Tag: abuse narcissistic behavior
Bipolar Cycles of Narcissistic Personality
Narcissist Downgrades – Kim Saeed
I did not consider his new supply a downgrade , more like she was his mirror twin , distorted and lacking morality . Expressing sexual intimacies with me, and I’m sure with her , experiencing the total withdrawal of anything close to love or compassion as she too became unable to work.. 5 years after her health failed, he returned from a trip out of state to find her gone . He had to pay out , due to her contribution to house etc .. and he never gets over a personal loss of money.
When people talk about someone else as a “downgrade,” it is making a quick, unfair judgement about a person without really knowing very much about them.
When you see the narcissist with someone else who you consider a downgrade, you don’t know their full situation or story. Automatically looking at someone as a downgrade is a judgmental place to be in, rather than an open and compassionate place.
Learn how to handle this feeling in the article:
https://bit.ly/AreTheyReallyaDowngrade
Your friend on the journey,
Kim 🕊️
Sherri Campbell PhD
Absolutely correct , it’s been ongoing for decades .. I’ve don’t my work to extract myself from their blasphemy . I tend to think they prefer playing the victim , I’m told friends of sons think me dead. The woman I was certain ,no longer exist , due to the alienation and continued abuse that they laughed at , competitively winning is vital..So lying about me, distorting my words is a fun game , nothing more .
Damage done , it’s time to reap what’s been sewn .
One of the key goals of a smear campaign is to gather anyone and everyone to believe a false narrative being told about you. The reason this is the goal is because it separates you from everyone important and not important to you.
Emotionally abusive family members want to make sure you will be left without any support system. They have an impeccable ability to triangulate others into abusing and ostracizing you. They build a false narrative to make them look innocent and as if they are being abused by you.
The natural impulse you will have will be to defend yourself; to right the wrongs. As counterintuitive as this may seem, your truth will more effectively come out through being non-defensive, quiet and non-reactive to what they are doing and saying. To accomplish this, you must focus more on moving on with your new life than with the lies being told about you in the old life.
Kayden’s Law – Bill # HR271- Abuse and violence against women and children
I have been ignored and laughed at by lawyers, police officers and Common Wealth Attorneys…
It’s past time to educate those who professionally deal/work with families , ending the ignorance that cost this precious 7 year old girl her life .
https://www.youtube.com/live/rzd-qahMNes?feature=share
The impact of Kaden’s Law in Parental Alienation/ Child Psychological Abuse . Protecting Women
Friendships , after , is Land of Disturbia Kim Seeade
What’s the most common reason narcissists want to be friends? They know you’re still longing for them.
The friends (with-benefits) dynamic gives narcissists free rein to sleep with other people. And many times, the narcissist will enjoy having multiple sex partners while you’re still pining over your relationship and hoping things might change.
Even worse, you may become their confidante for the “relationship troubles” they’re having with the new supply! Imagine having to hear the breakdown of how much they care about the new supply, how they’re thinking of popping the question, or even how the new supply isn’t meeting their physical desires!
Being friends with the narcissist simply means they will continue using you and playing with your mind, only without any expectations for reciprocation.
Tools and resources here: https://tap.bio/@kim.saeed
Your friend on the journey,
Kim
Carl Jung – Connected to Masonic Religion
Ever to Conceal; Never to Reveal
Secret Society ; Superior Religion that judges everyone else is…vulgar
And are pledged upon a very cruel death , to the secret , not to marry a non member .
Pledging their children and grandchildren…
I’m listening watching an expose’ and realize the ” cult” “inherent “, in too many institutions that are being exposed and of no power against the truths and the light.
Psychiatry is by it’s example of this ” religion”.
Sinéad O’Connor Documentary ‘Nothing Compares’ Reexamines Her Complicated Story | HuffPost Entertainment
Director Kathryn Ferguson re-centers the singer-songwriter as the icon she rightly is. But that comes with limitations.
— Read on www.huffpost.com/entry/sinead-oconnor-nothing-compares-documentary-interview_n_6335dab4e4b0b7f89f3ef123
The Best & The Worst – Narcissist Teacher- Lessons – Growth
The effort to control , the silent aggression, the covert , full fact frontal abuse …modeled to 3 sons as ” normal ” …
The Narcissist Teacher – Thank you- Goodbye
Thankful for the lesson, the growth , and the conclusion of these harsh lessons … no more blocks towards my ” normal ” which is of peace and harmony even if it’s a party of one… I’m never alone or unloved or neglected in this exquisite , beautiful world that’s being being rebirthed, recreated in love 😻.
Pathogenic Parenting
It is not normal for a child to align with one parent over another who is ‘normal-range’, willing, loving, available. It should be something all family courts are alert to because it is a sign of parental alienation and there is pathogenic parenting going on here. It is child psychological abuse. To cope with the traumatic experience of being told terrible things about one parent by the other who also requires and coaxes that child to fear, loathe and reject their loved, loving ‘target’ parent, the child psychologically ‘splits’. It is a way of cutting off from the love they feel (that they cannot feel anymore) for the rejected parent. It seems counter-intuitive but even in abusive relationships, the victim seeks love and affection from the perpetrator. It’s Stockholm Syndrome, and ‘identification with the aggressor’ which I’ve covered in other posts. The alienated child is angry, rude, and highly critical of the ‘other’ parent. The experts should be wary of the child who has few if any good memories of the alienated parent, and has no wish to repair the relationship. Abused children want a good relationship with their abusive parent. This is hard to believe but true. The abused (alienated) child wants to downplay or deny any wrongdoing on the part of the ‘aligned’ parent, they don’t do the same with the ‘target’ parent. These are red flags.
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