Ron Brezsny’s ( FreeWillAstrology👁👍🏼 Shares his Really Good Things 2018

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GREAT AWAKENING

“Civilization may be unraveling in a lot of areas; some of its structures may be collapsing; but it is also in the midst of a tremendous upheaval of creativity — a flood of innovation and genius and love pouring out of millions upon millions of people — a Great Awakening that is far louder and stronger and more interesting than the sleepy resignation and corrosive maliciousness and ignominious decline that the media prefers to focus on.

Give you, your flowers 🌺

https://youtu.be/Fr3DhEw59-w


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Here Are Some Really Good Things That Happened in 2018:

1. Deb Haaland of New Mexico and Sharice Davids of Kansas became the first Native American congresswomen in U.S. history.

2. Ireland ended its abortion ban, thanks to the thousands of people who flew home to vote on the referendum.

3. The New York Times began righting history by publishing obituaries of notable women they overlooked.

4. U.S. Olympian Chloe Kim became the youngest woman to win a medal for halfpipe snowboarding at the 2018 Winter Games, where she took home the gold.

5. Tammy Duckworth made history as the first U.S. senator to give birth while in office, and as the first senator to have a newborn at her side while casting a vote on the Senate floor.

6. More women candidates ran for office than ever.

7. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez upset the Democratic establishment in her monumental win in New York’s 14th congressional district.

8. The Parkland kids — with help from fellow young activists in Chicago — galvanized the country into taking action against gun violence.

9. Kendrick Lamar won the Pulitzer Prize for “DAMN.”

10. Toronto hosted its first-ever Indigenous Fashion Week.

11. #MeToo activists saw some justice in Harvey Weinstein’s arrest, canceled R. Kelly concerts, and Charlie Rose’s suspension — but there’s still much more work to be done.

12. Octavia Spencer and Jessica Chastain joined forces to fight for equal pay, shining a light on the intersection of race and gender inequality in Hollywood and beyond.

13. Gina Rodriguez donated her Emmy Award campaign money to a scholarship for an undocumented high school student.

194. Laverne Cox graced the cover of Cosmo, making her the first transgender woman to appear on the magazine’s cover.

15. Women in Saudi Arabia started hitting the road after the country repealed its ban on female drivers in 2017.

16. Jordan Peele took home the best original screenplay Oscar for “Get Out” — making him the first black screenwriter to win the award.

17. Adam Rippon and Gus Kenworthy competed as the only openly gay Olympians on Team USA.

✅ I’m going to create my own list, and let tears of gratitude release

joy into my space .

Joy and Benevolence are my theme words, another is needed.

Selecting a theme song as well, beginning today..

There is blue to my sky and the sun is shining , as I tune in

as I search for the correct response in matters of brothers,

sons, lovers and friends who deserve support and guidance

in affirmations that #MeToo like Spirit has no gender.

Shame is multifaceted, and channeled many ways.

Anger is often fear, and enlightening truth, can and does

offer permission . Permission to begin, begins when

an awareness is established , pinging you, nudging you.

That happens when Divine knows you are ready and

worthy .

https://youtu.be/tkcpebHGHZg

I See God In You – India Arie

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Childress: Chaos is coming ; I’m ready

Chaos is coming. Woo hoo, that’s great. I’m a family systems therapist, I love chaos. You can’t work with families without feeling comfortable in chaos.

Have you ever tried to wrangle intense family conflict? Whoooeee, you better know what you’re doing or things could get out of hand quickly. Chaos? In family therapy we thrive in chaos – it’s called “disrupting the homeostatic balance” of the system that keeps it stuck in no-change.

So the coming period of chaos and dysequilibrium, that’s a good thing. It’s the first step, and a necessary step, in any systems change process.

Parent advocacy: You can’t rely on the knuckleheads in mental health to solve this for you, and stay away from the court system if you can… which then only leaves the mental heath system.

So then we have to get parents and children appropriate mental health services – and this will be through you – the parents – advocating in a strong voice for your rights within the mental health system.

Will they want to give you your rights? No they won’t. So are you going to go away? No, you’re not.

