Tag: relationships

Partners

Not everyone is born to partner.

And those who aren’t,

should never be shamed or shunned because they take a different path.

In fact,

our world would be much worse off without them.

Many are here with a more individuated calling.

Some are born to explore the interior realms,

independent of relational challenges.

Others,

to create brilliant and beautiful things,

with little to distract them.

And others have been so wounded by relationship that they feel safer and happier on their own.

Whatever it is,

the assumption that partnership is the measure of an actualized life is misguided.

Every soul has a unique path to walk.

The measure of a life well-lived is whether we walk it.

– Jeff Brown

Artist: Vita Schagen

The Myth of Mental Illness

I have several of Dr ‘s books . He was alive when I started my waking and very honored in the movement against psychiatry as we now know it . It’s a very lucrative profession co joined with Big Pharma ( chemical companies) and very powerful ; deadly and the culprit for the erasure of families. Diagnosing behavior , no test and prescribing toxic medications which distort and often destroy the health and well being of a targeted individual as the list of drugs increases with ” side effects ” of said RX

The 80’s , ” The Society of Suicide” accepted the shadow side of psychiatry and this deception took root in our legal system which has only gotten much worse .

I highly recommend any of Dr S ‘s books and found this one is on Youtube and with a Christian take on the book but mostly correct in his summation .

The Myth Of Mental Illness

Blessings , Peace & Love ❤️

Dona Luna

youtube.com/watch

This is the way ; ascension news

“Equinox Gateway Activation”

By Samantha Orthlieb

(Senses of the Soul)

We are in the throes of the Equinox Gateway this week – until March 22 – in which we are processing our deepest wounds. Any wound that has kept us small, inauthentic, without creative expression or inability to sing our own unique song is being intensely cleared and healed.

Prepare to be reborn through

the Equinox Gateway!

Overall there is intense soul expansion to increase the flow of creativity and artistic expression, while reducing the fear and anxiety of expressing ourselves. Our soulful evolution to live our Divine Blueprint purpose is asking us to take risks and put ourselves in touch with our heart’s yearnings.

While the sun has calmed down in terms of acute solar flares that provide coding and support our Ascension process, today an “EXTREMELY RARE” CME flew away from the farside of the sun. Its high velocity appears to put it in the category of “Extremely Rare,” a decade-class event.

The explosion was so powerful, it peppered Earth with energetic particles, even though the CME was not Earth-directed. This powerful energy blast of protons will most certainly assist and amplify this intense healing gateway that we are now in. (spaceweather)

Add to this that we are moving into Eclipse season in April/May, which are portals to new timelines – so many will start to see movement towards changes in destiny or next steps – this may come in the form of shifts in relationships, jobs, financial status and/or projects moving forward or completing.

This is a potent time of inner transformation and self actualization; however, you may also be experiencing uncomfortable Ascension symptoms and feel like you are Icarus – flying too close to the sun, so to speak! Please know that in this time of acceleration of planetary and individual consciousness, your wings have no limitations but are getting a tad bit singed as you find your footing and equilibrium. So it may feel exhilarating but also terrifying!

It’s important to continue to make space to feel and heal, as your neural pathways are rewiring for expansion and greater comprehension of your place in the Whole. This quickening of your soul’s evolution may or may not be obvious to you at this point, however, anything you are struggling with the most right now is the key, and needs to be completed so that you can be empowered to fulfil your divine purpose in this lifetime.

This is the area that brings you the most growth and is tied to your deepest wounding. This could include relationships, jobs, attitudes and belief systems. Further clarity will be revealed to you if you are unclear and take the time to listen; trust that Spirit will support you with what is needed, in divine timing.

This is not a time to hold onto anything, now matter how much you believed that you needed it, in letting go you will gain more than you ever thought possible, opening to fresh blessings and a life that is lived creatively with a purpose, through your empowered heart.

In service and divine liberation,

Samantha 💜💕💫✨🌀

Full March Ascension Energies Update: https://sensesofthesoul.ca/…/march-2023-creating-with-a…

Cosmic Date Reminders:

March 20 – Equinox @ 1:25 pm PST

March 21 – New Moon in Aries @9:23am PST

Divorcing a Narcissist

Ex and 2 lawyers created our divorce ; I’d have like to have been awake and aware . No idea what I charged him with , abuse, abandonment, neglect etc ? But these 3 men changed it to ” no fault ” and I was responsible for my health care and legal fees .

