Tag: trauma

Paralyzed in time

Medicated for 13 very long years , I grieved for lost lime and unable to correct it .

Immeasurable loss

I have had repeats of this as far back as I can recall and am currently closing this out .

I am moved , renting an all inclusive top floor of a house . Storage items will be reloaded this month and I’m comfortable .

Except for the afterburn of the Pisces’s eclipse.

Hit me hard , sleeping and listening to nature . Jets overhead , an occasional cow moo or voice …. natural , my norm. Very little traffic noise .

Paralyzed no more , loved .

My girl ( assistant ) brought me a yellow flower today when she came to work for me . She’s got my back ; and I have hers . ❤️💯🤩

And she’s only 19😳

A gummy later , lying in bed with my

Infar red lights on , my body pillow and my

box bed mattress; life is good 👍

Discernment or Loyalty?

Part of my authenticity was to speak my mind and way too fast . I had friends who called and we talked for long periods of time while watching our children , cooking a meal , having a coffee

Not having an adult invested in our family was hard ; single married mom .

So yes I am guilty of saying things that could have been trippy for our children and I’ve asked and received forgiveness from on high . 🙏🙏🙏

Love the shadow & the dark within

Love the Saint & the Sinner

With

The child who hears you gossip about friends and family is not learning about other people.
They are learning that the people we love are targets for criticism the moment they leave the room.

You think it’s just harmless venting. A quiet phone call while they play nearby.
You believe they don’t understand the adult complexities.
Let’s call it what it really is.
You are not just talking. You are teaching them your definition of loyalty.

In those moments, you teach them that affection and judgment can come from the same mouth.
You teach them that relationships are conditional, and trust is something that evaporates with distance.
You are damaging the very concept of a safe, authentic friendship.

This is how you raise an adult who is deeply insecure, always wondering what is being said about them when they walk away.
Or worse, an adult who perpetuates this cycle, unable to form genuine bonds because they only know how to connect through criticism.

Speak of others as if they are in the room.
Model the integrity you want your child to embody. The most powerful lesson on loyalty is taught in the whispers they were never meant to overhear.

Author: Arsalan Moin