We will be importing the “Educational Advocate” role (not the person, the role) from school-involved psychology over here to court-involved psychology. Hire an advocate. Over here, the formative stages of that role are the coaching professionals who are emerging to help.

How do you pick a family support coach? The same way they pick Education Advocates in school-involved parent advocacy. How do they do that? Go find out.

I’m also going to note that the “Educational Advocate” role from school-involved psychology also includes Ed.D psychologists, so I can envision that parent-hired psychologist-level advocates would be immensely helpful for parents in acquiring appropriate services from the mental health system. Who knows the mental heath system better than a mental health professional?

Ed.D. educational advocates are more expensive than non-doctorate educational advocates, but my experience in ADHD world is that these advocates thrive and rise by results. Do they get appropriate services for the client.

My role over in ADHD world was to provide the test assessments for the pathology. Sound familiar? The educational advocates hired by the parents and the parents then took my reports (i.e., the reports from clinical psychologists who tested and assessed the child for ADHD) into the school system.

Sooooo, you will need a role of the psychologists who assess your children and provide you with the documented evidence of the pathology which you can then take into the… school system? No, silly, into the legal system.

See the parallels?

So coaching people and “psychological services advocates” for court-involved psychology, I’d start looking to Wrightslaw and the principles of parent-child advocacy support. That’s the model – ADHD and school-involved pathology – AB-PA and court-involved pathology.

Supidity: “AB-PA doesn’t exist.”

Dr. Childress: I know, stupid pathogen. I’m saying that all the time. AB-PA doesn’t exist. It’s just a label used to refer to the standard and established knowledge of professional psychology, it’s Bowlby, Minuchin, Beck. Switch AB-PA to “trauma-informed” or “attachment-related.”

ADHD for school involved pathology, and attachment pathology for court-involved pathology… and trauma-related pathology for court-involved pathology (Adjustment Disorder is in the Trauma-Related Disorders in the DSM-5).

The pathogen is pattern. It thinks: Gardner-PAS; Childress-AB-PA. And the pathogen is stupid as sin. AB-PA is not “new theory”, no, no, no stupid pathogen… it’s diagnosis.

Diagnosis is the application of standard and established constructs and principles to a set of symptoms. Diagnosis.

There’s going to be a bit of a period of chaos and disorganization for a while, as things change and shift.

Coaches; I’d suggest you start wandering around Wrightslaw and think about how some of these principles from parent advocacy can be applied with your individual client families.

At this stage, coaches and support need to be careful of getting “kicked out” of the treatment team because advocacy is annoying to the school-people in ADHD world, and to the legal and psychological people in forensic world. I’ll be working to bring parent-support para-professionals onto a treatment team approach. Be nice, play well with others, and know the systems and what is expected from professionals (be nice; be knowledgeable, and be resolute).

How does a parent choose a family support coach, the same way you’d choose an Educational Advocate in ADHD school-involved world. In forensic world, the CCPI coaches have advantages of training and a support team. Other coaches bring their advantages of knowledge and experience, and I would encourage licensed mental health professionals, including clinical psychologists, to also begin stepping into the role as hired “professional support advocates” – not to provide treatment, but to work as a hired consultant to the parent with the other mental health providers to ensure proper treatment from them – the other mental health providers.

And just like ADHD school-involved world has psychologists who conduct the ADHD assessments (structured assessments documenting symptoms) and provide the reports that diagnose the pathology for the parent and Educational Advocate to take to the school system, we will be building an infra-structure of psychologists to provide trauma informed assessments (structured assessments of attachment pathology surrounding divorce) for the parents and their “psychological services advocates” to take to the… school system?… no, to the mental health and legal systems.

The parallels are almost direct.

Solutions are the only thing that is relevant. If it brings solution, good. Let’s do that.

Dr. Childress has solution. It is actually not my solution, it is the solution of professional psychology. My solution is to return to the standard and established knowledge and standards of practice of professional psychology.

Dorcy Pruter has solution. She has amazing solutions. They are not my solutions. Who care, they are solutions. If you have solutions, whoo hoo. Let’s do those too.

