Over A Decade of Being Over Him

Never saw him as the package that included our sons .

Business of old , irregular , illegal is finally going to be resolved .

Surprised at the hold out ? Not I, I heard complaints over a $2 bank charge for him to automatically deposit my Spousal Support .. Of course he was relived of that , though judgements brought up his many car payments etc

Mentioned that he was to be responsible , however that varied ..the energy shifted and outcomes varied until the last hearing .

My words , he will never have enough of my money . It’s endless. I do not wish to question him due to his lying .

Initiate Partner Violence

Malignant

High Conflict

Very few lawyers know this , and it’s not merely Domestic Violence when a marriage is obtained when the other is targeted as the abuser .

It has delayed the liberation of our 3 children and their children until recent events , allow that his WAR is HIS and I release him to that eternal war within .

Clearing this took so much effort and resistance, but upon my ancestors revelations and history I learned I had the honor of clearing this , and added to my vow to create a safe world for Harper Ann who will never have the abusive experiences of her ancestors.

Of course that applies to 5 grandsons too

His kids

There’s lots to heal and I know that’s imposing but the rising out of that trauma has a universal theme ..a drum beat and one just need surrender to their highest power and ask to be gentle in the release ..knowing I was ready to leap forward and end the never ending narrative of an abuser who is a victim and owns his power in money and has spent plenty to thwart my truths .

My healing has been tested these past 7 months intensely but my faith remains .

I am grateful 🙏 🥲

Love % Blessings

Dona Luna ✌ ✌ ✌

Coercion in Psychiatry 2008 , by Mary Maddock

Coercion in Psychiatry (written in 2008 the year my granddaughter was born)
You would think people who study medicine would see that a young woman who had a difficult pregnancy, very long labour, deprived of sleep and who had received an excessive amount of nitrous oxide would enter an altered state of consciousness as a NORMAL reaction. You would also think they would ask some questions to find out why this happened before whisking this woman off in an ambulance to a psychiatric hospital at 80 or 90 miles an hour but that might be too much to ask from a professional who is not in the habit of asking questions!

You would think that having made this tragic mistake, having tried out neuroleptic treatment and following it with electroshock, this was admitting that psychotropic drugs do not work, as electroshock is only supposed to be given when drugs are a failure!

You would never believe then their next solution was that this same person received multi-drug treatment for 20 years later but this was the way an unthinking medical professionals ‘ treated’ me!

Electroshock causes brain damage. Electroshock causes brain seizures. People who suffer from seizures know it causes memory loss and yet amazingly electroshock is on the increase worldwide today. All research done to date backs this common-sense up but still vulnerable, suffering people are having electrodes attached to their delicate, precious brains while unthinking, greedy professionals are delusional enough to think they are helping them. The public is unaware that this is happening. Most of them believe electroshock is a thing of the past. How long more will people labelled ‘mentally ill’ and their families continue to be fed with lies and half-truths? How long more will people who may have psycho/social difficulties be treated as guinea pigs? How long will those who consider themselves ‘normal’ continue to turn their backs on their brothers and sisters who were unfortunate enough to be labelled and branded by professionals who think they know best? This has to stop.

Are mad people irrational?

We live in a world where abuse of others is part of the status quo. It is very acceptable to abuse others if you are rich ‘educated’ and powerful. You are given permission to lie, cheat, steal, hurt and even kill in the name of ‘help’. Governments and laws will support you and you will convince yourself you are good and never be aware of the harmful destructive path you leave behind. On the other hand, those who are labelled ‘mad’ often react to this unjust world. They find it emotionally disturbing and they try to escape. They build a new world for themselves split from reality. They feel they are victims and are often in the direct line of societal abuse. Is this a mad irrational thing to do? It seems very rational to protect oneself.

COERCION OR FORCE HAS NO PLACE IN HEALING OR WELL-BEING IN BODY, MIND AND SPIRIT. HUMAN BEINGS ARE DIFFERENT FROM ALL OTHER FORMS OF LIFE IN THAT THEY HAVE THE FREEDOM TO CHOOSE. IF THIS IS NOT RESPECTED, THEN THE SO-CALLED ‘HELPERS’ ARE ACTING FROM A TOP/DOWN POSITION AND PERCEIVE THEIR FELLOW HUMANS AS ANIMALS WHO CANNOT THINK OR EVALUATE THEMSELVES.

WHEN A GROUP OF PEOPLE ARE LABELLED ‘MENTALLY ILL’ BY OTHERS WHO ‘KNOW BEST, THEN THE RESULT IS THAT THESE BRANDED PEOPLE CAN BE FORCED AGAINST THEIR WILL TO RECEIVE ‘TREATMENTS,’ OFTEN HARMFUL, WHICH OTHER PEOPLE, SERVICE PROVIDERS AND VERY OFTEN FAMILY, THINK THEY NEED.

