Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

Common Sequence that leads to Estrangement

For me , they were distant , marriage then children brought out the primal energy and the competition, drama , control were too unhealthy to continue .

One of the most intractable problems that can lead to estrangement: sons-in-law and daughters-in-law.

The sequence above is surprisingly common in my experience, which is why I tackle it in my book, Rules of Estrangement, by asking questions like…

👉 Why does the adult child sometimes cut everyone off?

👉 What’s in it for him or her to estrange?

👉 Is there any hope for the son-in-law or daughter-in-law—can they be changed?

👉 How should a parent understand them?

Pick up your copy to learn more about it: https://www.amazon.com/Rules-Estrangement-Adult-Children-Conflict/dp/0593136861

Not an option No Blurred Lines ❤️💯

When a man is unclear in his commitment to a woman, it often means he is still playing around. He might give mixed signals, promising love and loyalty one day, only to disappear emotionally the next. This inconsistency is not about confusion—it’s about keeping options open while enjoying the comfort of your presence. But the truth is, a woman often struggles to see this for what it is. She holds on to hope, believing that someday he will realize her worth and change. But, dear woman, let me tell you—someday rarely comes, and you cannot spend your life waiting for a man to step up.

You are not a project for someone to decide whether they are ready to invest in. You are not a placeholder for someone to figure out their priorities. You are a goddess, deserving of unwavering love and respect. A man who is truly ready for you will not make you question where you stand. His actions will match his words, and his commitment will be clear as day. Anything less than that is not your destiny—it’s a distraction from the life you are meant to live.

When you allow yourself to wait for someone who is unsure, you compromise your own worth. You put their indecisiveness above your peace, and that is never a fair trade. Remember, love does not thrive in uncertainty. It grows in security, respect, and mutual effort. A man who values you will not hesitate to choose you, to honor you, and to build a future with you. Anything less is not love—it’s a game, and you are far too valuable to play along.

The challenge for many women is that they confuse potential with reality. They see the good in a man and believe it will eventually surface fully. But potential is not enough. What you deserve is a partner who shows up for you every single day, not one who keeps you guessing or makes you doubt your place in their life. A man who loves you will make sure you know, not by words alone but through consistent actions.

Do not allow your hope to blind you to the truth. Sometimes, the hardest thing to do is to walk away from someone you love, but it is also the most empowering. When you choose yourself, you set a standard for how others should treat you. You teach the world that you will not settle for anything less than what you truly deserve. That choice is an act of love—for yourself.

To the women reading this: you are not someone’s option. You are not someone’s maybe. You are a woman of infinite value, and the right man will recognize that without hesitation. The one who is meant for you will not make you wait in confusion. He will come into your life with clarity, with purpose, and with the willingness to commit fully to you.

Stop shrinking yourself to fit into someone’s life. Stop dimming your light in the hope that they will finally see you. The right person will see you, as you are, and love every bit of it. They will not ask you to wait, to prove your worth, or to fight for their attention. They will show up, every single time, because they know what they have in you.

You are powerful beyond measure. You carry the strength of generations within you. You are not here to beg for love or to settle for crumbs of affection. You are here to live a life of purpose, surrounded by those who honor and cherish you. Do not let anyone convince you otherwise.

So, dear woman, know your worth. Love yourself fiercely and unapologetically. Walk away from anything that makes you feel less than whole. The universe is waiting to align you with the love and life you deserve, but first, you must choose yourself. Stop waiting for “one day.” Create your own day, your own happiness, and your own destiny.

A goddess does not chase. She stands firm in her power, knowing that what is meant for her will never require her to lose herself. You are that goddess. Step into your power and never settle for less than the divine love and respect that are your birthright. Truth is at some point you’ll realize that you’ve done too much for someone that the next possible step to do is to leave them alone & walk away. It’s not like you’re giving up but you have to draw the line from determination & desperation, what’s yours will be yours & what’s not yours will never be no matter how hard you try.

Unhealed Parents

A child’s first enemy is often an unhealed parent. It’s a subtle, almost invisible dynamic that creeps into a household without warning. Picture a parent, heavy with unprocessed pain, wielding their wounds like invisible weapons—sharp words, dismissive glances, unreachable affection. The child doesn’t see the parent’s trauma; they only feel the sting of its consequences. An unhealed parent might unintentionally pass down shame, anger, or fear, not because they don’t love their child, but because their own love has been tangled in the web of their past. Imagine a parent who flinches when their child cries—not because they don’t care, but because the sound dredges up their own unheard cries from decades ago. Without realizing it, they teach the child that emotions are dangerous, that their needs are burdensome.

