Divorcing a Narcissist

Ex and 2 lawyers created our divorce ; I’d have like to have been awake and aware . No idea what I charged him with , abuse, abandonment, neglect etc ? But these 3 men changed it to ” no fault ” and I was responsible for my health care and legal fees .

The manipulation of my income including the cost of preparing our home for market ( after several years of our youngest living there in order to graduate high school ) the division of the 401k and division of home furnishings (he made those decisions , which meant I got what he didn’t want ) as I faltered in 2004 finding my cobra serve was ending and having just bought a house that needed more improvement than I could afford .

Of course I was mad to begin waking up to discover how he had played the victim instead of the truth that he lives a very miserable and distorted life and I nor anyone else is responsible for his happiness or growth .

The worst crime and abuse was committed in regards to our sons and then grandchildren.

Payback or Karma is clearing this decades old injustice .

Truth & Light restores the balance seized by a tormented soul I released long ago and upon completing old business it’s truly over . Equality and restoration of my name and character which he tried to destroy

It is mental, physical , financial and spiritual abuse which he prefers to continue to infinity.

It’s over

Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser .. View all posts by GreatCosmicMothersUnited