‘MENTAL ILLNESS’, WHICH HAS NO SCIENTIFIC BASIS, IS VERY CLEVERLY USED TO DEPRIVE VULNERABLE

PEOPLE OF THEIR RIGHTS AS CITIZENS. THERE IS NO MEDICAL TEST TO PROVE ‘MENTAL ILLNESS’ EXISTS, YET PSYCHIATRISTS, PSYCHOLOGISTS, LAWYERS, THE MEDIA ETC. CONTINUE TO ACT AS IF IT WERE COMPARABLE TO OTHER ILLNESSES E.G. DIABETES. NOBODY EVER LOSES THEIR CIVIL AND HUMAN RIGHTS WHEN THEY ARE DIAGNOSED WITH OTHER ILLNESSES YET WHEN A PERSON IS DIAGNOSED WITH A ‘MENTAL ILLNESS’ SHE/HE CAN BE FORCED INTO A ‘HOSPITAL’ AND ‘TREATED’ WITH TOXIC PSYCHIATRIC DRUGS AGAINST THEIR WILL EVEN THOUGH IT IS NOW COMMON KNOWLEDGE THAT MOST OF THESE DRUGS HAVE SERIOUS, EVEN LIFE-THREATENING, ADVERSE EFFECTS.

PEOPLE WHO HAVE VERY DIFFICULT PSYCHO/SOCIAL PROBLEMS ARE DIAGNOSED WITH MEDICAL ‘DISORDERS’ SUCH AS ‘SCHIZOPHRENIA’ AND ‘BI-POLAR DISORDER’ ETC. WHICH DO NOT EXIST. THE STANDARD TREATMENT IS USUALLY SOME FORM OF A NEUROLEPTIC, OFTEN MORE THAN JUST ONE. MOST OF THE CHEAP FORMS E.G. LARGACTIL, HALDOL, ETC. ARE NOT USED TODAY IN FAVOUR OF THE MUCH MORE EXPENSIVE ATYPICALS SUCH AS ZYPREXA AND RISPERDAL. THESE NEUROLEPTICS ARE VERY SUCCESSFUL IN CAUSING A CHEMICAL LOBOTOMY WHICH CAN DEPRIVE THOSE WHO ARE UNFORTUNATE ENOUGH TO USE THEM OF THEIR HUMANITY. THE HAPPIEST MOMENTS OF OUR LIVES ARE WHEN WE EXPERIENCE OUR HUMANITY TO THE FULL. PHYSICAL LOBOTOMIES WERE USED ON PEOPLE WHO WERE REFERRED TO AS ’MENTALLY ILL ‘ IN THE PAST BUT THANKFULLY MOST PSYCHIATRISTS TODAY CAN SEE THAT SURGICAL LOBOTOMIES SHOULD BE OUTLAWED. HOW LONG WILL IT TAKE THEM TO SEE THE DAMAGE NEUROLEPTICS DO TO CREATIVE, WORTHWHILE PEOPLE?

WHAT IS A HUMAN BEING? TO BE HUMAN IS TO BE DIFFERENT FROM BEING AN ANIMAL BUT SHE/HE IS MORE THAN AN ANIMAL. AN ANIMAL CANNOT CHOOSE. AN ANIMAL FOLLOWS ITS INSTINCTS. A HUMAN BEING IS CAPABLE OF SELF DETERMINATION. SHE/ HE CAN CREATE SOMETHING NEW. MUSIC IS A GOOD EXAMPLE. IT IS MADE UP OF A LIMITED NUMBER OF SOUNDS YET A HUMAN BEING CAN CREATE A SYMPHONY OR A CONCERTO OUT OF THESE LIMITED SOUNDS. WE CAN CREATE THE INFINITE OUT OF THE FINITE. WE CAN BE IN TOUCH WITH WHAT IS DESCRIBED AS GODLINESS. WE ASSOCIATE BEING HUMAN WITH OUR HIGHEST VALUES: FREEDOM, LOVE, INSIGHT, CREATIVITY AND UNDERSTANDING. THE MONKEY CAN MAINTAIN A SIMPLE IMAGE OF A SITUATION. HOWEVER HUMAN BEINGS HAVE A HIGHER POWER AND CAN MANIPULATE IMAGES AND TAKE DIFFERENT POINTS OF VIEW. WE CAN TAKE A LEAP OUTSIDE OURSELVES AND SEE OURSELVES FROM THE OUTSIDE. WE CAN SEE OURSELVES AND THE WORLD WITH THE EYES OF OTHERS. WE ARE ABLE TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN OUR INNER AND OUTER WOULD. WE CAN CREATE OUR INNER WORLD WHERE WE CAN

PERFORM EXPERIMENTS OF THOUGHT. WE CAN MOVE FROM THIS INNER WORLD AND MAKE A LEAP TO A POINT OUTSIDE OURSELVES.

LOVE MAKES THIS LEAP POSSIBLE. IT IS BY THIS LEAP THAT WE GROW IN FREEDOM, LOVE, INSIGHT, CREATIVITY AND UNDERSTANDING. WE GAIN POWER OVER OURSELVES AND OUR INNER WORLD. WHEN WE EXPERIENCE THESE VALUES, WE ARE TRULY ALIVE AND FREE.

