Unfortunately, too often alienated parents are told to ‘wait for their kid to come around someday.’ Even more unfortunate, too many parents listen to that.
I was an alienated child. Then an alienated ADULT child. Still a child nonetheless. I know what your minor and adult child actually wants–a relationship with you. Despite all the negative things they say and do, they actually want their parent. They want to love and be loved by you. But guess what? When parents decide to wait around & then stop showing up for their alienated child, this sends a counterproductive message to the child, which adds to their confusion. In short, if you want to reunite with your child, it is going to take a lot more than simply waiting around. Not sure where to go from here? Luckily, I have a webinar and in-depth program for parents who want to learn what it takes to reunite with an adult child. I reunited with my dad as an adult, and he and I (and his grandchildren) got to experience the relationship we always deserved.
All you have to do is click the link below to get started- it starts with you. Let’s go get your [adult] kids back.š§”šŖš¼https://www.consciouscoparentinginstitute.com/reunited-replay/
Category: Parential Alienation-Child Abuse
Understanding Power
Totally
An 18 year old in college, pledged to a fraternity and is subject to all manner of “test” just like an 18 in boot camp , humiliated and saturated in following orders as well as networking .
These folks who do not ask , do not tell become leaders , CEOs and representatives of our law . Who owe each other
A nation of men and not of law much and will change .
Implosion happening now .
Blessings & Peace ā®ļø
Dona Luna
Most of the people who make it through the education system and get into the elite universities are able to do it because they’ve been willing to obey a lot of stupid orders for years and years – that’s the way I did it, for example… Some people go along with it because they figure, “Okay, I’ll do any stupid thing that asshole says because I want to get ahead”; others do it because they’ve just internalized the values – but after a while, those two things tend to get sort of blurred. But you do it, or else you’re out: you ask too many questions and you’re going to get in trouble. ~Noam Chomsky
(Book: Understanding Power https://amzn.to/3dwz4rb)
Between
After a huge shift, powerful change, and a deep purgeā¦we need time to integrate these energetic changes.
It will be Out with the old and receiving a lot of the new into the empty spaces.
A lot is happening within our systems and the void like energy we feel – not being able to know where we are, what weāre doing, what we should be doing, not being able to connect with our soul or anyone else , we feel all alone, confused, not knowing what the next step should be and we donāt know if we did things right or wrong.
Our ego is here with us and it is trying to convince us that we did something wrong because if we did it the right way around we should be feeling bliss, happiness and joy and because we are not feeling it, we surely did something wrong. No!
You didnāt do anything wrong, this is just the process of ascension and the void like feeling means your system needs a break because it went through a powerful deep and important change and before you can move further on this new level youāre in, you need to rest and relax and integrate the shifts.
And a lot of you are in this void like feeling right now because we have cleared a lot in July/at the beginning of August and we are preparing to upgrade to the next level right now.
So just relax and take it easy and try to not freak out in this way like feeling.
This is a time for you to learn to accept the stillness, nothingness of your soul.
The lack of thoughts, the lack of feeling any connection is basically this new level you are in. An upgrade. But it is so unpleasant for the ego and your human body because you are used to having thoughts with you all the time and youāre not always feeling well in silence.
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Masculine āAttunedā
Masculine men SHOULD be dominant leaders.
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Deep integrated masculinity can be intuited by touching the word āGentlemanā.
Gentle-Man.
A man who is gentle.
Yet this does not mean a pushover.
This does not mean a simp.
This does not mean a man who is passive.
A gentleman leads, yet he leads with attunement.
Attunement is a sensitivity to her.
Sensitivity as in being of the senses.
He senses her, he senses her needs and her desiresā¦
He senses what will take the intimacy deeper, what will light her on fireā¦
When he getās really good at this, he can sense her body and her heart even before her own mind can.
Thatās when he takes her further than she could ever go on her own.
Yet he does all of this without neglecting or compromising himself.
And thatās what every feminine woman wants.
Replace the word ‘dominance’ with ‘attunement’ and you’ll get a sense of what healthy masculine leadership is about.~
~Damien Bohler
Partentification
Parentification is where a child is forced or expected, to act as a parental stand-in from a young age.
Parentification is generally classified as parent-focused or sibling-focused and then either as instrumental or emotional. Parent-focused means you were primarily taking care of your parent. Sibling-focused means you were taking care of a sibling or siblings.
Instrumental revolves around practical responsibilities.
– Physically meeting the needs of your siblings or parent by feeding them, helping them get dressed, or bathing them.
– Being in charge of cleaning, cooking, or grocery shopping.
– Paying bills, budgeting, or being in charge of the family finances.
Emotional revolves around being forced to be an emotional support system.
– Listening to your parent talk to you about adult problems.
– Giving advice or comforting your parent over age-inappropriate problems.
– Mediating between your parents or family members.
– Being the one to make your siblings feel loved, safe, and protected.
#parentification
Relationship with Narcissistic be like ā¦.
In every toxic relationship, there comes a point where you look at your life and think, āNot Thisā. It could be a fleeting moment of awareness during your morning shower or when youāre being subjected to yet another silent treatment or triangulation event. ā
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We all have āNot Thisā moments during the course of toxic relationships.ā
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Itās during our āNot Thisā moments that we can choose to start planning something different for ourselves. We may not know what that will look like, but in the moment, it doesnāt matter. All we know is āNot Thisā. There is no turning back.ā
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Or, after the dust settles, we may choose to āwork onā the relationship because staying means less upheaval than leaving. At least with a toxic partner, we know what to expect. ā
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Getting out on oneās own is often a scary proposition, so we choose to stay in āNot Thisā, thereby setting ourselves up for a life of emotional ruin. You’ll look back on all the years you wasted and realize things haven’t changed at all.ā
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But, every passing minute is a chance to turn it all around. I have several resources for you if you’re ready, or even if you’re just thinking about it…ā
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Xo (āā¢į“ā¢ā)ā” ā§*ćā
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#healing #breakinghabits #emotions #emotionalhealth #hope #selflove #emotionalwellness #narcissisticabuserecovery
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Fake Meat : Just Say NO
Education
“Schools train people to be ignorant, with style. They give you the equipment that you need to be a functional ignoramus. American schools do not equip you to deal with things like logic; they don’t give you the criteria by which to judge between good and bad in any medium or format, and they prepare you to be a usable victim for the military-industrial complex that needs manpower.”
~Frank Zappa
Denied Energy becomes Demonic for you
Any energy that you deny becomes a demon for you. It becomes your inner tormenter. And you donāt get rid of your demons. You embrace them. Not indulge them, but embrace them. And if you embrace them in a way I am talking about, they no longer feel like demons. They are just energies that are available to you. They are just part of this whole spectrum of what it is to be conscious and alive and present. And everything becomes joined together back again. A mature emotional life is when all the different parts of yourself emotionally are joined back together. Nothing is put outside, nothing is denied, nothing is hidden. Nothing is unacknowledged. All brought together so that it can all come together.
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