories — Exploration By a Former Trauma Therapist” on YouTube

It is well know that trauma distorts the brain in shape

etc ..abuse \trauma as well..

I personally walked back a lot , for years accessing

memories and asking for help from family after waking

from 13 years of induced mental illness. I had lots of

time for this as years rolled by and and all was forgiven

and excused , psychiatric drugs adversely effected other

family members and children, but denial continued .

I had much memory come back , and over the years of

emesshment in someone else’s trauma,/ drama and

opinion , being targeted for daring to speak truth , to be

spiritual, to be responsible for everything and everybody

and be targeted for failing to serve the family , as I’ve

been told cost me rights with 2 innocent grandchildren .

This family code was forced , I was lulled , I fell in line to

a point and have found myself accused of all manner of

attrosities . Lots of details I cannot share at this time .

I have asked questions , studied , been counciled, isolate

from folks in huge increments of time to learn all I could

and I totally understand the dynamics of traumatic

memory etc , and denial of such has side effects . I made

many errors , in addiction to psychiatric drugs but I

might be a street addict for the judgements made and

carried out and judged for lack of awareness or other

The results cost children of healthy parents by legal

lethal addictions and stressors of being somebody are

erasing families .

Blessings & Peace

Dona Luna

Watch “Gaia Update: Taurus New Moon – Free Energy – May 11th/12th, 2021” on YouTube

I post this , laughing my head off at her very accurate

depiction of current energy ..I cannot share all that’s

recalibrating in my life , no fear as the unfolding

is confirmation and validation that ” Thy Will Is Done ”

and I know my worth and my will . I have support

and respect that has been building for 11 years

and yes I know I am in presence of many heavenly

bodies , and it’s my joy 💖 to share myself enough

to shine the light , the truth …their way is their

choice .

My fellow Pisces , I share my love 💕 and support

for you and pray for your restored energies and urge

you to rest and self nurture .

#11 is mentioned a lot , how exciting …Taking back

the magic of the number 11!

Eldest son , born 3/11 @ 11.11 and I seemed to be

the only one who had an awareness of the unique

timing my 1st born , a beautiful gift , an ” old soul”

to my 2/29 birthday , we were bonded oh high .

That was severed by psychiatry and a partner in

a state of distortion .

It’s being corrected , as Thy Will Is Done .

I have great faith and awareness born of many

influences that failed to take me from love and

peace .

🐸🌟🦕♀️💗✌️🙏💐

Blessings & Peace ,

Dona Luna

Surviving Parental Alienation during special events, holidays, and birthdays

Surviving Parental Alienation during special events, holidays, and birthdays

Surviving Parental Alienation during special events, holidays, and birthdays
— Read on parentalalienation-pas.com/2018/12/08/surviving-parental-alienation-during-special-events-holidays-and-birthdays/

Narcissistic Threat

From my Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist! @ https://www.amazon.com/Charm-Harm-Everything-Narcissist-Narcissistic/dp/1523820179/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1468595784&sr=1-1&keywords=from+charm+to+harm It all begins with the nightmare of going from being in love (idealized) to being hated (devalued and discarded.) Then discovering the web of deceit and lies at so many levels. Next coming to […]

via What are we grieving? The many stages of comprehension. This is a longer read but an important one that you can absorb over the weekend. — After Narcissistic Abuse