IT IS DIFFICULT TO FIND THESE IMPORTANT HUMAN VALUES IN COERCIVE PSYCHIATRY. A HUMAN BEING WHO THINKS THAT SHE/HE KNOWS WHAT IS BEST FOR SOMEONE ELSE AND FORCES ANOTHER TO DO IT IS NOT ACTING LIKE A HUMAN BEING. THESE FIVE POWERFUL VALUES ARE ABSENT AND SO NO TRUE HEALING CAN TAKE PLACE.

“ OF ALL TYRANNIES, A TYRANNY SINCERELY EXERCISED FOR THE GOOD OF ITS VICTIMS MAY BE THE MOST OPPRESSIVE” C.S. LEWIS.

IF PSYCHIATRISTS ARE TO BECOME HELPFUL AND VALUE THE OTHER PERSON AS A FELLOW HUMAN BEING THEN EQUALITY IS SOMETHING THAT IS A MUST. AT PRESENT THERE IS A TOP/DOWN ATTITUDE. SOMETIMES YOU WOULD THINK THE PSYCHIATRIST EVEN DISLIKES THE PERSON SHE/HE IS SUPPOSED TO BE HELPING. I HAVE HEARD MANY CLIENTS OF PSYCHIATRISTS EXPRESS THIS VIEW. SOME WOMEN ARE EVEN TOLD THEY ARE NOT CAPABLE OF HAVING CHILDREN AND NEVER WILL. WHAT A HOPELESS MESSAGE TO GIVE TO SOMEONE WISHING TO RECOVER.

TO RECOVER FROM PSYCHO/SOCIAL DIFFICULTIES, WE NEED TO BE ABLE TO USE OUR FRONTAL LOBES AT THEIR BEST. NEUROLEPTICS INTERFERE WITH THE PERFORMANCE OF THE FRONTAL LOBES AND MAKE IT IMPOSSIBLE TO RECOVER. SOME OF THE OUTWARD SIGNS OF THIS BRAIN DAMAGE MANIFEST THEMSELVES AS BODILY MOVEMENTS. THE MEDICAL TERMS FOR BODILY MOVEMENT DISORDERS INDUCED BY NEUROLEPTIC DRUGS ARE AKINESIA (IMMOBILITY), PARKINSONISM (RIGIDITY AND TREMBLING), AKATHISIA ( DISQUIET, INABILITY TO SIT STILL ) DYSTONIA, ( CONTORTIONS OF THE FACE AND BODY), AND DYSKINESIA ( DISTURBED MOVEMENTS). THE OUTWARD PERSON GIVES US AN IMAGE OF THE INNER PERSON.

WHEN SUCH AWFUL BRAIN DAMAGE CAN BE THE RESULT OF THE USE OF NEUROLEPTICS IN MODERN-DAY PSYCHIATRY, IT IS EVEN MORE OF A CRIME AGAINST HUMANITY WHEN THEY ARE FORCED ON VULNERABLE, SUFFERING PEOPLE IN THE NAME OF ‘HELP’. WORSE STILL, WHEN THESE DRUGS ARE FORCEFULLY INJECTED IN LARGE DOSES, THE PEOPLE

RECEIVING THEM WILL NOT OBJECT BECAUSE THE BRAIN DAMAGE HAS BEEN SO SUCCESSFUL.

SURVIVORS OF PSYCHIATRY WORLDWIDE KNOW THEY HAVE BEEN CHEMICALLY LOBOTOMISED, OFTEN AGAINST THEIR WILL. THIS IS DRESSED UP AS ‘CARE’. THERE ARE MANY EX-USER/SURVIVOR ORGANIZATIONS. THE TWO LARGEST GROUPS ARE WNUSP (WORLD NETWORK OF EX-USERS/SURVIVORS OF PSYCHIATRY) AND ENUSP (EUROPEAN NETWORK OF EX-USERS/SURVIVORS OF PSYCHIATRY). THEY BOTH BELIEVE THAT THERE SHOULD BE NO COERCION IN PSYCHIATRY AND CONSTANTLY CAMPAIGN AGAINST IT. ACTIVISTS FROM BOTH ORGANISATIONS ALONG WITH MINDFREEDOM INTERNATIONAL, HAVE PARTICIPATED IN THE UN AD HOC CONVENTION ON THE RIGHTS OF PEOPLE WITH DISABILITIES AND HAVE BEEN SUCCESSFUL IN CHANGING SOME OF THE ARTICLES WHICH HAD ALLOWED FOR FORCE AND GUARDIANSHIP IN THE PAST. WE SEE THIS AS THE FIRST IMPORTANT STEP TO ABOLISH FORCE AND COERCION AS A FORM OF ‘HELP’ AND ‘CARE’. IN HIS BOOK ‘DEPRIVED OF OUR HUMANITY – THE CASE AGAINST NEUROLEPTIC DRUGS’, DR. LARS MARTENSSON QUOTES HEBRIANA, A SURVIVOR FROM SWEDEN WHO EXPRESSES WHAT IT IS LIKE TO BE FORCED AND COERCED VERY WELL. “IT WAS A HORRIBLE EXISTENCE. I WAS FETTERED. THE AIR BECOMES THICK AND DENSE. YOU CANNOT GET THROUGH. IT IS INCOMPREHENSIBLE. THAT STATE, IF ANYTHING, IS INCOMPREHENSIBLE. IN ORDER TO INTEGRATE THESE EXPERIENCES OF PSYCHIATRIC VIOLENCE AND FORCED DRUGGING, YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT HOW HELPLESS YOU CAN BE.” SHE GOES ON TO SAY “ SURVIVORS OF OTHER HORRORS CREATED BY HUMANS (CONCENTRATION CAMPS, CHILDHOOD SEXUAL ABUSE, TORTURE), HAVE ALSO NEEDED DECADES, AND OFTEN A LOT OF THERAPY, LOVE AND SUPPORT BEFORE THEY HAVE BEEN ABLE TO CONFRONT AND INTEGRATE THEIR MEMORIES AND BEGIN TELLING US WHAT THEY HAVE BEEN THROUGH. SURVIVORS NEED ACCEPTANCE AND RECOGNITION OF THEIR EXPERIENCES IN ORDER TO BE ABLE TO RETURN TO THE HUMAN COMMUNITY AND FEEL THAT THEY ARE MEMBERS OF THE HUMAN RACE.

