Tag: abuse narcissistic behavior

Oct 2021

Last October in the single wide .

The vehicle parked out front is the neighbors , 1 of 3 that had to pull in my drive way , if I were in the kitchen , living room area it was up close and shocking ( I never got used to it )

If I parked to thwart the parking of these 3 vehicles it was communicated and I had a very angry old man pound on my door complaining because my parking was interfering with the neighbors

I had no privacy in the front , and certainly not in the back where a dog was chained . His owner said he had been happily chained for 8 years . He could not fit in his dog house and used what originally was a chicken coop that belonged to the single wide.

Turned out the old man was the owner , the man who rented to me was renting and upon my discovery stated he planned to buy both properties in December 2021 . He promised to build me a deck so I could spend time outside privately on the far end of the single wide .

Before I left the owners of the property next door brought in donkeys , goats , horses etc which were real close .

The single wide was in sad shape , but I accepted that I could help my fake landlord reclaim it .

The stove was shot and replaced with what he called a ” smart stove ” and therein the burners would go from high to off without touching the dial ?!

I could not find any info on this at all !

An answer for everything but nothing based on truth or fact .

So glad to be out of that shadow play !

BottomFeeders are a reality ; even more so in todays lower energy !

Thank for the higher quality folks in my life and I’m not concerned with what karmic response awaits those who chose deception that adversely affects my quality of life .

Blessings & Peace 🎃

Dona Luna 🙏☮️

Bill Gates and Bunkers

Yes Bill Gates has been preparing for decades to survive the clearing of carbon foot prints so he can live beyond well. Of late he has bought up farms and amassed much land to factory farm . Conspiracy theorist , years ago discussed the viability of putting vaccines in corn !

Gates also has been busy collecting seeds for decades which are in a chamber below ground , so he can grow foods after the induced collapse of our world !

I see Gates being prosecuted, for his crimes against humanity .

Of importance is the fact that neither child of Bill Gates has ever had a vaccine .

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Projection -Sherrie Campbell PhD

To rid themselves from having to own their own abusive, negative qualities, your toxic family members play the projection game. They see all the bad that is in them and attribute it to you.

They actively accuse you of being the abusive, mean, or evil person in the relationship. The blame you to make you defensive. When you naturally get defensive, it puts them back in control.

Projection is designed to confuse you, to make you question if you are in fact the bad, abusive person. Creating this kind of self-doubt is exactly what your abusers want.

If you find yourself in this crazy-making position, hold tight to who you know you are. Do not argue with a person like this. Do not try and defend against their projection. It doesn’t matter what they think about you. What matters is what you know about yourself.

You know who the real abuser is. It isn’t you. Case closed.

Trashing Your Name

It’s utterly stupefying when you discover someone you trusted and had a relationship with has waged a smear campaign against you.

While you’re talking about this person caringly or even just civilly behind their back, they’re doing what they can in an attempt to discredit you and make you out to be untrustworthy.

I had this happen to me even recently, with someone I thought was a friend…who I’d opened my home to and introduced to my family. I even took her on vacation with me and my sons one year.

Then, inexplicably, she withdrew from me and stopped returning my calls and messages.

I later discovered she’d told people things about me so that they wouldn’t trust me.

The old me would have obsessed about this and possibly begged this person to tell me what happened.

But the new me understands that these things can happen, even with people you believe you can trust.

Why she did this, I’ll probably never know.

And the people she turned against me or, at the very least, planted a seed of distrust about me…I had always felt fond of them, but we weren’t close friends. I cut ties with them, as well.

I’d seen her take the scorched earth approach with other people, but I honestly never thought she’d do it to me.

Until she did.

Moral of the story: Sometimes you don’t see these things coming…but once you discover that someone is smearing your character behind your back, then there’s only one thing to do and that’s to move forward without them. This is one of those situations that you will no longer be able to feel safe about, even if you attempt to resurrect the relationship. Because, if they did it once, they will likely do it again.

No chasing. No begging. No multiple paragraphs or email tsunamis trying to make them understand. These things don’t work with people who are determined to MISUNDERSTAND you, even if what they’ve told people about you is entirely untrue.

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Silence

As a target of weaponized silence I am aware when anyone uses this against me .

As such I’m aware of the distortion within the heart mind and soul of such an individual whose actions do not keep pace with their words . Or these words are omitted thus a feeling of correctness for not having truth within and challenged resort to covert acts .

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