Tag: distorted

How to prepare for a new job as a highly sensitive person

I tested close to 100% and it was Super Hyper Sensitive. I believe the numbers here are not high enough , as vaccines , stress, trauma etc create a sensitivity that’s being diagnosed, horrifically , and medicated as a DSM , ” something else”

APA doing much harm.

Learn practical tips and strategies for starting a new job as a highly sensitive person (HSP) and dealing with anxiety in a new environment. Manage stress, build confidence, and thrive in your new role. Discover expert tips here!
— Read on www.welcometothejungle.com/en/articles/tips-for-a-highly-sensitive-person-starting-a-new-job

Craig Childress PsyD Resources

Resources.

You need resources to support you.

This pathology tries to destabilize you in every way possible. You need support. You have support. Let’s talk about that over coffee and crumpets this Sunday, 8:00 Pacific on Facebook Live.

I’ll talk about booklets and handouts. I’ll talk about what Dorcy does and what I do, we do different things to the same purpose, restoring you and your kids back to normal.

I’ll talk to you about your path moving forward – treatment not custody. You’re in the leadership position. You’re the healthier parent. The other parent is leading the family to destruction. The child is giving you the problem because you can solve it.

So let’s do that. Let’s solve it.

It starts with a plan. Let’s get your feet under you and develop a plan. It’s always the same pattern. Some of you are in the narcissistic-dad pattern, that has a higher spousal abuse feel. Some of you are in the borderline-mom pattern, that pattern has higher anxiety and false allegations.

But it’s pattern. You do this, it does that. It fights about everything. Everything. Set your ground. Make it fight about what YOU want to fight about – treatment not custody.

You need mental health support. So let’s set about getting you that. You’re going to have to be smarter than your mental health people. Sorry. That should never happen but it has happened here. We’re fixing that.

But we don’t want to lose your children as the plane we’re flying is being fixed. Twenty years from now, everything is fixed. That doesn’t help you now today.

Let’s talk about resources you can bring to your battle with the mental health people and broken systems. Start by shifting the ground you stand on from custody to treatment – you want a written treatment plan, for that you’ll need a diagnosis – the treatment for cancer is different than the treatment for diabetes.

Is there a shared persecutory delusion, also called an induced persecutory delusion. It’s a real thing. Melanie Greenham explains it all in our articles available on ResearchGate. You have resources.

How do you use them to best effect? Let’s talk about that this Sunday over coffee, 8:00am Pacific on Facebook Live. I love the Internet.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.
Clinical Psychologist, CA PSY 18857

Educated Fools

I was surrounded by those who were not interested , giving up on me . I was aware of the fake labels and toxic chemicals draining/killing me with many professions who were not interested in deviation from what a psychiatrist diagnosed . He was corrupt and should not have had the protection of the state who licensed him. How many families did he erase ? How many adverse reactions to his diagnosis and prescriptions ?

The money and power are hard to resist , while following the dictates of a bogus DSM, the “ bible” of psychiatry.

Borderline Personality Disorder “No Longer Has a Place in Clinical Practice”

Nothing of psychiatry is based on science , and misses the reality of culture, trauma , ( hysteria) from abuse by a malignant projector in denial of their own darkness .

It’s been sexist , as a stay at home Mom, with dreams of having a business I could tailor to our children’s needs , I didn’t bother to share with a partner who had shown me , my place in the world was one of grateful slavery , did not see me, did not hear me, never ever showed that I mattered.

Labels , rather that observe the facts.. my ” histrionic ” personality were malignant abuse and Xanax over dose/ addiction , which had me break with reality .. an induced nervous breakdown ..

So much devastation and loss as a result , my recovery has been challenged many times to protect the falsehoods of those who have portrayed a highly distorted reality which demonizes the feminine and erases families.

Researchers from the UK and New Zealand argue that Borderline Personality Disorder should be abandoned as a diagnostic category.
— Read on www.madinamerica.com/2023/06/borderline-personality-disorder-no-longer-has-a-place-in-clinical-practice/

Narcissist Downgrades – Kim Saeed

I did not consider his new supply a downgrade , more like she was his mirror twin , distorted and lacking morality . Expressing sexual intimacies with me, and I’m sure with her , experiencing the total withdrawal of anything close to love or compassion as she too became unable to work.. 5 years after her health failed, he returned from a trip out of state to find her gone . He had to pay out , due to her contribution to house etc .. and he never gets over a personal loss of money.

When people talk about someone else as a “downgrade,” it is making a quick, unfair judgement about a person without really knowing very much about them.

When you see the narcissist with someone else who you consider a downgrade, you don’t know their full situation or story. Automatically looking at someone as a downgrade is a judgmental place to be in, rather than an open and compassionate place.

Learn how to handle this feeling in the article:

https://bit.ly/AreTheyReallyaDowngrade

Your friend on the journey,

Kim 🕊️

Sherri Campbell PhD

Absolutely correct , it’s been ongoing for decades .. I’ve don’t my work to extract myself from their blasphemy . I tend to think they prefer playing the victim , I’m told friends of sons think me dead. The woman I was certain ,no longer exist , due to the alienation and continued abuse that they laughed at , competitively winning is vital..So lying about me, distorting my words is a fun game , nothing more .

Damage done , it’s time to reap what’s been sewn .

One of the key goals of a smear campaign is to gather anyone and everyone to believe a false narrative being told about you. The reason this is the goal is because it separates you from everyone important and not important to you.

Emotionally abusive family members want to make sure you will be left without any support system. They have an impeccable ability to triangulate others into abusing and ostracizing you. They build a false narrative to make them look innocent and as if they are being abused by you.

The natural impulse you will have will be to defend yourself; to right the wrongs. As counterintuitive as this may seem, your truth will more effectively come out through being non-defensive, quiet and non-reactive to what they are doing and saying. To accomplish this, you must focus more on moving on with your new life than with the lies being told about you in the old life.

Parentification by Charlie Mc Cready

Alienating behaviours include what’s known as parentification. Signs of this will be when a child shows signs of parenting one of their parents (the alienating one). The child knows far too much about what should be purely adult problems or concerns. Also, the child feels responsible for the well-being of the parent – a role-reversal. It could be that the child feels guilty because the alienating/aligned parent makes them feel they’ve sacrificed for the child. Or they’ve been trauma bonded through shared persecutory delusions. It is, of course, psychologically abusive. All children, especially the alienated enmeshed child, should be free to be themselves, to ‘find themselves’, to self-realise, and develop a separate identity. This is an important goal of adolescence onwards. They need love, support, encouragement, and the space to do this, which is the opposite of the control and coercion inflicted on them by an alienating parent, intent only on creating an obedient mini-me, with imprinted thoughts and beliefs.

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