THESE OTHER GROUPS ARE APPROVED VICTIMS. THEY GET UNDERSTANDING AND ACCEPTANCE. THEY LIVE IN A SOCIETY THAT RECOGNISES ITS DUTY TO TRY TO RESTORE THEIR SENSE OF SECURITY.

NEUROLEPTIC SURVIVORS, ON THE OTHER HAND, LIVE IN AN UNREPENTANT SOCIETY THAT KEEPS PERPETUATING THE HORROR THEY UNDERWENT. PEOPLE DO NOT WANT TO BELIEVE THAT SOMETHING SO HORRIBLE CAN GO ON IN OUR SOCIETY. SUCH DENIAL IS A CONTINUING CRIME”.

IN A CIVILIZED SOCIETY, COERCION AND FORCE CAN NEVER BE JUSTIFIED AS A GOOD WAY TO HELP OTHERS. IT IS BARBARIC AND INHUMANE AND CAN ONLY BE COUNTERPRODUCTIVE. THOSE WHO DEFEND IT MAKE MATTERS MUCH WORSE AND CAN NEVER CALL THEMSELVES HEALERS. THEY ARE VIOLENT AND THEIR METHODS MUST BE SEEN FOR WHAT THEY ARE, NAMELY CONTROLLERS. PEOPLE WHO ARE HURT AND ABUSED NEED LOVE AND KINDNESS NOT FORCE, CONTROL AND COERCION.

“I GOT ELATED AFTER MY FIRST BABY IN 1970. AFTER 6 WEEKS AT HOME BREASTFEEDING THEY PUT ME IN A MENTAL HOSPITAL. THERE I WAS MADE MENTALLY ILL BY HALDOL AND LARGACTIL. I WAS THEN DEEPLY DEPRESSED AND EVEN FORGOT ABOUT MY BABY. I HAD THE SHAKES, LOCKJAW AND A TERRIBLE THIRST AND DROOLING. I COULDN’T EVEN WALK.

I HAD SUFFERED LOW SELF-ESTEEM GROWING UP. THIS CONTINUED IN MARRIAGE THOUGH I HAD SOME GOOD YEARS. I COMPARED MYSELF NEGATIVELY WITH OTHER WOMEN WHEN THEY ACHIEVED SOMETHING.

I THOUGHT I COULDN’T DO THAT. SO I HAVE FEW SKILLS. PSYCHIATRY ENSURED THAT I WAS A FAILURE. MY HUSBAND CARRIED ME BUT DID NOT QUESTION THE NEGATIVE EFFECT OF DRUGS. NEGATIVITY CAUSES DEPRESSION.

I WAS IN THE MENTAL HOSPITAL OVER 75 TIMES ALMOST ALWAYS INVOLUNTARY BECAUSE I WAS ELATED. NEARLY ALWAYS OUT OF FRUSTRATION, BECAUSE OF NOT BEING ABLE TO COPE AT HOME ALONE, WITHOUT ENOUGH SUPPORT. I WAS OVER-DEPENDENT ON MY HUSBAND AND AFTER WE SEPARATED I BECAME DEPENDENT ON FRIENDS.

I FIND THAT PSYCHIATRY DOES NOT ADDRESS THE BASIC PROBLEMS BUT WITH THE FORCEFUL ADMINISTRATION OF NEUROLEPTIC DRUGS EXACERBATES THE CONDITION.

SO THAT NOW AT 62 YEARS OLD, HAVING TWO ADULT SONS, LIFE HAS SLIPPED BY BECAUSE I LIVED IN THE PAST. PSYCHIATRY CURES NOBODY. I AM IN THE LOCKED UP HOSPITAL AGAIN AS I WRITE THIS FEELING INSECURE, HELPLESS AND HOPELESS ONE MORE TIME.