If, however, you don’t have solutions, then you’re just making noise, because we are soooo done with no solution. Solution is the only thing that is relevant.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.

Clinical Psychologist, PSY 18857

Lies of the Fathers (Rights Groups) | National Organization for Men Against Sexism

Lies of the Fathers (Rights Groups) | National Organization for Men Against Sexism
— Read on nomas.org/lies-fathers-rights-groups/

Depression Not Caused by Chemical Imbalance

The widely held belief that depression is due to low levels of serotonin or other chemicals in your brain is only a theory, one that’s been largely disproven.
— Read on articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2018/01/18/chemical-imbalance-theory-for-depression.aspx

‘Discarded Wife’ Pegi Young Deserves Better

The HeMeMeMe , denial must end

Pegi Young, an activist and singer who founded a school for children with severe disabilities, is the latest woman to be written out of an obituary that focuses mostly on her husband.

— Read on jezebel.com/discarded-wife-pegi-young-deserves-better-1831528553

Florida Student Kamilah Campbell Accuses College Board of Wrongly Invalidating Her Scores

Worthy of acknowledgment, and transforming .

Be of Great Joy, Own Benevolence, rather than

Violence . Support Kamilah that she is lifted

out of projected shame and discrimination

non violently .

When Florida high school senior Kamilah Campbell’s SAT scores didn’t stack up the way she wanted, she worked hard to do better—but that might not matter now.
— Read on www.theroot.com/college-board-under-fire-for-deciding-black-student-did-1831469686

Catholic Archbishop Says Domestic Violence is “Caused by Women Not Obeying Men”

Catholic Archbishop Says Domestic Violence is “Caused by Women Not Obeying Men”
— Read on www.nostraightnews.com/catholic-archbishop-says-domestic-violence-caused-women-not-obeying-men/

The creation of patriarchy: How did it happen? – writing by renee

I began with the conviction, shared by most feminist thinkers, that patriarchy as a system is historical: it has a beginning in history. If that is so, it can be ended by historical process. Gerda Lerner, The Creation of Patriarchy This essay draws heavily on three texts: Gerda Lerner’s ‘Creation of Patriarchy,’ Marilyn French’s ‘The…
— Read on reneejg.net/2018/12/19/creation-of-patriarchy/

Misdiagnosis is Common , in ChildAbuse , Parental Alienation/Domestic Abuse

How many of you think that your mental health person – therapist, custody evaluator, child’s therapist – how many of you think that they have NOT accurately identified what’s going on in your families?

Show of hands, how many think your mental health person has got it wrong?

Okay, all of you with your hands raised… in professional language… you think the mental health person has misdiagnosed your child and family.

All of you with your hands raised, mis-diagnosis. That’s what you think has happened.

If your child had medical symptoms of concern and you took your child to the doctor, what’s the first thing your doctor would do? Diagnose the problem, right? But sometimes, in confusing situations, the doctor might get it wrong… that’s called a misdiagnosis.

Last I looked, mental health professionals are in the same category as physicians – health care professionals. Dr. Childress was on medical staff at Children’s Hospital of Orange County as a pediatric psychologist. My notes and my reports went in the medical record. I had access to the medical record and I charted in the medical record.

Mental health professionals and medical professionals are both considered in the same category: health care professionals. Physicians treat physical illness, mental health professionals treat mental illness.

So imagine if you brought your child with medical symptoms to your physician and the physician immediately started treating your child, and you ask, “Wait, tell me what the diagnosis is, what’s wrong with my child” and the physician says, “I don’t diagnose pathology.”

Imagine if your child’s pediatrician told you, “Here’s the treatment but don’t ask me what the diagnosis is because I don’t diagnose pathology, I just treat it.”

HOW can you treat it if you don’t know what is is? AHAHAHDRreaarelareiuralenfoacv[

Breathe, Dr. C, Breathe…. okay. That is the number 1 most insane thing I have heard in this entire insane upside-down world of forensic psychology, mental health professionals are actually telling their patients, “I don’t diagnose.”

Then how do you know what you’re treating?

Imagine a physician who did not diagnose the medical problem first, but just started treating… something. That is insane.

