Masculine “Attuned”

Masculine men SHOULD be dominant leaders.
Deep integrated masculinity can be intuited by touching the word “Gentleman”.
A man who is gentle.
Yet this does not mean a pushover.
This does not mean a simp.
This does not mean a man who is passive.
A gentleman leads, yet he leads with attunement.
Attunement is a sensitivity to her.
Sensitivity as in being of the senses.
He senses her, he senses her needs and her desires…
He senses what will take the intimacy deeper, what will light her on fire…
When he get’s really good at this, he can sense her body and her heart even before her own mind can.
That’s when he takes her further than she could ever go on her own.
Yet he does all of this without neglecting or compromising himself.
And that’s what every feminine woman wants.

Replace the word ‘dominance’ with ‘attunement’ and you’ll get a sense of what healthy masculine leadership is about.~

~Damien Bohler

Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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