The manipulation of my income including the cost of preparing our home for market ( after several years of our youngest living there in order to graduate high school ) the division of the 401k and division of home furnishings (he made those decisions , which meant I got what he didn’t want ) as I faltered in 2004 finding my cobra serve was ending and having just bought a house that needed more improvement than I could afford .

Of course I was mad to begin waking up to discover how he had played the victim instead of the truth that he lives a very miserable and distorted life and I nor anyone else is responsible for his happiness or growth .

The worst crime and abuse was committed in regards to our sons and then grandchildren.

Payback or Karma is clearing this decades old injustice .

Truth & Light restores the balance seized by a tormented soul I released long ago and upon completing old business it’s truly over . Equality and restoration of my name and character which he tried to destroy

It is mental, physical , financial and spiritual abuse which he prefers to continue to infinity.

It’s over

Forgiving – PAS/Child Psychology Abuse

Forgiveness involves learning to let go, and that is of great benefit to you. Forgiveness helps you to focus on your happiness and the good things in life. It is a decision you can make – replacing ill will with good-will. While you may have envisaged revenge or ‘an eye for an eye’ (which leaves everyone blind as the saying goes), you can make a choice to find peace of mind instead. This is decisional forgiveness. On an even deeper level, and harder to achieve, there’s emotional forgiveness. That’s when you’ve completely moved away from thinking about the person/people who have done you wrong. You no longer hold any negative feelings or dwell on the offence, hurt and harm inflicted. Reaching this stage takes time, but it is immensely beneficial to your health and well-being. It reduces the self-pity and ‘victimhood’ mentality, and eventually, this can disappear completely. It liberates you from being triggered or stuck in a cycle of grief and anger. How to achieve this? Try visualising that person (this might not be pleasant or easy at first) and understand why they did what they did. Time and distance make it a little easier to be objective. Feel the feelings that come up. Don’t suppress them. Why did they do this thing? Would they have done this to anyone they were with (it’s not about you)? So this is their problem, and they will continue having this problem long after you’ve moved on and let it go. Can you see the place of fear they’re coming from? Remember, somebody else’s decision to hurt you was not your fault. Have you ever behaved poorly and upset/offended/wilfully or inadvertently harmed someone else yourself? Have you forgiven yourself? Were you forgiven? It could be you behaved poorly when you didn’t know better at the time. You may have behaved the way you did, said, felt and done what you did back then because you had given away your power, and you were just trying to survive and cope the best you could. You didn’t know how much harm or hurt it would cause. Forgive yourself. Forgive others who have done the same thing. Stick with this, it’s not easy. It’s not to forget. We might never truly understand why why they did what they did. We can’t erase what’s happened, or minimise it. Nor do we want these people back in our lives. We don’t forgive to help the other person who hurt us, but we do it to heal our own wounds. Forgiveness is really for us. What we can do is reframe our thinking about the harm caused, and our reaction to it going forwards. The other person doesn’t have to be present. Think it, feel it, or write it down, and let it go. Burn the paper and see it go up in smoke. Imagine it’s gone from your life. Now here comes the really tough bit. Send love to your persecutor. There’s logic to this. Imagine how good things would be if they felt love not fear, and were not constantly at war with life and with you. Imagine how much easier life would be for your child if the alienating parent knew how to love – themselves and others. How much easier would life be. People in pain often cause pain to others. Send them love because if they are healed, the alienating behaviours will dissipate. They’ll no longer feel anger and fear and vengeance, if they’re actually happy and full of love. Imagine that. They may never apologize, or admit to their wrongdoing, they may never be happy and have good relationships, but that is no longer your problem once you let go of the hold they’ve had over you, the grief and anger you’ve been holding onto because of the injustice and harm they caused. Practice forgiveness anyway for your own sake.

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Deprograming the Alienated Child

It is extremely difficult for the alienated child to accept that the trusted, favoured, ‘good’ and aligned parent, the one they chose over the ‘bad’ parent, the one they believed, the one they might have even lied for, and done everything they could to please, actually, in truth, had nothing but their own interests, (and vengeance) in mind. The betrayal and shock of this is so awful that it is easier for that child not to believe it. Not only that but it makes them feel so manipulated and gullible. In reality, coercive control is incredibly hard to combat and children believe their parent would never do anything to harm them. Parental alienation is harmful. It is abuse. So it is extremely hard for the child to believe this has been inflicted on them. But the acceptance is the first step in their healing, and de-programming. Undoing what might be years of lies and controlling behaviour. As a target parent, it is a minefield because mentioning parental alienation can insult and upset the child. So we have to tread carefully and be so conscious of their suffering (just as we have suffered too).

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