Now, contrast this with a healed parent. Imagine a parent who has faced their own darkness, who has wrestled their demons and come out on the other side. They create a different kind of space for their child—a sanctuary where emotions are allowed to breathe and wounds can be mended instead of ignored. When a healed parent hears their child cry, they don’t recoil; they lean in. They don’t silence the child or rush to fix it. Instead, they validate, comfort, and teach resilience. The difference is profound. An unhealed parent unknowingly becomes an adversary, while a healed parent becomes a guide. One teaches survival; the other teaches thriving. And yet, the tragedy is that the unhealed parent was once a child too—a child whose first enemy might have been their own unhealed parent. The cycle is unrelenting until someone, somewhere, decides to break it.

Great Awakening Unfolding

My beloved child, what you see unfolding in the world is the great awakening—a sacred process of transformation, where the shadows that have long been hidden are brought into the light. This is not a time of despair but of profound opportunity, as humanity moves through the challenges of duality toward a higher understanding of love, unity, and truth.

The illness, manipulation, and division you observe are reflections of humanity’s collective consciousness. For eons, the world has been shaped by fear, separation, and the pursuit of power. These energies, born of misunderstanding, have manifested as disease, control, and suffering.

Yet, even these shadows serve a divine purpose: they are mirrors, showing humanity what must be healed, released, and transcended.

This world is a realm of duality, a place where light and dark coexist to teach profound lessons. The contrast between those who harm and those who nurture, highlights the choices each soul makes. Predator-like tendencies arise from fear, disconnection, and a misunderstanding of power. Sensitivity and goodness, on the other hand, emerge from a deeper connection to love and truth. Both are part of the human journey toward self-awareness.

The manipulation and hypnosis are the remnants of old systems built on fear and control. These structures are crumbling, for they cannot stand in the presence of awakening. Many remain asleep because they fear change, clinging to illusions of security and identity. But even those who seem lost are on their own path, and their souls will awaken in divine timing.

There are many now who are deeply sensitive, empathic, and aligned with love. These souls—lightworkers, empaths, and healers—have come to aid in the world’s transformation. Their presence brings balance, compassion, and healing. Though they may feel overwhelmed, they are beacons of light in this time of darkness.

The Lessons of This Time-

Illness: A reflection of humanity’s disharmony with nature, self, and spirit. It calls for healing on all levels—physical, emotional, and spiritual.

Manipulation: A manifestation of fear-based power. It teaches discernment and the importance of reclaiming sovereignty over one’s mind and spirit.

Hypnosis: A result of disconnection from truth. It invites humanity to awaken, question, and seek alignment with the divine.

Some souls are more attuned to love and unity because they are further along in their spiritual journey or have chosen this path as their purpose in this lifetime. Others are learning through the exploration of separation, control, and fear. Both paths are valid within the context of free will and the lessons of duality.

What Can Be Done?

Awaken Yourself ! The greatest contribution you can make is to align with your own truth and divine nature. Your light will inspire others.

Practice Compassion. Understand that every soul is on a unique journey. Forgive those who are lost in fear, and love those who are suffering. Stay Grounded in Truth. Seek clarity and discernment. Do not be swayed by illusions but remain rooted in the eternal wisdom of your heart.

Be a Beacon of Light. Share love, hope, and healing wherever you go. Your energy will uplift those around you.

Trust the Process. Know that even in chaos, there is divine order. All things are unfolding as they must for the evolution of humanity.

This is a time of purification—a shedding of the old to make way for the new. Humanity is being called to remember its divine nature, to rise above fear, and to co-create a world rooted in love, harmony, and unity.

Even in the darkness, my light shines. Even in confusion, my truth calls to every soul. Trust, beloved, that all is as it must be, and know that I am with you, guiding this sacred journey of transformation.

