Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

6-11 Full Moon in Sagittarius

I am so very ready !

The Full Moon in Sagittarius on June 11 brings powerful energy that pushes everything forward, acting like a reset button.

Sagittarius is future-focused and direct. It points you toward something better and gives you the push to walk away from anything that no longer feels right.

This is your turning point. If something feels out of place, whether it’s a habit, relationship, job, or routine, you will feel it clearly, and you’ll feel ready to move.

Jupiter, the planet that rules Sagittarius, powers this Moon with momentum and confidence. Jupiter helps you think bigger, want more for yourself, and stop shrinking your goals to fit your current circumstances.

If you’ve been feeling stuck in something too small or too slow, this is the moment that helps you break out of it. You may feel ready to leave a draining job, change your daily routine, move to a new city, start something new, or finally make a decision you’ve been sitting with for far too long.

The energy now is about progress. It is time to choose what lifts you, what gives you energy, what fits who you’re becoming. This Moon helps you stop going in circles and stop delaying your dreams, and urges you to walk in a straight line, directly toward what you desire and what feels right.

On the same day, Mercury and Venus form a smooth, supportive connection. Mercury rules how you think, speak, plan, and express yourself, and Venus brings in love, money, pleasure, and values. When these two blend energies, your words come through clearly, your timing improves, conversations go more smoothly, and people are more open to what you say.

You may feel ready to speak up, ask for what you want, or open a conversation that brings resolution or progress. You might finally say something that changes the tone and moves a situation in the right direction.

This alignment gives your voice more impact, and helps your messages reach the right people. The words you choose now can open doors, clear confusion, and bring abundant opportunities. Whether it’s personal or professional, this is a window for strong communication, honest decisions, and steady movement forward.

Jupiter also rules belief systems, long-distance travel, learning, teaching, personal growth, and big-picture thinking. That means this Full Moon encourages you to step back and look at your life from a wider lens.

What are you building? Where are your choices taking you? Does your current direction match your long-term vision? This Moon challenges you to take your path seriously, and asks you to stop settling, cut distractions, and move with real purpose.

This is also an ideal time to take action, so if you’ve been thinking about applying for a new job, starting a project, changing your habits, investing in your future, or having a much-needed conversation—this is your time. You’ll feel things start to open, as what felt blocked becomes possible, and what felt too far away starts to feel within reach.

Financially, this is one of the most fortunate Full Moons of the year. Venus boosts your sense of worth, and Mercury brings good timing for offers, deals, and smart conversations, while Jupiter expands everything, including income potential and financial opportunities. If you’re ready to raise your rates, pitch your work, apply for a better position, launch something new, or speak up about money, this is a great time to do it. Clear action brings big results.

In relationships, the tone softens, and you may feel more willing to say how you feel, whether that means speaking with care, asking for more, or deciding to make a shift. Someone from your past may reappear, and this time, the timing may finally make sense, or acurrent relationship could deepen through more honesty and shared plans for the future. If you’re single, someone new may enter your life—someone who feels familiar and aligned from the beginning.

This energy also helps you improve how you communicate in general. During this time, think about how you speak, how you listen, and how your words reflect your values and your goals. Mercury and Venus help you adjust your tone, speak more clearly, and build stronger, more meaningful connections. Whether in your personal or professional life, small changes in how you express yourself can lead to fulfilling results.

Creatively, this is your green light. If you’ve been sitting on an idea, project, or message, now is the time to share it. Sagittarius encourages you to reach further, Mercury helps you communicate it clearly, and Venus helps your work resonate. Whether you’re writing, teaching, speaking, or creating, the support is here to get it out and connect it with the right people.

This is also a strong time to build a platform, share your skills, and grow your voice in your industry or community. If you’ve been wanting to launch a course, start a podcast, build a brand, or step into more visibility, this is your chance to move. People are more open, more curious, and more likely to respond to what you offer now.

Sagittarius also rules travel and adventure. You might feel ready to take a trip, reconnect with nature, attend a retreat, or simply break out of your normal environment. New surroundings can help reset your thinking.

You may also feel called to explore new beliefs, study something meaningful, or return to a topic that once lit you up. Read the book, take the class, or sign up for whatever stretches your mind.

Emotionally, this Full Moon brings clarity, as Sagittarius clears confusion. If something feels right, you will know, or if something feels off, you will feel it more than usual. This is when patterns break, old weight lifts, and decisions finally land. You may feel ready to walk away from something that no longer works or step fully into something that finally feels aligned.

If a feeling rises, whether it’s joy, fire, frustration, desire, pay attention. That feeling holds the next step, so trust your intuition, and listen to what comes through clearly. This Moon helps you move with both fire and focus. Feel it, say it, and act on it.

Use this Full Moon to check in with where you are and where you want to go. Look at your choices, your habits, and at what you’re creating. Make sure your actions match your future, not your past. This is your moment to realign with what matters and commit to it fully.

You are ready to move forward, and the timing is in your hands. The energy you choose now will set the tone for everything that follows.

