So worthy of transforming 🤓
A New York state school district is facing a storm of…
— Read on blavity.com/strip-search-of-four-black-girls-by-middle-school-officials-draws-outrage-from-parents-community-members-in-upstate-new-york
Tag: Domestic Abuse
All 5 of the Sebring shooter’s victims were women, police chief says – VICE News
This fall I had business with Suntrust , my former bank.
I took note of 3 males behind the counter of around age 25/30,
and 1 woman who came in from lunch , bearing the info
I needed ..
When SWAT got there, Xaver refused to allow them access to the victims.
— Read on news.vice.com/en_us/article/59xpdz/all-5-of-the-sebring-shooters-victims-were-women-police-chief-says
After he cross-examined me, my abuser was allowed to see our sons – and he killed them | Metro News
In the trying times now upon us , this becomes more prevalent,
more ghastly, in large part to the adversary driven professionals
who benefit from the fragmented relationships.
That belief has been very impressive in profit for the law, and
the family has been erased in competition , game playing
detachment and power.
Content warning: This article contains descriptions of domestic abuse and violence. It took just 15 minutes on 22 October 2014 for my world to end and my heart to be…
— Read on metro.co.uk/2019/01/22/after-he-cross-examined-me-the-courts-allowed-my-abusive-ex-to-see-our-sons-and-he-killed-them-8372846/
The real reason why women drink — Quartz
I am not a drinker, but I drank . In the society of professionals
there was very little in life that did not offer the opportunity
to drink alcohol. I did not witness the wee hours , in the home
of in laws that related 1st person, exposed the addictions.
There’s no denial, because it’s so normalized, a right of passage
as if drinking solidified your frat or sorority standing .
And wealth/influence .. it was common in detached parenting
homes especially noticeable in the 60s .
We can’t afford to live lives we have to fool ourselves into tolerating.
— Read on qz.com/762868/giving-up-alcohol-opened-my-eyes-to-the-infuriating-truth-about-why-women-drink/
Women given legal right to check partner’s past under new domestic violence law * NonGenderSpecific
A law named after the horrific killing of Clare Wood will give women the right to force police into revealing a persons history of violence – which could save thousands of lives
— Read on www.thesun.co.uk/news/8236730/women-legal-right-new-domestic-violence-law/
Why Family Courts Cannot Protect Children: ACE vs. PAS. * Cannot? Do not, just more abuse ..
Consequences
The essence of domestic violence is that abusers use a variety of tactics to scare and coerce their partners to do what the abuser wants. This results in the mother and children living in fear. There are ten adverse childhood experiences. In the context of a contested custody case, the child usually starts with a score of one for the parents separating, one for domestic violence and one for emotional abuse of the child. Fathers who abuse the mother are 40-60% more likely to also abuse the children physically and sexually. If both, that would increase the score to 5. If one or both parents have a substance abuse problem or mental illness those are two more possible points. Physical or emotional neglect are two more possibilities. Significantly all of the other ACEs are more likely when a father abuses a mother. An ACE score of 6 results in an average reduction in life expectancy of 20 years.
— Read on nomas.org/family-courts-protect-children-ace-vs-pas/
2 types of alienated children…which is yours? – Ryan Thomas Speaks
Accepted , in our suicidal culture as normal.
The side effects are equal to a sexually abused
child..those side effects don’t just go away.
Ryan Thomas, Child of Parental Alienation Helping Parents Reconnect
— Read on ryanthomasspeaks.com/blog-2/2-types-of-alienated-children-which-is-yours/
Teen killed herself at foster home, mother wishes she hadn’t obeyed ‘their rules’ | CBC News
Doing the best thing, or trusting the systems that protect children
cannot be justified, in too many instances to ignore.
Transformation time 🔚
The mother of a teen who killed herself while in the care of Child and Family Services says she should have kept seeing her daughter despite being told not to.
— Read on www.cbc.ca/news/canada/manitoba/teen-suicide-foster-home-mother-1.4501229
Trump administration quietly changes definition of “domestic violence” and “sexual assault” | Salon.com
The past devaluation of rape , and life long ramifications , towards
anyone , of any gender, race , and age has been exposed as unimportant
from stockpiles of unprocessed rape kits , and being further abused
in a culture of profession acceptance .. Transforming this , will be
a community effort , in a consciousness that does not the rape,
of children, ( molestation seems to desensitize an act that overpowers
a child , doing much harm) .
Healing modalities , love and acceptance await , as we lift the bar
to reconnect with sacred soul contracts , ending so many doing
so much harm.
Last April, Justice Department office on violence against women began to narrowly redefine its basic concepts
— Read on www.salon.com/2019/01/23/trump-administration-quietly-changes-definition-of-domestic-violence-and-sexual-assault/
The Trump administration quietly changed the definition of domestic violence.
The Admin Of Domestic Abuse, rules on their own abuse.
And of course, it’s not them, ever .
#MenAreDomesticallyAbused2
It is too early to assess the full impact of the change.
— Read on slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/01/trump-domestic-violence-definition-change.html
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