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Adverse Childhood Experiences-Charlie McCready

Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) are potentially traumatic events from 0 to 17. The original study in 1998 identified seven categories of ACEs, including physical and emotional abuse, neglect, parental substance abuse, parental mental illness, domestic violence, and having an incarcerated parent. These experiences were found to have lasting and profound impacts on mental health, physical well-being, and overall development. The research found that children who experienced four or more ACEs were 12 times more likely to suffer from alcoholism, depression, drug abuse, and suicide attempts. Subsequent research expanded the list of ACEs to include parental separation/divorce due to the recognised adverse effects it has on children’s well-being.⁠

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Parental alienation, a form of emotional abuse, usually following parental separation/divorce, usually involves at least these two ACEs. The attachment system, vital for forming bonds between children and parents, is severely impacted by parental alienation. It can lead to persistent fear and stress. The complete severance of a parent-child bond constitutes psychological abuse and damages this attachment system. Addressing parental alienation is imperative to safeguard children from the lasting trauma it inflicts.⁠

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Those who have faced ACEs are not alone. It’s estimated that 1 in 6 adults experienced as many as 4 ACEs before they turned 18. Support can be found through trauma-focused therapy, support groups, self-care, exercise, healthy living, but there is an urgent need for greater awareness about the problem of parental alienation and training for mental health and legal professionals working with separating families so that there is early detection and intervention. Let us collectively work towards a world where children can thrive, breaking the cycle of ACEs and creating a nurturing environment that fosters their potential and well-being.⁠

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Inside the mind of Domestic Abusers

Let’s acknowledge that Domestic Abuse

in 2025 is Intimate Partner Violence

High Conflict

Mercenary , Manipulative Malignant

It is Spiritual

It is physical and psychological

It is financial, the never ending story

of projected blasphemy’s that create

an aura of heroic survival despite

the insanity of your partner .

Hatred lives in the heart of racist ,

discrimination, who superiority

rules all around him .

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Eclipse Energy Report

This eclipse season marks a crossroad and a divine opportunity to shed your story all that is not authentic and in true alliance with truth both on a personal and a collective level. The new earth has shifted into her new orbital dimensional octave and thus you may feel disorientated and no longer being able to make sense of your self.

In other words you may feel an alienation to your old self and to those who you previously felt aligned with vibrationally because those that have done and are in the process of the inner work of shedding their story are literally in a sort of death process and are or have already now shifted to a higher octave that is attuned and aligned with your christed source essence, through which your human persona is dissolved.

This can be a gradual process or an abrupt shift, that can be a shock to your human self. In other words you may loose the sense of self and all the conditioning that kept you trapped in the mind construct hollowgram of who you thought you were.

The photonic light coming through this eclipse window is dismantling every bit of you that is out of tune with your soul’s essence. Because the incoming source light is not coherent vibrationally with duality mindset beliefs or imprints, that have previously distorted or disabled your ability to see thru the veil of deception. The veils of deception are dissolving and with it the mind trap of distortion of separation and of perception of time.

This may cause a sense of loosing controle, as your sense of self is dissolving. You might feel disorientated and in no man’s land and truly that is not just a temporary transitional space you are moving thru as you navigate thru this death portal that is designed for you to shed all that kept you in separation from your source origin and all the expressions of god that you “have been” and are living as your multidimenional self in the time/space continium in order to transcend the polarity and matrix of 3D. This sense of nothing-ness is the divine space of grace that you will embace and perceive once your human self let go.

Your human self may struggle and fight for it’s “life” and refuse to surrender to this death process for it is making no sense of being a no one but actually this no one or sense of being nothing is the very essence of your source self where you have transcended the construct of an individualised separate self.

