Category: Parential Alienation-Child Abuse

January’s energies have been wildly erratic for so many of us on many levels. The past two weeks may have seen some ground crew, starseeds and wayshowers feeling intensely discombobulated, sleep deprived, having their mettle tested time and time again by close connections and acquaintances.

I am hearing many being subjected to hidden assumptions and unspoken expectations placed upon them by others – not just acquaintances,

but those supposedly in our own inner circles.

How are we/they showing up in their/our lives and vice versa.

There definitely seems to be a more pronounced demarcation and bifurcation point between those on resonant timelines and those who are not.

Recent interactions have highlighted how imbalanced some connections are and maybe always were so if they weren’t highly apparent before, they are now. Maybe you noticed a pattern of people from the past coming out of the woodworks to gauge where they stand with you and a distinct disconnect in energies – not for lack of wanting or trying – but as one side attempts to hook in (albeit often unconsciously), the other side is no longer feeling it and exchanging surface-level pleasantries just doesn’t seem to cut it anymore.

This can be quite sudden, abrupt and confusing on both sides as neither party wants to rock the boat and while they may not necessarily be ‘negative’ or ‘toxic’, mutual vibrations are no longer in alignment. Many have found a new set of energetic ‘non-negotiables’ – requiring immense authenticity and vibes.

Our heightened sense of intuition will not tolerate connections being even a degree off trajectory any more.

This may come as baffling, if not unexpected to some.

Some may have found themselves getting quite irritated,

short and stroppy with each other and even themselves.

The usual time-out (can’t deal/silent treatment)

often gets blurred with either being too busy or CBF. Competing priorities, sneaky agendas and transactional relationships are taking precedence over genuine depth and resonant connection.

Tomorrow’s Aquarian new moon and the beginning of

the Chinese lunar new year may offer a slight reprieve yet – keep holding out for the best in yourself and others during this time.

That doesn’t mean forcing things beyond their expiry date or remaining in something detrimental to soul/body/mind/spirit, but to honour that we have our respective paths and to respect that others have theirs. If we can arrive at a point of honesty and radical acceptance of a greater plan or vision beyond our current perception, grace may yet bestow her hand upon us and offer up a soothing balm for our hearts on this journey. 💙

Vina Von Bliss ❤

Do you want to know how much trouble the pathogen is in? Let me tell you how much trouble the pathogen is in.

The allied pathogenic parent and the child are both claiming that the parenting practices of the targeted parent are “abusive” of the child, and that’s why the child doesn’t want to be with this parent.

Abusive? My-oh-my. We want that assessed, don’t we. If a parent is abusing a child, we certainly don’t want that. So if the child and the allied parent are alleging that the other parent is “abusive” of the child, then let’s get that assessed, right?

We’ll need to find someone with background in child abuse, maybe someone who worked with foster care kids, that’s the abused child population, the ones in foster care. Like me.

It’d be really nice to find a senior staff psychologist for children in the foster care system, like the Clinical Director for a three-university collaborative assessment and treatment center for children in the foster care system. Like me.

These forensic psychology people have never worked foster care, they’ve never worked with authentically abused children. They might get it wrong. We want someone with actual direct experience assessing, diagnosing, and treating abused children in the foster care system. Like me.

I am exactly the person the pathogen wants assessing the “abusive” parenting of the targeted-rejected parent. I’m out of foster care, I was the Clinical Director for a three-university assessment and treatment center for children who were abused and placed in foster care.

What about domestic violence? Yeah, that too. Part of working trauma and child abuse is being an expert in IPV spousal abuse. I’ve worked up my share of safety and escape plans for the abused spouse. I’ve even run groups for the parents in domestic violence shelters.

Here’s the entry from my vitae:

Clinical Director

START Pediatric Neurodevelopmental Assessment and Treatment Center

California State University, San Bernardino

Institute of Child Development and Family Relations

Clinical Director for an early childhood assessment and treatment center providing comprehensive developmental assessment and psychotherapy services to children ages 0-5 years old. Directed the clinical operations, clinical staff, and the provision of comprehensive psychological assessment and treatment services across clinic-based, home-based, and school-based services. A three-university collaboration with speech and language services through the University of Redlands, occupational therapy through Loma Linda University, and psychology through Calif. State University, San Bernardino.

We had a contract with the Department of Children’s Services and were funded through the county’s Department of Mental Health, specifically to treat abused children in the foster care system. When a young child was placed in foster care, they were sent to me, to my clinic.

Yep, I’m pretty much spot-on the child abuse expert the pathogen wants. It’s alleging child abuse by the targeted parent, and I’m the “child abuse” psychologist you want assessing child abuse.

Isn’t that ironic? The trauma and child abuse psychologist the pathogen most wants assessing the alleged child abuse… is also the pathogen’s worst nightmare… a knowledgeable clinical psychologist who diagnoses pathology.

The pathogen has three defenses,

1) remain hidden,

2) see allies,

3) attack threats of exposure with great viciousness.

Diagnosis eliminates its primary defense, remaining hidden. The word diagnosis means identify. In common-speak, the term is identify, in psychology-speak it’s diagnosis.

We must first identify what the pathology is before we know how to fix it.