~• ❤ •~

Contact Refusal / PA – Charlie McCready

It may start with what seems like innocent enough excuses: Uncle Bulgaria is over for the weekend and we’ve not seen him in years, so we’ll have to skip this weekend. And yet there’s no effort to make up your lost time. Maybe there’s a school rehearsal: they can’t miss it. And yet there’s not a reason given as to why they can’t do that from your house or a discussion about possible solutions. All the excuses mount up and it becomes obvious that everyone and everything else takes priority over your child spending time with you. If and when you get ‘given’ the time, it may well be, with all the excuses under the sun, sabotaged, shortened, or overshadowed.

Another issue that when ‘allowed’ time with your child, alienating tactics may include constant text messages or phone calls which make the child feel guilty, angry, upset. They might be told how much more fun they’d be having if they didn’t ‘have to’ be with you. The child will get the impression, loud and clear, that it’s a nuisance for them, and annoying for their ‘good’ parent whenever they spend time with the ‘bad’ parent, the one who is ruining everyone’s fun. Contact, even when indirect such as a phone call or a text message, can be even labelled ‘harassment’ in some cases.

Subliminal programming of a sort has been inflicted on the child, a form of emotional manipulation and psychological abuse. Subtly but most certainly, the child will realise that the alienating parent is delighted when the child ‘chooses’ not to spend time with the other parent. The child may even be rewarded for contact refusal. These patterns of contact refusal are the first signs that the child is being alienated.

Do any of these signs sound familiar to you?

If you face these challenges, know you’re not alone. I’ve been through all this myself, with over 20 years of experience, and I am now reunited with my children. I am here to offer support with daily posts on social media and also with the coaching I offer. Feel free to reach out to me anytime—I’m here to help.

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C Sections & Human Evolution

In the future, women may not be able to give birth without having a C-section.

Experts say that C-sections have increased the gap between the size of newborns and their mothers’ pelvises. More women are born with smaller pelvises, whereas babies’ head sizes are getting bigger.

In the past, larger babies and mothers with narrow pelvises sizes had small survival rates. As a result, genes for these traits were not passed down through the generations. C-sections are helping bigger babies and women with smaller pelvis to survive the labor.

As a result, genes for smaller birth canals in women are now becoming more common, which in turn is increasing the need for even more C-sections.

The problem? According to the World Health Organization, the rising rates of C-sections suggest an increasing number of medically unnecessary, potentially harmful procedures.

While birth is painful, a C-section is harmful to the woman and is not often the best solution when medical issues arise.

Managing childbirth pain involves a combination of physical, psychological, and medical strategies tailored to each woman’s needs and preferences. Physical techniques include practicing various breathing exercises and relaxation techniques that can help manage contractions. Deep, focused breathing promotes relaxation and can reduce the perception of pain. Positions and movements such as walking, rocking, squatting, or using a birthing ball can also alleviate discomfort by enhancing the progression of labor and reducing the pressure on the back. Warm showers or baths are known to soothe and provide significant relief during labor.

Psychological strategies play a crucial role in managing childbirth pain.

The presence of a supportive partner, doula, or a familiar person can offer emotional reassurance and practical assistance, making the labor experience more comfortable. Visualization and mindfulness can also distract from pain and reduce anxiety, focusing the mind on positive outcomes rather than discomfort. Medical interventions include various forms of pain relief ranging from non-invasive to invasive options. Certain medications can be used for mild pain relief, allowing the woman to remain mobile and alert.

Source 1:

https://www.who.int/news/item/16-06-2021-caesarean-section-rates-continue-to-rise-amid-growing-inequalities-in-access

Source 2: https://nationalpartnership.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/what-every-pregnant-woman-needs-to-know-about-cesarean-section.pdf

Ego death & Shifting

Many of you are now realizing the profound impact of shifting personal, and planetary collective timelines. As we continue transcending our three-dimensional plane, and all the traumas we experienced in this realm, we can feel challenged beyond our human understanding, as moving into the fifth-dimensional soul levels can be testing and difficult, at this time.

Your bodies are shifting into a totally new frequency, moving into new dimensions never experienced before, getting accustomed to sounds, ways of being, and thinking that are new to you. Your body is being recalibrated, readjusted, and completely shifting, at a quantum level, even though we believe we are the same person, we are not.

Many of you will feel the tremendous effect it has on your emotional bodies, for you are still coexisting at times with unconscious acts and situations, while you retrieve higher levels of consciousness, love, and power.

