Absolutely correct , it’s been ongoing for decades .. I’ve don’t my work to extract myself from their blasphemy . I tend to think they prefer playing the victim , I’m told friends of sons think me dead. The woman I was certain ,no longer exist , due to the alienation and continued abuse that they laughed at , competitively winning is vital..So lying about me, distorting my words is a fun game , nothing more .
Damage done , it’s time to reap what’s been sewn .
One of the key goals of a smear campaign is to gather anyone and everyone to believe a false narrative being told about you. The reason this is the goal is because it separates you from everyone important and not important to you.
Emotionally abusive family members want to make sure you will be left without any support system. They have an impeccable ability to triangulate others into abusing and ostracizing you. They build a false narrative to make them look innocent and as if they are being abused by you.
The natural impulse you will have will be to defend yourself; to right the wrongs. As counterintuitive as this may seem, your truth will more effectively come out through being non-defensive, quiet and non-reactive to what they are doing and saying. To accomplish this, you must focus more on moving on with your new life than with the lies being told about you in the old life.
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