Narcissist Downgrades – Kim Saeed

I did not consider his new supply a downgrade , more like she was his mirror twin , distorted and lacking morality . Expressing sexual intimacies with me, and I’m sure with her , experiencing the total withdrawal of anything close to love or compassion as she too became unable to work.. 5 years after her health failed, he returned from a trip out of state to find her gone . He had to pay out , due to her contribution to house etc .. and he never gets over a personal loss of money.

When people talk about someone else as a “downgrade,” it is making a quick, unfair judgement about a person without really knowing very much about them.

When you see the narcissist with someone else who you consider a downgrade, you don’t know their full situation or story. Automatically looking at someone as a downgrade is a judgmental place to be in, rather than an open and compassionate place.

Learn how to handle this feeling in the article:

https://bit.ly/AreTheyReallyaDowngrade

Your friend on the journey,

Kim 🕊️

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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