I FEEL I AM FINISHED AND I CAN’T GO ON”

THESE ARE THE WORDS OF MY BRAVE FRIEND HELENA KING WHO UNFORTUNATELY IS NO LONGER WITH US. SHE OFTEN SAID TO ME AND OTHERS THAT “ DEPRESSION IS A SUFFERING OF THE SOUL WHICH ENCOMPASSES THE MIND AND BODY LEAVING ONE HELPLESS AND HOPELESS”. SHE NEVER BELIEVED SHE HAD A DISEASE BUT RECOGNIZED SHE HAD PROBLEMS. SHE WOULD HAVE LIKED TO FIND HELP FROM THOSE WHO ‘CARED’ FOR HER. HOWEVER, ALL SHE FOUND WAS COERCION AND CONTROL.

NOW, MOST SERVICE PROVIDERS DIAGNOSE PSYCHO/SOCIAL PROBLEMS AS ‘MENTAL ILLNESSES’ WITHOUT A CURE. BUT ALL PEOPLE IN DIFFICULTY CAN FIND IS MAINTENANCE ‘TREATMENT’ OF SYMPTOMS WHICH FOR MOST EXACERBATE THEIR ORIGINAL PROBLEMS. THEY CAN FIND NO HELPFUL WAYS BUT INSTEAD, THEY ARE FORCED TO RECEIVE HARMFUL, TORTUOUS AND HURTFUL TREATMENTS JUST AS HELENA DID. IS THIS GOOD ETHICAL PRACTICE OR IS IT AN ABUSE OF HUMAN RIGHTS?

A TRUE HEALER AND SUPPORTER WILL BE AWARE THAT SHE/HE IS A HUMAN BEING WHO IS LEARNING TO LIVE AND COPE IN A FEARFUL WORLD. SHE/HE REACHES OUT TO OTHERS, ENCOURAGES, EMPATHISES AND UNDERSTANDS, ALWAYS REALIZING THAT SHE/HE IS GIVING AND RECEIVING EACH FROM THE OTHER. IN SUCH A RELATIONSHIP THERE IS NO ROOM FOR FORCE OR COERCION. BUT EVER-PRESENT ARE FREEDOM, EQUALITY, TRUTH AND HUMAN RIGHTS. IT IS ONLY THEN WE POSSESS THE RESPECT AND DIGNITY WHICH EVERYONE DESERVES, ESPECIALLY THOSE WHO HAVE PSYCHO/SOCIAL PROBLEMS.

“THE DIRECT USE OF FORCE IS SUCH A POOR SOLUTION TO ANY PROBLEM IT IS GENERALLY EMPLOYED ONLY BY SMALL CHILDREN AND LARGE NATIONS”. (DAVID FREIDMAN)

REFERENCE: THE CASE AGAINST NEUROLEPTICS DRUGS BY LARS MARTENSSON, M.D.

MARY MADDOCK, MINDFREEDOM IRELAND, INTAR( INTERNATIONAL NETWORK TOWARDS ALTERNATIVES AND RECOVERY). BOARD MEMBER ENUSP, MINDFREEDOM INTERNATIONAL.

MARCH, 2008.

Duty to Protect Obligations / Childress FYI

FYI: There is no such pathology as “resist-refuse dynamic” – that is the latest effort by forensic psychology to make up new pathology from thin-air.

It is an effort by the pathogen that lives in them to keep them in charge… because they don’t diagnose pathology. Instead, the pathogen motivates its minions to make up new forms of pathology to avoid diagnosing the Child Psychological Abuse – DSM-5 V995.51 – the shared (induced) delusional disorder.

If any of them try to introduce their new pathology – the “resist-refuse dynamic” as evidence in courts – Daubert and Kelly-Frye it. It doesn’t exist. They are just making stuff up – again.

If an attorney allows the “resist-refuse dynamic” into evidence without subjecting it to Daubert and Kelly-Frye challenge, they should be disbarred for incompetence as a lawyer.

There is no such pathology as a “resist-refuse dynamic” – it is a shared persecutory delusion, a thought disorder, and the DSM-5 diagnosis is V995.51 Child Psychological Abuse.

The pathogen seeks to hide. Don’t let it, expose it for what it is – a delusional thought disorder in the parent imposed on the child – a real thing – a DSM-5 diagnosis of V995.51 Child Psychological Abuse.

They have duty to protect obligations.

A secondary diagnosis warranting prominent diagnostic consideration is DSM-5 V995.82 Spouse or Partner Abuse, Psychological. This is spousal emotional and psychological abuse of one parent by the other using the child as the weapon.

They have duty to protect obligations – and they are failing. They are misdiagnosing the pathology – negligent misdiagnosis, i.e., failure to take proper care in their assessment. They are failing in their duty to protect the child from psychological child abuse, they are failing to protect the targeted parent from emotional and psychological spousal abuse.

And instead, they are participating in the child abuse and spousal abuse – if you believe the shared delusion, you become PART of the shared delusion, you become part of the pathology, When that pathology is child abuse, you become part of the child abuse.

The assessment of delusional thought disorder pathology is a Mental Status Exam of thought and perception (NCBI: Mental Status Exam).

Google negligence: Failure to take proper care in doing something. Law: failure to use reasonable care, resulting in damage or injury to another.

