Not everyone is born to partner.

And those who aren’t,

should never be shamed or shunned because they take a different path.

In fact,

our world would be much worse off without them.

Many are here with a more individuated calling.

Some are born to explore the interior realms,

independent of relational challenges.


to create brilliant and beautiful things,

with little to distract them.

And others have been so wounded by relationship that they feel safer and happier on their own.

Whatever it is,

the assumption that partnership is the measure of an actualized life is misguided.

Every soul has a unique path to walk.

The measure of a life well-lived is whether we walk it.

– Jeff Brown

Artist: Vita Schagen

Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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