A deep sadness may surface and be felt these coming weeks, this is the remnants and ancient memory stored within your cells of the “downfall from grace” which you experienced milleniums ago dating back to the times of the downfall of Atlantis and Lemuria, which are surfacing right now as well as other time lines where you experienced death and/or separation from god. This time on you have the opportunity to exit the death loop karmic wheel and unite with god as a living soul in embodiment. This has never happened before and this is indeed the very purpose of why you came here. To be the living christ in the flesh. To transcend the illusion from time and death which is the fundamental construct of the 3rd dimension. Bc of the timeline collapse you may go thru a timeline review which is caused by the dissolving of the mind construct of time that allows you to feel, sense and perceive every part of you is co-existing side by side in this time space continium on different frequency bandwidths.

Once you surrender completely and allow for this death process to kick in and take you “over” you cross the separation veil, which have kept you separate from your very source and true essence of divine love. In other words you reconnect with source and all your expressions of your parallel higher dimensional expressions which aligns and attunes you to your angelic and galactic blueprint..

You will suddenly realise, that the veil of maya is only a mind construct that is a fatamorgana hollow construct that is only held intact through your mind and in the coherent frequency bandwidth on which it vibrates which was set in place to hold you imprisoned in the mind prison of separation.

Now this eclipse window is a resurrection ascension gateway designed to usher you through the eye of the needle which peaks or should I say bursts at the upcoming solar eclipse on March 29th. It is an unplugging from the old frequency bandwidth of the old earth. The old earth matrix has already separated from the new earth likened to a snake shedding its skin so thus the feeling of depresion or anxiety, that many are feeling is caused bc your body and mind is in opposition to surrender and dissolve to give way for source energy to take up full occupancy of your body and god omnipresence to merge into being within your human vessel. When I merged with the elohim and solar logoi years ago I had the sense of falling which ignited deep fear of loosing controle but as I let go I instantly felt like I was floating in space spiraling in oneness with source of all that is and I felt a profound uplifting onto a higher vibrational octave of divine grace and rapture, which is our naturel state of being and home band frequency.

As you are letting go of the 3D mind construct that your body has vibrated on and been constricted to you may feel all sorts of physical symptoms as your physical body and cells are releasing the mind constriction of your body as a limited space of 3D density that you were trapped in.

So now this body construct is being dismantled thru the higher photonic light pouring in from the cosmos and turning your body into a more fluid state. Your cells are turning crystaline and density in your very bones is being alchemized by the galactic plasma and this process can be painful and causing distress as it decompresses into liquid plasma and starts to vibrate on higher octaves of light.

The affects of polarity that is still in place in the frequency bandwidth of 3D will only impact you to the extent that you allow it. Thus engaging in lower frequencies of us/versus them mindset will only create turmoil both physically, mentally and emotionally. Refrain from engaging in 3D lower timelines and those who vibrate on and engage in this realm for it will create attachments and prevent you from fully embodying christ consciouss with source. There is currently a lot of distractions set in place thru psyops to create drama and division.

The division has never been greater and will increase until the tipping point of the collective quantum shift. The best way you can assist in accelerating this is to detach from engaging in the us/versus them scenarious. Keep heart centered in 0-point neutrality. Trust the divine plan though nothing may make sense, you cannot figure out exactly what is going on and being played out on the world stage and there is no point of trying to make sense of it bc in truth nothing is as it seems. Find solace and peace within your sacred heart and breathe moment to moment and allow everything to unfold in divine grace. You are not missing out on anything. Trust the divine order and orchestration of the divine plan to unfold.

Embrace all that is being ripped apart all that is brought to the surface right now to be embraced, witnessed and let go off. The inner most core wounds of your human self is being displayed and expossed in the coming weeks thru this eclipse gateway for the resurrection into christ consciousness.

Time to get naked to love, to throw in the towel and surrender.

You got this. God in you is in charge.

Amma Grace ❤️

Poor Partner ? Good Father Myth

If a man believes he can protect his children while hurting his woman, he is deeply mistaken. What you give to your woman—whether love, respect, or pain—is what she will pass on to your children. This is an undeniable truth of life, one you cannot escape. A woman is the emotional and spiritual foundation of a home, and her well-being influences the emotional climate of the entire family.