~ Alex Myles ❤️

Alienation & extended Famlies

“We often talk about how alienation cuts off one relationship. But in reality the truth is, it severs an entire family line. It has no mercy as it leaves parents without their children. It also leaves grandparents sitting by their windows, flipping through old photo albums, wondering what they did to deserve this treatment.

Remembering all those bedtime hugs, the silly stories, and backyard adventures that came to such a sudden end.If you ask any alienated grandparent, they’ll likely say: “I never thought I’d ever become a stranger to the child I once held in my arms as a baby.”

Now, ask the parents, and most of them will tell you: “I never imagined my own mother or father would lose their grandchild because someone I once trusted decided to destroy everything because of me.”

The saddest part? The alienator isn’t satified with severing just one bond—they tear through entire generations. They conciously choose to rewrite the family story. They turn family closeness into distance, and loving memories into something that hurts too much to remember.

Still, both the parents and grandparents hold on. They keep the birthday cards safely tucked away in drawers. In their mind’s eye, they remember the favorite colors, or the silly sayings, and the way a child’s head once rested under their chin.

Just like the parents who still hear the words, “I love you, Dad,” or, “Don’t let me go, Mom.”

For those living through this, you know that this pain doesn’t just come and go. Instead, it follows you everywhere. Into the grocery store, where another child looks just like yours. Into every holiday season, where an empty chair sits at the table. Even into your nightly dreams, where the reunion plays out perfectly, until you wake up to the same numbing silence you’ve been carrying for months, and sometimes years.

Yet… we still hope. That’s what so many don’t understand. Even after all the unanswered calls, all the doors that were slammed shut on us, all the letters marked “Return to Sender,” we still hope.

We hold onto the possibility of one more chance.

One more knock on the door.

One more opportunity to say, “I never stopped loving you.”

To the alienated grandparents out there, I want to say this: You’re not forgotten. The grief you feel is real. Your love still matters. That special place you held in your grandchild’s life should never have been taken from you.To the parents who are still hanging on: Don’t ever let go.

You’re not weak for caring. You’re certainly not foolish for loving. After all, you’re a parent, and that’s what we do.

To those reading this who’ve never lived through this kind of emotional torture: Please know this kind of silence doesn’t happen by accident. It’s designed.. It’s the product of manipulation, control, and the belief that love should have limits. Maybe one day, the door will open again. Maybe a child, or a grandchild will ask the question that begins to undo all the lies that were told.”

Until then, we wait in the wings… together

✍️ David Shubert

Not who she used to be

She’s not crazy… she was abused.

She learned how to stay quiet in rooms where she should’ve been protected. She learned how to survive in love that felt more like a battlefield.

She’s not irrational…. she’s carrying pain that no one ever apologized for. The kind of pain that teaches you to question your own reality, just because someone else wanted control over it.

She’s not stupid… she was manipulated.

There’s a difference. Love-bombed, gaslit, lied to, twisted up in someone else’s brokenness. She believed words over patterns because she wanted to believe.

She was taught that love meant enduring…. so she endured. She was told it was all in her head, when really, it was all in his hands. The control, the silence, the guilt. That wasn’t stupidity. That was hope…. weaponized.

She’s not shy… she’s protecting herself.

She doesn’t trust easily anymore. She’s guarded, not because she wants to be cold, but because warmth once betrayed her. She’s quiet because her voice was once ignored. She’s observing, calculating, studying who is safe and who just pretends to be. Her silence is her shield…. not her flaw.

She’s not bitter… she’s speaking the truth.

Calling out what happened isn’t bitterness. It’s bravery. Naming the pain is healing. Holding people accountable is not holding onto hate… it’s refusing to sugarcoat the damage.

She’s not angry, she’s awake. And she’s done shrinking herself to make other people comfortable with their own wrongdoings. She’s not stuck in the past… she’s been damaged.

Trauma doesn’t live on a calendar. Healing isn’t linear. Sometimes the memory of pain walks right back into her day, uninvited. She’s not “dwelling,” she’s rebuilding. You can’t rush a heart back to wholeness. Not when it was shattered by the very hands that once held it.

She’s not delusional… she lived a nightmare.

The kind of nightmare that smiles in public and destroys you in private. The kind that no one believed because he looked charming and she looked tired. She’s not exaggerating…. she endured. She’s not dramatic…. she survived.

She’s not weak… she was trusting.

She gave people the benefit of the doubt. She believed love was enough. She forgave more than she should’ve, stayed longer than she deserved to, and loved harder than she was loved in return. That’s not weakness…. that’s humanity. She wore her heart on her sleeve in a world that keeps trying to rip it off.

She’s not giving up…

She’s healing. 💜

And that healing? It’s messy. It’s loud sometimes, and silent at others. It looks like pulling back. It looks like losing friends. It looks like crying in the shower and smiling at strangers. But it’s real. And it’s happening.

So don’t mislabel her process. Don’t mistake her silence for surrender or her tears for defeat. She’s not broken…. she’s becoming. Stronger. Softer. Smarter. Wiser. Louder. More careful. More powerful.

She’s not who she used to be… and that’s a good thing.