We must first diagnose what the pathology is before we know how to treat it.

identify = diagnosis

fix = treatment

I diagnose pathology. I identify what the pathology is. I’m a clinical psychologist, that’s what I am trained to do, diagnose and treat pathology.

The pathogen does NOT want that, it wants to hide, it doesn’t want me identifying it and exposing it from its hiding.

So while I am the – perfect – psychologist to assess “child abuse” allegations because I come from the child abuse world of the foster care system… the pathogen does NOT want me assessing its allegations of “child abuse.”

Do you know why?

Because it lies. All the time. It’s a symptom of the pathology. Have I mentioned it’s a delusional disorder? A shared persecutory delusion. The non-stop cloud of lies is how it remains hidden. It doesn’t want diagnosis, because there is no child abuse occurring… it’s lying.

The pathogen will accept involvement from an ignorant mental health person who knows nothing about actual trauma and child abuse, because then the lies can deceive the ignorant mental health person.

That’s the forensic psychology people. They’ve never actually worked with authentic child abuse and trauma, so they are easily deceived by the pathogen’s lies.

Yet since the pathogen is alleging “child abuse” by the targeted parent, we need that assessed by someone who has actually worked with authentic child abuse and trauma… like me.

I am exactly the psychologist the pathogen supposedly wants… and I am exactly the psychologist the pathogen most dreads. My-oh-my. Have you noticed a lot of these double-bind things for the pathogen and it’s allies lately? All over the place. No matter which way they move, they’re stuck in a no-win situation.

Sound familiar? No matter what you do you’re stuck? Yeah, I know. It’s a feature of trauma pathology, the double-bind, the no-win situation. Curious that they’re showing up with the pathogen now.

Yep, I don’t think the pathogen wants me doing the assessment, but at the same time, I am EXACTLY the trauma and child abuse expert the pathogen would supposedly want assessing the child abuse pathology.

I told you, the pathogen’s in trouble. It doesn’t like clinical psychologists. We diagnose pathology.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.

Clinical Psychologist, PSY 18857

On January 24th, the moon, which rules our: emotions, intuition and

inner core, becomes new at 4 degrees of Aquarius.

New Moons are always a time of fresh starts and represent: initiation, beginnings and a new chapter. Aquarius,

the 11th zodiac sign, is known to be: the rebel, the genius,

the detached one and the innovator.

The New Moon in Aquarius is here to liberate our fears and encourage our: independence, originality and desire to move forward. Aquarius, being an air sign, is very intellectual and often quite head strong. Aquarius energy is very concentrated and despite their detachment, always fights for what is equal and fair. We are ready to stand up for our freedom and go after our true hearts desires.

If you have been repressed in any certain way, this New Moon wants to liberate your soul and call you forth to express

your true authenticity. When Aquarius is present you never know what to expect. It is a part of their charm but also their mystery. “Expect the unexpected” is the motto of La Luna

a new in the sign of the water bearer. More then likely,

this new moon will conjure up some kind of surprise

and it could be shocking and disruptive.

One of the other reason’s this New Moon will be one of surprises is the harsh square or 90 degree aspect the New Moon makes to Uranus in Taurus. Uranus, the ruling planet of Aquarius, is known to bring: sudden events, shocks, evolution and revolution.

Uranus in Taurus squaring the New Moon in Aquarius will lead to some tense and unpredictable emotions to rise to the surface. Again, if there has been any suppression

of emotions or unwillingness to face a situation,

this could all come up to be seen at this New Moon.

Uranus square the New Moon will bring unexpected change and a struggle for independence and true sovereignty.

Emotional outbursts and tantrums could be a result of this tense aspect. We will be on the edge of our seats and ready to move forward to an unknown space of possibility but at the same time, there will need to be a “clearing of the air” in some area of our lives. The truth could come up and out and it might be sudden and without much warning. Uranus doesn’t just shock for the hell of it. His mission is always to enlighten and encourage soul growth. If you are confronted by erratic behavior and emotion at this New Moon, know that its purpose is to bring an awareness of perspective and evolution. There are always lessons to learn. This New Moon in a harsh angle to Uranus will perhaps, unexpectedly, make that very clear and apparent.

The New Moon in Aquarius is here to encourage you to step into unknown territories. No other sign is able to create “something from nothing” like a genius inspired Aquarian. We are ready to take off the masks of protection and let our freak flags fly! If you have been wanting to pursue your dreams or begin a new project, this is an excellent new moon to go after your destiny.

The Aquarian new moon wants you to honor yourself with complete faith and trust. Its not your problem if others don’t understand or get your magnificence. It is a problem, however, if you don’t honor that within your own self. Its time to leave the haters and non- sayers to play their games of self pity and neglect. Focus on yourself and step forward into a new destiny of promise and prestige. La Luna a new in the rebel sign of Aquarius is here to: encourage your inner freedom, embrace the wild unknown and let the sunshine in to liberate your soul to greener pastures. This New Moon will be most significant if you have inner planets(Sun-Mars) in/around 4 degrees of Aquarius.

astromomma ❤

I have created extended horoscopes for this vibrant and surprise driven new moon on my Patreon site: https://www.patreon.com/astromomma . These horoscopes will give you practical but purposeful guidance on how to best navigate this New Moon’s energies.