Did they conduct a proper risk assessment for possible child psychological abuse (DSM-5 V995.51 Child Psychological Abuse)? Did they conduct a proper risk assessment for possible spousal emotional and psychological abuse of one parent by the other using the child as the weapon (DSM-5 V995.82 Spouse or Partner Abuse, Psychological)?

Did they conduct a proper assessment for real things that really exist? Did they fail in their duty to protect the child from child abuse and the parent from spousal abuse? Did this result in damage or injury to the child and targeted parent?

When they make up new pathology that doesn’t exist, they are trying to avoid accountability for their negligent malpractice surrounding pathology that actually exists – child abuse (DSM-5 V995.51 Child Psychological Abuse) and spousal abuse (DSM-5 V995.82 Spouse or Partner Abuse, Psychological).

You have rights, but only if you stand and demand them. The forensic psychologists that surround you are ignorant, incompetent, negligent, and unethical – violations to Standards 2.04, 9.01, and 2.01 and failure in their duty to protect on two separate grounds, failure to protect the child and failure to protect the targeted parent.

If they did this to you, they did it to the last child and parent, and they will do it to the next child and parent… unless you stop them. You must fight for each other and each other’s children. A step forward by anyone is a step forward for everyone, for all children and all parents everywhere.

Words have meaning (Standards 2.04, 9.01, 2.01). They have obligations. You have rights – but only if you fight for them.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.
Clinical Psychologist, CA PSY 18857

The Narcissistic Parent

2 moved from hometown , leaving the shame of a ” crazy” Mom and a Dad that was exposing his love in expressions of himself , traveling , dinning , buying expensive cars , moving to a part of town I had refused due to schools and crime .

The absolute delight derived in dividing , and conquering in a non stop competition, ongoing after 2 plus decades .

Of course as a target , and former ” mental patient ” , anything I said or did was seen as character ..Not Trauma , Not Abuse , Not addictive and toxic RX ..

The foundation of shaky ground denying a balanced partnership included the constant triangle or 3rd person , beginning with the matriarchal as his choice for happy as he walked away , was a gal in such distortion that her vicious behavior and words confirmed her mental health issues. Mirrors of each other , united in my total and complete destruction.

Coming to was a hoilicost of recall and clarity , reading the divorce contract was a complete and utter farce , allowing him control of my finances.

The post nuptials I have no idea of , the charges I placed expunged to ” no fault ” , our lawyers had been partners ( no conflict according to the Bar ; plenty of conflict if I searched for representation .

After 3 lawyers and judicial renderings that supported the abuses , with the bonus of shame that I show up without council .

Depleting my income, ignoring my need to address the side effects physically , of trauma , abuse and neglect our last 5 years , of course I’m responsible .

Legally responsible for my own health care .

Responsible for my own legal fees .

Huge blow back from discoveries, especially financial that address the responsibility of the party/ partner who committed fraud , even legal.

I had 30 days in 2001, to read and comprehend the divorce contract . I was a medicated mental patient , which never has been allowed in civil court .

However , our last court , was made aware of the high conflict , malignant relationship he insist on maintaining .

I was asked if I wished to question him.

No

Unfortunately he is separated from the truth . There’s no point in asking questions; he lies .

The court was informed that I do experience Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.

Far from a mental illness , awareness is lacking in legal / law enforcement, and has unfortunately destroyed the lives of many children, leveraged in retribution that has no end .

I am clear on what’s going on .

I did not agree to be the dumping ground for his unhealed trauma or a cover so his life looked normal .

Over 20 years of his being the victim that survived and thrived of whom I still want vengeance ever more .

A very recent experience pertaining to business , has revealed much ,that demands closure , a cutting of cords .

Sadly I realize and accept our 3 sons are still in energy of hatred and I’m their monster in their closet , lacking in everything, especially money .

Which is the point of his vengeance… I should never be allowed the freedoms , deserved with salary, home , health care or a relationship because he looses …as his target , he feeds on my challenges , without me he must find another supply .

Ignoring all the nudges from Divine , he in fact digresses.

Fact to face , 2 weeks ago , I had to agree to meet for a cash gift .

As we drove to meet him , I grew concerned that he carried a gun .

My reality is never knowing what he might do . Not enough for a protective order ..

Though his intentions are clear .

Watching , needing to know all with secrets that include my siblings , horrific disregard for vows made, ignoring universal law or karmic justice.

No closure , no periods at the end of sentences decades old , he holds his rage and it shows in his eyes, in his body , in his words .

Trust lost long ago , no more allowances for illegal acts .

Cord Cut .

I’m Thankful , and realize this will include ” his ” children and grandchildren who choose their own path as adults , preferring to ignore me in all ways .

I have not been tempted to act or be as he expects to be allowed contact or relationships with children

He has been informed and has ignored any responsibility for the physical and emotional and mental wellness of his children.

His WAR is not mine , should not be our children’s.

Intimate Partner Violence, ongoing is my reality, and I intend to do all I can to extract myself from the bonds that bind finding no cooperation exist ; only more targeting and secrets and lies .

The triangle 🔺️👌still present , exalted elder , until death they are bonded …matriarchal secrets carried within a destination less than heavely.

