Tag: family

Babies feel what their Mom’s feel

I definitely believe this and the anger and neglect present during our first pregnancy did adversely affect me , thus our baby .

I pray there is a healing for our child(ren) for each were subjected to at the least was a disinterested Dad .

Alot of people dont know this, but the baby feels everything the mother feels.

Every heart break, every smile, every single emotional thing. Even touch! When hugging the father and just taking that time to breath the baby can feel that love. That feeling of warmth and security. At 22 weeks the baby has started to learn voices and can tell which voice is peaceful to its mother and which voice hurts the mother. They have become aware of most sounds around them. By 26 weeks the baby can develop emotions for him or herself on feelings the mother feels. By 30 weeks the baby has picked who’s voice it is most favored towards. Needless to say, dont stress yourself. Cause your baby feels it all. ❤️💕

Illustration by Brooklyn Walker Art

Alienators are not mentally healthy

We desperately need legal and mental health professionals and family court judges to understand that ‘parental alienation’ is not mentally healthy parenting. Often it is driven by one parent’s selfish and narcissistic desire for revenge or control over the other parent. The alienating parent forces the child to sever their relationship with the targeted parent, disregarding the child’s well-being and emotional needs in pursuit of their vendetta. Such actions can be emotionally damaging and harmful to the child, as they are used as pawns in the alienating parent’s manipulative tactics.

While there is no magic wand to undo the harm caused, there is always a way forward. Focusing on your own well-being, setting healthy boundaries, and practising calm, non-reactive responses can make a difference—not only for yourself but also for your child. Healing starts with small, intentional steps, and every positive choice you make strengthens the foundation for a healthier future. You have the power to model the stability and love your child needs, even in the face of such adversity.

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Inner Child Wounds

From the lived experience of our personal reality, our inner child wounds certainly are real, as they reek havoc throughout our lives and relationships causing much pain.

Our minds disconnect these traumatic painful events which, during our formative years, we are unable to process in a healthy emotional way. They are pushed into our subconscious minds where they wait, causing disruption from behind the curtain, until we have the conscious awareness and emotional fortitude to re-engage and heal them.

Once we release the emotional blockages, and hence the emotional charge of these suppressed memories, we gain awareness that they have no real power over us unless we continue to ignore and suppress them.

Through healing, we liberate our souls from the shackles of these subconscious mind constructs. The fear, pain, guilt, shame, etc., dissolves as it is incorporated and integrated into our conscious awareness. Once this perspective is reached, and healing is achieved, the memories and emotions are realized as illusionary constructs of a subconscious mind that used them to fortify the ego, in its own bid for control over its own illusionary existence.

The ego, from the perspective of a higher consciousness, exists to create its own illusions of false beliefs to challenge our soul’s full expression, which ego sees as a threat. We believe these illusions are real until we shine the light of our conscious awareness into the darkness of our subconscious ego mind.

The darkness then dissolves as it is brought into the light, and we become whole.

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-JMB