Tag: family

Memories

I choose to remember you

Not by how you hurt me

But by how you taught me to heal

Not by how you left me

But by how you taught me to never abandon myself

Not by how you broke me

But by how you taught me to rebuild myself

Not by how you dimmed my light

But by how you helped me to shine

Not by how you kept me trapped in a place of comfort

But by how you empowered me to leave my comfort zone

Not by how you left me feeling weak

But by how you taught me what it means to be strong

Not by how you tried to control me

But by how you taught me to be free

Not by who you told me who I was

But by how you taught me to define myself

And above all

I choose to remember you

Not by how you were unable to love me

But by how you taught me

To love myself.

Things your alienated kids won’t tell you ! / Adult child shares her experience

This really helped me so much today , and I truly consider it a gift .

I emailed it to sons , hoping that this might aide them, as I repeat ..

” I choose to move forward , and will always have one arm pointed

backwards , should positive growth , moving forward, ceasing to target me ,

ends .

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A parent recited this parental ‘Contract ‘ – Mind Blowing

Over the past decade, my ex-partner has alienated my twins from me on two occasions, resulting in me losing over three years with them. Throughout this period, I endured numerous court fees, false allegations, and emotional distress. Despite these challenges, I never gave up and ultimately emerged victorious in the final hearing. My teenage sons, who have witnessed the chaos and her narcissistic tendencies firsthand, now desire to live with me. In a surprising turn of events, she has offered to let them live with me. Here is the proposal she has presented…🤣