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Face of the Crisis: Jessie

I lost custody of my 3 children during my second divorce. We were divorcing because I discovered when I was 20 weeks pregnant with my 3rd that my husband had been having a long-standing affair for years.

Both of my ex-husbands teamed up, lawyered up and kicked my ass. I was in court at least once a month for over 2.5 years. I have been portrayed as a drug addict and a mental case—but I only broke down after losing my children!

I was a stay at home mom for 8 years prior to my divorce so I am unable to make the amount assigned as my earning capacity and am ordered to pay $1800 a month in child support. I am behind on all my bills and I’m on food stamps. Family Court says if I don’t make the payment each month they will put out a bench warrant on me.

I haven’t spoken to my 14 yr old from my 1st marriage in over a year. I speak with my younger 2 when their father feels like picking up the phone.

Never on holidays.

FROM: “Faces of the Crisis” a Women’s Coalition Exhibit
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Why are women losing custody in epidemic numbers?
“The Custody Crisis: Why It’s Happening & How We Can End It”
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“FACES OF THE CRISIS” is an exhibit created by The Women’s Coalition to raise awareness about the international epidemic of judges switching custody to self-serving and abusive men: https://www.womenscoalitioninternational.org

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Narcissist Self Image is Everything

The narcissist’s self-image is everything, and he or she will wager everything on it – doing things that are unlawful, dangerous and criminal to uphold it. This naturally put his or her business at risk – and the narcissist has no issue in twisting facts and setting someone else up to take the fall when the trouble happens.
The justifications that the narcissist is capable of making to pathologise his or her behaviour are incredible.
Narcissists are disordered; their brain wiring is maladapted to circuits that are not healthy, or humane. The narcissist can justify immoral, inhumane and criminal behaviour easily because their soul was sold to serve the one true master – The False Self – long ago.
It’s important to understand narcissists will believe, firmly, that the person they are setting up to take the blame is at fault. Their minds are highly adept at creating a self-delusional story that exonerates their “above reproach at all costs” ego. Once this story has been replayed through the narcissist disordered mind a few times – it is TRUE to the narcissist. That is the extent of the disorder – superiority and impunity are necessary for the narcissist’s emotional survival.
This can seem incredibly personal – until we understand that narcissists are operating out of horrendous childish survival fears. The narcissist’s unconscious drivers are entrenched in this defence: “If I am exposed as wrong I’ll be annihilated,” which triggers the narcissist’s biggest fear – the bottom line terror of the ego – the fear of NOT existing.
The narcissist believes he or she must be seen as “perfect.” However, the intense fear and defences conversely create the narcissist’s character as not just “imperfect” but also highly disordered and damaged.
This becomes blatantly obvious if the spotlight is on the narcissist for any accountability for his or her actions or non-actions. This is when the narcissist becomes the most unhinged, or the most dishonest and manipulative.
He or she will do anything to avoid personal fault and scrutiny, and if someone can be scapegoated, the narcissist will employ this tactic.
Read more on Narcissists in the Workplace and what to do in this article – https://bit.ly/38013uD.
Much love xo ❤️

Love you , but I’m not in love with you

Its a reality unfortunately , an epidemic ..

Distorted and very Distructive.

This truth came when I was 5 years unto induced bipolar.

He had 5 years to plan , his escape to happiness.

Nothing to stop the distorted stories, drama, and damage done..

Still projecting blame , still distorted about many illegal acts, and universal blasphems ..

In addition to his logical uses of me , in marriage , I was leverage , to use successfully to please his true trauma bonded Master.

https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/i-was-never-in-love-with-you-hesaid/

Test Results of July’s Thermagram

These are partical results of toxic inflammation that have resulted from previous environmental situations .

My breast concern me the most , however I am without resources and a safe place to do more that mild detox and I’m highly sensitive not only to the metals that influenced these inflammatory issues , but also the degree and intensity of detox.

I do require treatment and rest as I was warned in late Feb and my goal is that , to end this critically ill state of being . My reaction to metal toxicity beside the inflammation is ongoing with great hair loss and dental issues , including abcesses , which can lead to sepsis which can kill me. If I had no faith , I would bow to all these negatives , but I have had experiences before of toxic reactions to RX with metals that created the same results I am experiencing now.. Faith says there will be no more test of this nature.

I have no choice but to continue to do the best I can , with what I have , as I am without my own home .

My entire banking was shutdown in August and I surrendered to being aided by many earth angels and sprit guides , and that still reverbs as I pay back IOUs and establish new business.

New Bank

New Car insurance

New LLC for a neighbor care group locally , non profit

Ending cycles, is a redo for me , this conclusion has been long time coming and is a long time gone , and yet there is clearing or clean up to do .

I am safe . I am resting …I am supported by Divine and so many beloved that have aided greatly in my ability to transverse the projection of hell on earth ..

I am Thankful !

