Projection -Sherrie Campbell PhD

To rid themselves from having to own their own abusive, negative qualities, your toxic family members play the projection game. They see all the bad that is in them and attribute it to you.

They actively accuse you of being the abusive, mean, or evil person in the relationship. The blame you to make you defensive. When you naturally get defensive, it puts them back in control.

Projection is designed to confuse you, to make you question if you are in fact the bad, abusive person. Creating this kind of self-doubt is exactly what your abusers want.

If you find yourself in this crazy-making position, hold tight to who you know you are. Do not argue with a person like this. Do not try and defend against their projection. It doesn’t matter what they think about you. What matters is what you know about yourself.

You know who the real abuser is. It isn’t you. Case closed.

Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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