Category: Parential Alienation-Child Abuse

LionsGate law of Free Will & Responsibility

This Lionsgate is asking you to make a choice.

There are powerful energy shifts on our planet and this is truly the splitting of the corn from the chaff.

To sort the valuable from the worthless and

It is going to challenge you, to keep walking the Highest Dimensional Path, and not look back to see who is following, who is with you or not, whom you are leaving behind.

The LAW OF FREE WILL AND CHOICE and the LAW OF RESPONSIBILITY, is now coming to the fore, and making itself shown:

Know that every soul has free will and choice.

If you choose the Highest Path, there are others who will not choose the same and these may well be those closest to you and dearest to you.

In this new earth energy you will not be able to piggyback them any more.

Let them go.

They have free will and choice.

They can choose to wake up and walk the path with you or continue to sleep.

Some just will not choose to walk the path because they refuse to change, or cling onto the old life and old existence and the Old Earth, which in truth exists no more! They have their own lessons to learn as we all have.

You cannot take on their lessons.

This will not work.

You will need all your energy for you and attention and focus now on the new path unfolding in front of us and it is going to bring a sense of wonder and awe , magic and miracles and with it a totally new existence awaits you!

The Law of Responsibility clearly states that every soul is responsible for every single choice, decision they make and for whatever they create.

If you choose the highest paths, you will find that some souls just cannot or will not walk that path with you. For the highest path demands a total surrender for the ego, and a deep surrendering to step ever higher into the Soul Purpose and Mission, and the much Higher Form of Life and living.

Yet, therein lies the blessings and miracles waiting to unfold, you could never experience on the lower paths!

You will always attract souls who are on the same wavelength and frequency band as you are, and who will become your new soul family, as you co-create the New Golden Age together. And it will be in Unity, and with great love and devotion.

Remember too, that other souls will not.

There have their free will and choice.

Let go of all attachments, of all which is trying to keep you stuck in the lowest 3D.

Time for total Surrender.

At this time, you will be reminded of those attachments, cords, hooks, ties, and whatever else is still there for you to release.

Yet, know that with every release, something new is born within you, and with every step you will find something new to marvel about, to stand in awe and wonder about, as you now walk in multi-dimensions and claim your true Cosmic Heritage as your soul expands and remembers and co-creates more and more.

Author ~ Judith Kusel

🌀Nicole

Sacred Wild Woman Medicine

Artist ~Sophie Wilkins Art

Addiction

“Put a rat in a cage and give it 2 water bottles. One is just water and one is water laced with heroin or cocaine. The rat will almost always prefer the drugged water and almost always kill itself in a couple of weeks. That is our theory of addiction.

Bruce comes along in the ’70s and said, “Well, hang on. We’re putting the rat in an empty cage. It has nothing to do. Let’s try this a bit differently.” So he built Rat Park, and Rat Park is like heaven for rats. Everything a rat could want is in Rat Park. Lovely food. Lots of sex. Other rats to befriend. Colored balls. Plus both water bottles, one with water and one with drugged water. But here’s what’s fascinating: In Rat Park, they don’t drink the drugged water. They hardly use it. None of them overdose. None of them use in a way that looks like compulsion or addiction. What Bruce did shows that both the right-wing and left-wing theories of addiction are wrong. The right-wing theory is that it’s a moral failing, you’re a hedonist, you party too hard. The left-wing theory is that it takes you over, your brain is hijacked. Bruce says it’s not your morality, it’s not your brain; it’s your cage. Addiction is largely an adaptation to your environment.

Now, we created a society where significant numbers of us can’t bear to be present in our lives without being on something, drink, drugs, sex, shopping, even our phones… We’ve created a hyperconsumerist, hyperindividualist, isolated world that is, for many of us, more like the first cage than the bonded, connected cages we need.

The opposite of addiction is not sobriety. The opposite of addiction is connection. And our whole society, the engine of it, is geared toward making us connect with things not people. We no longer focus on bonding with other people, we now bond with stuff. In fact, we are trained from a young age to focus our hopes, dreams, and ambitions on things to buy and consume. Drug addiction is a subset of that.” #TheAllAmericanAddict

Lonely

Lonely…….

Have you ever realized how lonely it is when you are in a relationship with a narcissist they can be in the same room with you and you still feel alone. That is because they are emotionally withdrawn from you. We are so confused because of the love bombing stage in the beginning how this person seems to have changed overnight and all those great loving emotions have turned into hateful spiteful hurtful cold undertones. That’s because the love bombing stage is fake it is all fake narcissist once again depending on where they are in the scale don’t feel empathy or sympathy to the degree that we need in order to sustain a healthy relationship. If you’re dealing with a malignant narcissist which is pretty much antisocial personality disorder then they are emotionally impotent entirely void of the capability of caring or nurture. When they do show love or nurture it is false it is just the mask they are wearing. It’s very hard to accept the person you love and care for doesn’t love you but you have to realize and you must accept that they can’t even if they wanted to. It is best for you to become indifferent, to start the journey of separation to remember that all the hurtful things they say and do is the real them take the steps to safely let go so you can find love and be loved where you can love and have it in return.