When a man nurtures and supports his woman, he creates an environment where love and safety thrive. This love flows through her and reaches the children. A woman who feels cherished and respected will radiate warmth and stability. Her sense of peace will naturally create a secure world for her children to grow and flourish in.

On the other hand, when a man chooses to hurt or neglect his woman, he disrupts the harmony of the home. Her pain doesn’t stay confined within her; it becomes a silent burden that shapes the atmosphere of the household. Children growing up in a space filled with tension and emotional distress often internalize those struggles, carrying them into their own lives.

It is essential for a man to recognize that his relationship with his woman sets the foundation for his children’s emotional development. If he provides her with love and security, his children will learn the importance of healthy relationships and emotional intelligence. If he chooses to cause her harm, he risks teaching his children to repeat the same patterns of dysfunction.

A woman’s role in a family is unique. She is often the heart of the home, and her energy influences the rhythm of daily life. When a man honors this role and treats her with care, he empowers her to fulfill it wholeheartedly. This empowerment doesn’t just benefit her—it shapes the emotional well-being of their children for generations.

A man cannot claim to be a good father while being a poor partner. His treatment of the mother of his children is one of the greatest lessons he teaches them. Sons will learn how to treat women by observing their father, and daughters will learn what to expect from men. Therefore, a father’s actions have a profound and lasting impact.

Many men fail to see this connection, assuming they can compartmentalize their relationships. They believe they can show up as loving fathers while being absent or hurtful partners. But children are incredibly perceptive. They notice the unspoken dynamics and carry those observations into their understanding of relationships.

The truth is, children thrive in an environment where both parents are emotionally healthy and supportive of one another. A man who uplifts his woman not only strengthens her but also creates a stable foundation for his children to grow upon. His love and respect set an example that shapes their worldview.

Men must also recognize that protecting their children goes beyond physical safety. It involves creating a space where emotional security is prioritized. This cannot happen if the mother of the children feels unsupported, neglected, or hurt. Emotional wounds within the family ripple outward, affecting everyone.

To truly protect your children, protect their mother. Nurture her spirit and honor her contributions. When you invest in her happiness and well-being, you invest in the emotional health of your entire family. What you give her, she will magnify and return to your children tenfold.

So dear man, the greatest legacy a man can leave for his children is the example of a loving and harmonious partnership. By treating his woman with care and respect, he teaches his children the value of love, kindness, and mutual support. This is the universal truth you cannot escape—and one every man must embrace.

Eulogy

don’t let your funeral be the first time people ever hear your true story

~ spoil the eulogy

by wearing your epic adventure like

it’s a fluorescent ball gown every

single day of your existence

your life is a one-hit wonder that will never be played again in the history of everything

so don’t hide it as if

were a B-Side single

I know it’s easy to get bored

of this journey that you are on

but my love,

everything you have

~ overcome

survived

~ lost

celebrated

~ grieved

achieved

~ endured

contains the plot

of one of the most

compelling tales

the universe has

ever known

don’t bury your

story in a shoebox

under your bed

for a eulogist to have

to dig through

embrace your story

like you are the only one

who can tell it

because, my love

you are

~ john roedel

(art by the incredible Anja Andresen Waage My Art Journal)

Never Again

She’s been the girl who was lied to.

She’s been the girl who was manipulated, cheated on, and accused of doing things the other person was doing the entire time.

She was gaslight so hard she questioned what colour the ocean was.

She’s been the girl who gave chances on top of chances because she knows change doesn’t happen overnight.

She’s begged for counselling, pleaded for effort, and shown more patience than you couldn’t even begin to imagine.

She even changed the way she communicated to adapt to what someone else needed.

She buried her complaints and kept her feelings to herself so she could keep the peace.

She’s twisted her boundaries so much to try and make things work with other people she shouldn’t have given the time of day in the first place.

She used to do all those things so she could have peace of mind, but when she finally walked away, she knew she had done everything in her power to try to make things work.

And what she knows now is that every single time she did that …. all she was doing was showing people how they could treat her and still stick around.

And looking back, she can say with total confidence that not once was it worth it.

So she will never do it again.

~ Cody Bret