Regrets ; His mask was 95% in place and I had no reason to question his presentation, until I became pregnant and a year later became a married single patent and leverage for his partner whom he shared his angst at my forcing a child on him .

The blame game was done in shadow , in secret but I knew it all around me .. with lulls that I held as ” normal” striving to balance our family , to be enough for an insatiable need, want , desire that had no boundaries and still doesn’t.

UNCLE

https://www.elephantjournal.com/2015/08/when-the-narcissist-is-the-parent/

2nd Month Tested and ” Holding “

A very harsh lesson , still on going as I enter a 2nd month of no income except social security.

Indeed the wheeling and dealing was deeply embedded in shadow with intentions of divesting me completely, financially and intentions geared to digress me mentally, physically, financially and spiritually .

With holidaze and weather, further delaying forward movement , I can assure you all thats possible is being done .

Posing as a professional, the facts deny anything professional and though this energy is dank , I have 4 decades of experience and 20 plus pulling in pieces of the puzzle that are my present reality..Different entity..Same MO..

Finally at rest , with half a tank of gas , $10 cash and Thankful for food , I wait patiently for resolution.

Partnership that wasn’t…says much about the other who dwells in distorted energy .

Maintaining my balance as much as possible, grateful I’m present instead of medicated into submission as I was in past partnership of marriage so that business arrangements could be made to benefit the other .

Sensing the varied reasons for this current situation, I will not demure but will continue with my every effort to accomplish my goal of a home . Noting how much effort has been made to thwart my progress , the facts are present and I’m not concerned about the outcome for the other . Abusing my safety, my trust , my health and finances assures justice as Thy Will Be Done .

Snow is yet another challenge with more predicted in a few days . I refuse to live in fear or anger . Noting the severity of my situation of which I cannot detail at this time for legal reasons, I am aware of the opprotunity offered and denied , that have boomerangs , and no I cannot worry about the other’s side effects , for knowing , for enjoying my every trial if not support them in hopes I expire and their abuse kept secret .

Betrayal in Distorted energy is still abuse 💔especially when confidences have been shared and vulnerability exploited for greed and power .

Blessings & Peace

Dona Luna

A narcissist will use your wounds against you. And that’s it! They use the insecure or unhealed inner parts of you like bullets in their gun to fire at you.

A narcissist knows this. They’ve been practising this from a very, very early age.

And they know how to hit that person with those things to trigger them and get them to hand their power over.

As soon as you’re triggered, you’re pulled out of your powerful, innate self, your centre, and you regress back into childhood or past life traumas. Meaning those parts of you have now been activated, and they’ve come to the fore and feel powerless to protect you.

When you’re triggered into survival programs, you suffer from adrenaline and cortisol that activate the fight, fight, flee or freeze response. And this is where you have brain fog. You can’t think, you can’t get to solutions. You don’t know what to say.

The reason for that is everything shuts down. You’re back in your amygdala, which is triggering you into survival programs. You don’t have access to the cognitive solution, power, wisdom, or the logic to detach and know what to do. You just don’t have access.

It’s so important to understand what’s literally physiologically chemically going on within you so that you can accept that this is what happens. And when you look back through the times when you get triggered by a narcissist, if you’re honest with yourself, you know that’s what happens.

And you know that in those times, it’s like watching yourself by remote, and you can’t stop yourself reacting in a way that you know is not helping you, but it’s like, you feel powerless. You’re hijacked by it. That’s what’s going on.

For more on this, please take a look at these blogs –

The Answer To Narcissistic Abuse That No-one Is Talking About – Peptide Addiction – https://bit.ly/2Q4pGQ8

How Narcissists Draw You In By Identifying Your Gaps – https://bit.ly/3eb0CiC

Join me in the next free Healing Webinar, where I will explain how to seal your gaps and take your power back. You get to experience two healings that will start the Quantum Way to heal from abuse – https://bit.ly/3dn4w8S. You will be sent a replay link after the event has finished.

Much love xo ❤️

Geivence Against Psychiatric Abuse

State Legislators: they represent you.

There are multiple lines all moving forward simultaneously – one of them is the legislative line with your state legislators – they represent you.

You have a grievance… with the licensing board’s failure to act to discipline incompetent and unethical malpractice by forensic psychologists.

This is child abuse. The courts and mental health professionals need greater guidance from the legislative branch regarding their obligations to protect children from child abuse. That means amending the child abuse reporting laws to more clearly define all forms of child abuse – including Child Psychological Abuse, DSM-5 V995.51 – and the obligations to protect the child.

Previous legislation was introduced in Florida to do this. There are forces that don’t want change… then there was the Trump era that sucked all the oxygen from the political room – then there was Covid that sucked all the oxygen from the political room.

We are starting to get our oxygen back within state legislatures and their interest in the injustice and child abuse occurring in the family courts.

The state licensing boards will be increasingly exposed for their cover-up of the unethical malpractice in forensic psychology. Parents only have two options when the licensing boards don’t protect the consumer and instead protect the ignorant, incompetent, and unethical forensic psychologist from accountability for their unethical malpractice.

1) Malpractice lawsuits filed in the courts.