“Jamie Larsen”

https://youtu.be/RLM0tiZ5Kf8

Never Knew Lonely , by Vince Gill

Empaths & Old souls

#EMPATHS #OLDSOULS

Empaths have sensitivity towards movies, TV, videos, and news broadcasts that depict scenes of violence or physical or emotional pain and trauma, whether it is an adult, child or animal. This can reduce them to tears and cause them to become physically ill. They are unable to justify the suffering that they feel and see and have no tolerance for others who don’t share the same level of compassion as they do.

Empaths work in careers that enable them to help others, whether it’s with animals, nature or people. They are passionate about their work and their dedication to others. You will often find empaths in volunteer positions dedicating their time to help others without pay or recognition.

Due to their ceaseless imagination, empaths are great storytellers; they are constantly learning and asking questions. They are also very gentle and romantic; they have a passion for family history and will keep old photos, jewelry or other items of value that have been passed down from generations. They are often the ones who sit and listen to stories told by grandparents and great grandparents and hold a wealth of knowledge about the history of their family.

To suit the variety of moods that they experience, they listen to a range of music genres. People are often curious about their taste in music, especially the extent of the diversity. One minute they are listening to classical music and the next hardcore rap! The lyrics to a song can have a powerful effect on an empath, especially if it relates to something they have recently experienced. It is advised that empaths listen to music without lyrics to avoid sending their emotions into a spin.

Empaths use their body language as a form of expression; they can articulate themselves just as easily through dance, body movements and acting as they can through words. Empaths are capable of exhibiting high amounts of energy when they dance; they get lost in the music and enter into a trance-like state as their spirits sync with the beat and the lyrics. They describe this feeling as becoming completely lost in the moment; they are no longer aware of the presence of others.

Empaths have very attractive spirits, and so people are naturally drawn to them without understanding why. They will find that complete strangers feel comfortable talking to them about the most intimate subjects and experiences. Another reason why empaths are so magnetic is that they are very good listeners; they are bubbly, outgoing, enthusiastic and people love to be in their presence. They are the life and soul of any party, and people like to have them around because they feed off their energy.

Due to the extreme nature of their personality, the opposite is also true; their moods can switch in an instant and people will scatter like cockroaches to get away from them. If an empath doesn’t understand their gift, the burden of carrying so many emotions can be overwhelming. They don’t understand that they are feeling someone else’s emotions; it is confusing to them. One moment they are fine and the next they are feeling a tsunami of depression, which causes them to act out.

It is not a good idea to abandon an empath in the heights of one of their mood swings. Whoever is around at this time should lend them a shoulder to cry on, become compassionate, and be a listening ear. This return of emphatic emotional care will often lead to an instant recovery. Empaths are often misunderstood, and it is a crucial part of their journey that not only do they understand themselves but others around them do too.

…

Judy Dyer

I Pledge

PLEDGE
I pledge allegiance to no flag.
I pledge allegiance to no nation,
no tribe, no party.
I pledge allegiance to no bombs
bursting in air,
but to the silence in a day of prayer.
True patriotism is rebellion.
True rebellion is joy.
Cast down the mighty, the masters of war.
I pledge allegiance to the poor.
I pledge allegiance to hemp and sod.
I pledge allegiance to the unnamed god.
I pledge allegiance to the moon and tide,
to sun and wind and what I cannot know.
I pledge allegiance to the rainbow,
to the light that contains all colors.
I pledge allegiance to living coral.
I pledge allegiance to an heirloom tomato seed
and to the wisdom in the weed.
I pledge allegiance to the unborn
curled in the mother’s sea of trust.
I pledge allegiance to the dust.
I pledge allegiance to all winged
and swimming children of the earth,
to creatures that crawl or come out at night,
to all my relations who wait to take birth,
to brothers and sisters, four-legged and two.
I pledge allegiance to you.
_~~~~Fred LaMotte

Bullied Children

Bullied children grow up robbed of the benefits of what I like to call their “natural inheritance” — all the positive traits and qualities they possess, are born with and/or work hard to obtain and build. Abusers and bullies (whether they be narcissistic parents or even childhood peers with burgeoning narcissistic and/or antisocial traits) often subject these innocent children to their malignant and envious bullying. They teach their victims to see themselves through the distorted lens and projections of their abusers — they are fed lies about themselves that more accurately reflect the traits of the bullies who know these victims surpass them. Until the victim gets accurate feedback outside of the abusive environment, they often do not realize how intelligent, talented, beautiful, and valuable they are. They are still seeing themselves and treating themselves the way their abusers trained them to do so. They don’t get direct access to benefiting from these traits until they see themselves accurately (i.e. an intelligent child continually called “stupid” by their bullies will usually hide their abilities to avoid being mocked, and due to low self-confidence created by the bullying). That’s why deprogramming these messages are so vital in adulthood — and figuratively/mentally handing back malignant projections to their bullies where they belong. These bullies were describing themselves all along and got to put themselves on a pedestal by targeting a scapegoat that represented everything they did not possess. You deserve the rights to your natural inheritance and to see yourself accurately. 💝

#narcissisticabuse #childhoodbullying #complextrauma #ptsd #cptsd