Blessings & Peace😘

Dona Luna

Dr Craig Childress, Family & Change

From Dr Craig Childress: 
“We are family.  All of us.
There’s not you and me – there’s us.
The only reason we see you and me instead of family is because we’re insane.  True.  It comes from our biological-mind (Sapolsky), we do things based on how we’re wired up.
Yet we also have the ability to over-ride the wiring – that’s our amazing adaptability – frontal lobe executive function systems.
We all came from Africa.  That’s where we are all from.  All of us.  All of us are on an unbroken line of ancestors, from our parents to our grandparents, to theirs and theirs, all the way back.  We are on an unbroken chain of life.
Many – many – many died in their pixelated journeys through time, they left no progeny, no children.  We are not descended from any of those journeys through life.  We are directly descended from the ones who survived.
We were one once.  We still are.  We’re not them and us, we’re family… of African origin, that’s our homeland, all of us.  Some of our family maintain their original beautiful hue and features, some of us have become pale and washed out from living up north in the snow and cold.  We’re still family, you, me, us, you’re tall, you’re short, you’re in a wheelchair, you’re gay, you’re straight, you’re non-binary, black, white, brown, yellow, purple, plaid, you are an absolutely beautiful child, welcome to the world.
They’re not the enemy – their family.  And… they are insane.  And… so are we.   Them and us, we are both insane, because we see enemies and not family… and because of that we do insanely violent and immensely cruel things to each other – to family.
That’s not right.  We shouldn’t do that.  We shouldn’t hurt them… and they shouldn’t hurt us.  We started in Africa and some of us left, we wandered around a lot and forgot who we are, where we came from.
Then we met each other again, and we got scared.  We had lost our connections as family, we didn’t understand.  We remained pockets of small family governed by our biological-mind.  
Then something changed 10,000 years ago.  We began our journey to transformation, out of our biological-mind and into our humanity.  It has been an immensely violent, sad, and traumatic journey.
We have reached the end.  We are the final generations of the rippling trauma of our transformation, our children will be free of our traumas – they will face their own – but their traumas will be of their own choices and decisions – conscious and aware and handled differently.
We have been insane for so long, the violence and trauma was so vast and deep.  It was a long-long journey of much suffering… too much… far too much.  Our violence and insanity was out of control.
We’ve spasmed our recovery in the French Revolution (1790s), the Trail of Tears (1850) and the Civil War (1860), and in the Holocaust (1940).  We are not so far away, we are still rippling the traumas of those who came before, our parents, their parents, and their’s and their’s.
I’ve watched the change, from Eisenhower and WW-II that I ripple, to Obama and Trump that are rippling our traumas still, our fears.
Our children are watching, are children are being traumatized in their childhoods, by economic uncertainty, a pandemic society of social isolation and fear, and social unrest and injustice.
We have two old-guys running to lead America.  I remember both from their entire histories.  I predate both in my cultural history, I’m Kennedy and Johnson, they’re 1980s and 90s.  They’re both old as dirt, they are from a different era, a different time.
They all are, all of our leaders are old.  That needs to change, and I suspect it will change once we clear pandemic.  There is immense motivation for change, from our children, to create something better – for them – which is their absolute right.
I support their voice for change – we need to do a lot about providing economic opportunity for them… for our children.  We need to do a lot about providing them with a safe, affordable, and top-tier education… for our children.  We need to do a lot to ensure that our children have affordable healthcare for themselves and their families… for our children.
These are not “them” – they are family – our brothers, sisters, husbands, wives, fathers, mothers, cousins, grandparents, and our children… most importantly our children – not your children and my children – our children – we’re family… we are not enemies.  You are simply insane.  That’s okay, we’re still family… with an insane member, you, who simply needs some compassionate help to find sanity again.  You’re still not my enemy, you’re just my crazy uncle Joe, or crazy aunt Mable.
First thing… stop being so mean.  Social skills, you learned those in preschool.  Use them.  Second thing… stop shooting people. Everyone, stop it.  Holy cow, everyone thinks that’s okay… no… it’s not.  Stop shooting people.
“What if they’re a bad guy and they want to take my stuff and hurt me?”  That’s crazy Bob, he’s the son of Mary and Joseph, no don’t shoot him, he’s family, let’s get him some help.  Don’t kill him… let’s get him some help, he’s family and he’s having a hard time.
Stop shooting people.
“What about Nazis in WW-II, can we shoot them?”  First off, there shouldn’t be Nazis, that should be a DSM-5.1 disorder; Pathological Anger and Pathological Violence. That should be a diagnosable psychiatric condition that receives treatment.
Craig Childress, Psy.D.Clinical Psychologist, CA PSY 18857”

Watch “Psychiatric Reformer Jim Gottstein on The Dr. Peter Breggin Hour – 07-29-20” on YouTube

Years of networking with these 2 extraordinary human beings with much to offer .

How to Stop Bullies who seem to be everywhere

https://www.wsj.com/articles/why-it-seems-like-bullies-are-everywhereand-how-to-stop-them-11594743348?mod=e2fb&fbclid=IwAR0ywXLJ_UeVXiYuLOAvewMJy__3fPVMArywEk2ArpglHkyaC_whHSl238c&fbclid=IwAR1NUTrP_HB4P0nSp18KOvSKDar2NR0StSm1STRGAe2EFDbMWVx55vRjd88

Watch “Emergency Landlord Preparedness: Prepare Like a Pilot” on YouTube

Far from what has been my experience which will be clarified as partner has handled our property and rental experience has been similar in total abstinence of facts and reality .

My personal experiences have exposed the holes that deserve attention that benifit the 28 million in the flow of this energy .

I was told to go to my bedroom to accept workers in on a bogus leak that Thankfully I refused until I had a friend show up as witness and certainly triggered at the absolute force behind what I have to do negating any responsibility at all .

Not happening .