All of you who raised your hands… you think your mental health person has “misdiagnosed” your child and the pathology in your family.

In your mind, substitute “physician” for “mental health professional” and use that as your guide for how to handle your concern over the possible misdiagnosis of your child and family.

Mental health professional = physician

So, say you brought your child to the physician and your doctor says do xyz treatment, but you don’t understand yet what the diagnosis is. What would you do?

Parent: “Excuse me, I don’t understand the diagnosis. Can you help me understand the diagnosis please?”

Doctor: “I don’t diagnose pathology.”

Would you allow that physician to treat your child? I wouldn’t. A doctor who doesn’t diagnose my child before treating my child? Yikes cowabunga. Not with my child. That’s unheard of.

Imagine a physician on the stand testifying about a medical situation she’s been treating for a year, and when asked what the child’s diagnosis is, says, “I don’t know, I don’t diagnose pathology.”

But these mental health… knuckleheads… I don’t diagnose pathology. Then how do you know what you’re treating.

First thing. We must get a DSM-5 diagnosis from all the mental heath professionals who are treating your children and families. We need to find out what they THINK they’re treating.

You – the parents of the child – and a patient of the mental health professional – are being treated. You have the right to know what the diagnosis is for which you are being treated.

As for the custody evaluators who formally say, “I don’t diagnose pathology, that’s not my role” make them say that formally in their testimony. Have your attorneys ask the custody evaluator on the stand,

Attorney: What is the DSM-5 diagnosis for the child.

Custody Evaluator: I don’t make a DSM-5 diagnosis, that’s not my role.”

You are being chosen for your role because you are a health care professional – a mental health care professional. Your standards as a health care professional remain. Those are exactly the standards which govern your choice for the role – you are a health care provider – a mental health care provider.

How do you know what the pathology is if you do not diagnose the pathology. How can you make informed decisions about a family if you do not know what the pathology is in the family?

To my child custody evaluator “colleagues”; I’m not going to argue it. You can argue it with a magistrate at some point down the road once this dark corruption in forensic psychology is eventually exposed.

“I don’t diagnose pathology” – then how do you know what you’re treating?

Get documented evidence of these knuckleheads saying that they do NOT diagnose the child’s pathology. In letters from them, in reports from them, in their testimony, in your “letters to a stranger” documenting conversations you had with them. Ask the, “Will you please put that in writing, that you have not diagnosed my child are are refusing to diagnose my child?” “Why not?”

Get them ON RECORD saying they don’t diagnose pathology.

We’ll be coming for them down the road to make them justify (through their licensing board or through court) why they are exempt from standards of practice for health care professionals.

If you did not diagnose the pathology, how do you know what the pathology is.

I come from medical world. My background is Children’s Hospitals – of Los Angeles, and then Orange County. I was on medical staff at CHOC. The standard of practice with health care professionals is to diagnose pathology.

So in thinking about your situation with your mental heath professional – think of this as directly analogous to your physical heath professional – your physicians. I can’t use the term doctor because there’s doctors in both sides – EXACTLY. We are the same – health care professionals – one’s physical, one’s mental.

So wouldn’t you want the medical diagnosis of your child from all the involved medical doctors if your child had a medical problem? Yes, you would. So you want the mental health diagnosis for your child from all the mental health professionals who are working with your child, including the child’s individual therapists.

If there was your child’s “individual medical doctor” wouldn’t you want to know what your child’s diagnosis from the doctor was? Of course you would. So find out.

Would all of your child’s medical physicians be happy to provide you with your child’s medical diagnosis? Of course they would. No problem whatsoever.

So what’s the hang up over here with your mental health care professionals? It’s your right to know what’s wrong with your child… and you… your a patient of this mental health provider too. You are a patient too, what’s your diagnosis?

Bad parenting? Okay, specifically what type of “bad parenting” – the Parenting Practices Rating Scale.

Standards of professional practice. Basic foundational standards of professional practice.

Assessment leads to diagnosis, and diagnosis guides treatment.

So what is your diagnosis? (and how did you reach it will be the next question; assessment).

Craig Childress, Psy.D.

Clinical Psychologist, PSY 18857