Tag: consciousness

Phrases That Kill Intimacy

Want to Feel Closer? How You Respond To Common Conversational Cues Can Make All The Difference
— Read on www.heartsintrueharmony.com/relationship-bliss/phrases-that-kill-intimacy.html

What It Looks Like To Have A Record Number Of Women In The House Of Representatives : NPR

It’s a beginning , balance in all things . Especially in those abled in

all ways to represent ” we”; not me .

The 116th Congress has 127 female members — 102 of them in the House. That’s far more than the previous record, but it also is far from gender parity.
— Read on www.npr.org/2019/01/04/678227272/what-it-looks-like-to-have-a-record-number-of-women-in-the-house-of-representati

In recovery — from antidepressants

This is beautiful, I had no one, and I erred ..took

much longer than it should have

Psychiatrists don’t know how to wean people off SSRIs — so patients are helping each other do it themselves.
— Read on sg.news.yahoo.com/recovery-antidepressants-patients-helping-withdraw-130646526.html

Harvard Study Shows the Dangers of Early School Enrollment | Intellectual Takeout

Instead of recognizing that schooling is the problem, we blame the kids.
— Read on www.intellectualtakeout.org/article/harvard-study-shows-dangers-early-school-enrollment

The Legal Argument Package – Dr. Craig Childress: Attachment Based “Parental Alienation” (AB-PA)

Forensic psychology gives parents and the courts only one legal argument option, and it seeks its particular goal by marshaling a particular set of evidence to present to the court in favor of that goal. The goal of the legal argument package from forensic psychology is to obtain a court order for a reversal of…
— Read on drcraigchildressblog.com/2019/01/02/the-legal-argument-package/

How India celebrated Jan 1, 2019

This is what 5 million women standing up to the patriarchy look like. Today in Kerala, India, women came together to make a 620 kilometer long wall crossing all 14 districts of the state. They are demanding gender equality and justice in what is being described as the start of a new wave of feminist politics in India.

Stop Calling Women Nags — How Emotional Labor is Dragging Down Gender Equality

I never knew this, from tracing to Germany with no discussion,

I lived with the rigidly of a partner who was critical of my every

move or non move. Asking for help when it is clearly needed ,

was part and parcel of ” marriage ” to an under developed

emotionally stuck man child . I realized he wasn’t meeting

in the middle. He worked outside the home and that’s all he

had to do. Taking a road job he was away 3 days a week,

in order to dodge responsibility ..

Sadly , many adult men were ” sheltered ” in the model of

trauma bond with mom, ” matured ” socially , but from

birth has had less emotionally grounding /bonding with

Mom, and need and deserve it ..The interactions of parents

can very will imprint the male child with fear of emotions

watching Mom treated like a servant..

Gifts were seldom a surprise , request circumvented his either

ignoring the event , or a gift that had no rhythm or rhyme .

Adult men seldom transform this naturally, many

beaten into submission by a spouse who threatens

using kids as leverage .. a huge mistake , for

seldom does a man romance or honor a woman

wife who ” mothers ” him.. the nurture of each

should be the bridge ..

The unpaid job men still don’t understand.
— Read on www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a12063822/emotional-labor-gender-equality/

Emotional pain as a bridge to heal past trauma – Spiritual Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse

Emotional pain you experience in the present can be used as a bridge to help you identify and then heal past traumas that are holding you back. In complex trauma the link between the emotional dysregulation you experience in the present and the unresolved traumas of the past is not conscious. Unlike in shock trauma…
— Read on abuse-recovery.com/2019/01/01/emotional-pain-as-a-bridge-to-heal-past-trauma/