2) Complaints to state representatives for legislative review of licensing boards and the corruption and exploitation within forensic psychology and the family courts.

A parent is in contact with their state legislator’s office regarding their matter. An aide was assigned. The parent, the aide, and I met in my doxy.me/drchildress office for background.

There was no opportunity to intervene on the individual matter, but the representative’s office requested more information about any prior legislation that has been helpful. That’s the way of things – we fight for each other – we move things forward step-by-step, no step is lost when we move together.

I sent this parent the following resources to provide to their state representative’s office:

The Florida proposed changes to the child abuse reporting laws that provide greater clarity to the courts and mental health professionals regarding child psychological abuse (DSM-5 V995.51) would be extremely helpful. The courts and mental health professionals need greater guidance and clarity from the legislative branch regarding the obligations surrounding child abuse.

Florida House Legislation Proposed: SB1342 Child Psychological Abuse (Torres) https://www.myfloridahouse.gov/Sections/Bills/billsdetail.aspx?BillId=58975

Florida Senate Legislation Proposed: HB1279 Child Psychological Abuse (Antone) https://www.myfloridahouse.gov/Sections/Bills/billsdetail.aspx?BillId=59358

In addition. Kentucky passed a rebuttable presumption of equal shared parenting legislation in 2018, and these laws too for a rebuttable presumption of equal shared parenting are also very helpful to calming court-involved custody conflicts.

Kentucky Equal Shared Parenting Law
https://www.kentuckylawjournal.org/blog/index.php/2019/02/19/kentuckys-new-presumption-for-joint-custody-and-equal-parenting-time#_edn2

US News: Equal Shared Parenting
https://www.usnews.com/news/best-states/articles/2019-09-18/report-states-lack-laws-to-support-equal-shared-parenting

Forbes: Equal Shared Parenting
https://www.forbes.com/sites/tamiforman/2021/02/09/study-finds-that-equal-custody-arrangements-narrows-the-gender-pay-gap/?sh=67fc9c785611

I also have a presentation to the Pennsylvania House Children and Youth Committee on the situation in the family courts.

Pennsylvania Legislature: Dr. Childress Testimony
https://www.forbes.com/sites/tamiforman/2021/02/09/study-finds-that-equal-custody-arrangements-narrows-the-gender-pay-gap/?sh=67fc9c785611

Craig Childress, Psy.D.
Clinical Psychologist, CA PSY 18857

Risk & Limitations of Antidepressants

“The drugging of the American public is one of those strange, well-known, but under-discussed issues that are never quite fully represented in the conversation about where our culture is and where it’s heading.

As of 2016, one in six American adults were taking psychiatric medications, a staggering number that is accompanied by the fact that the mental health industry in America is worth well over $200 billion a year.

We’ve been led to believe that our doctors are the end-all-be-all authority on what’s good for our health and that their advice is backed up by rigorous and undeniable scientific proof. What we’re not told, however, is that scientific research today is highly suspect and often outright corrupted by the pharmaceutical industry.

Furthermore, we really don’t yet understand the full range of consequences involved in taking prescription psychiatric medications instead of pursuing other, natural possibilities.

Medical researcher Craig Wagner has compiled eight years of study of psychiatric medications and their effects, and he has distilled his findings into three easy-to-grasp infographics that will shatter your perceptions about the efficacy and safety of these medications.

We really don’t have a truthful understanding of this issue, but these graphics will help put it into perspective.”

— Alex Pietrowski, Staff Writer for The Waking Times

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Childress offers response to questions

Prepare your questions for Dr. Childress.

On this New Year, I will be providing an email address here and I’ll ask for your questions. Any question. From anyone.

I’m attending to parents, but attorneys and mental health professionals can ask questions too. Now-adult kids recovering. Anyone. Any question.

There’s no such thing as a dumb question. Well, actually, that’s not true, but that’s okay, ask it anyway. Any question.

Except what’s my favorite color, no trick questions to get me confused.

In January, I’ll ask you to send me your questions to the email address I provide. In February, I’ll start answering your questions on YouTube. All your questions. Even the stupid questions. My favorite color is blue, no wait… red… now look what you’ve done, I’m all confused.

Why not?

You have questions. That likely means more people just like you have the same question. I could answer your questions over-and-over each time one-by-one… or all together on YouTube – whee, don’t you love the Internet. I do. Best thing since fire.

So prepare your questions for Dr. Childress. I don’t need your stories. You think I need your stories to understand your questions, I don’t. I could tell you your stories. I want your questions – I can tell exactly your story by your question – each story has its questions.

I’ll won’t read your stories, I know your stories. I’ll read the sentences that end with this ? thing.

That sentence, the one that ends with that ? thing, is called a question. That’s what I’ll read and answer.

I’ll group your questions sort of, and I’ll start posting YouTube videos in February answering your questions, in 10-15 minute segments until there are no more questions – and a lot of answers on YouTube for everyone now and into the future.

Don’t ‘cha love the Internet. I do. Best thing since fire. Internet gud, and oh my goodness, no one knows your a dog. What’s your question for Dr. Childress? January 2022.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.
Clinical Psychologist, CA PSY 18857