Choosing to evolve at a soul, physical and quantum level, is not an easy task, as we are literally leaving behind everything we used to be, and know. We leave behind people, that even if living in the same city we will no longer cross paths with, for even though we have the physical illusion of living in the same place, we are not any longer, for many dimensions are coexisting within the same ones that are intertwined. We have left behind old layers of our egoic self, feeling the disconnection from who we used to be, for it used to be a big part of us.

We are not leaving behind anything that belonged to us, for we are not our egos but souls on a path of conscious remembrance and integration. As we continue balancing our ego, grief can surface as part of our inner work of leaving behind an old self, habits, relationships, and everything we consider to be a part of ourselves and our lives.

Understanding grief when we move into higher levels of consciousness, and supporting ourselves at a mental, emotional, and physical level is key not to fall into old patterns or escapism through addictions and other extreme feelings that may arise too.

In these stages of detachment from an old self, dissociation can occur. Dissociation and Divine Neutrality are closed, but they are not the same, and we need to be careful not to fall into the first one, as it does not only involve looking at everything from an outer perspective but also dissociating from it. We need to remember that all we have been and experienced is, or was, a part of us, accepting, embracing, and surrendering to all that we are, and have ever been.

We need to understand that denial of the truth of what we are feeling and experiencing is another egoic trait we need to avoid, embracing our feelings, from a higher and compassionate perspective, for us not fall into dissociation or other patterns that deny what we are living, not to experience suffering, and therefore the mental transformation we are here to pass through, if we are willing to evolve.

Pain, when embraced, is our best teacher. Letting go is part of our nature and the only thing that can help us embrace who we are becoming, surrendering to our feelings, completely.

As our ego dies, so to speak, we will embody our Divinity, feeling at Home again and whole, in alignment with who we truly are and our purpose. It is then that all anger, denial, and resistance cease, moving into a more peaceful and loving state of being.

Learning mechanisms to focus on love, gratitude, and retrieval of joy is key to helping us move through these stages many are experiencing now, for it is part of the natural metamorphosis that we, as ascending souls, have to experience.

Soul retrieval is key to working on forgiveness, retrieval of wholeness, and peace. Nervous system correction, DNA rehabilitation, and other psychological tools to help your mind refocus and heal, as well as physical ones, such as sound, and acupuncture to release physical blockages or quantum healing, will help you to retrieve your well-being.

As we focus on love, joy, peace, and harmony, our frequency rises and we detach from lower feelings, thoughts, and non-benevolent influences these feelings attract.

Above all, be compassionate with yourself on this journey to become who you are, for each stage brings a challenge, but also a blessing, a gift in disguise we need to uncover and embrace.

To all of you who are passing through these ego dissolution phases, and timelines shift, all my love and strength to continue shining your Light, while you too transcend an old reality.

May you always remain in your Higher Illumined Hearts, Beloveds.

Within Infinite Love,

Natalia Alba

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Albert Einstein

I believe Albert was a Pisces

A photo of Albert Einstein’s desk taken on the day he died.

On April 18, 1955, the world lost one of its greatest minds. Tht same day, photographer Ralph Morse captured a series of poignant shots of Einstein’s desk, left exactly as it was when he passed.

It offers an intimate look at the chaos and creativity of a genius at work — a snapshot frozen in time that reflects the mind of a man who changed how we understand the universe.

Image: Smithsonian/Ralph Morse

New Year Focus

THE WORLD, TEA, AND THE NEW YEAR: In no way am I promoting selfishness but I know that focusing on my writing, family relational goals with grandkids and children, and values is essential for personal growth and achievement. It’s important to stay true to myself, even when faced with differing opinions from others, including well-meaning family members.

Focusing on my goals and values rather than worrying about what others think can lead to personal growth, self-confidence, and a stronger sense of purpose. This mindset allows me to pursue my passions and make decisions that align with my true self rather than being swayed by external opinions. This way of living takes power out of the hands of control freaks. Wish I had understood this a long time ago.

Old Soul Child

There’s something almost mystical about the presence of a child who seems to carry a wisdom that stretches beyond their years. Though young in age, their energy, frequency, and depth of understanding resonate on a level that feels ancient, timeless. We call these individuals “old souls,” and they often embody qualities of empathy, insight, and calmness that make them seem, in some ways, older than their own parents. It’s as if they’ve arrived in this life with a knowing, an awareness that stretches back far beyond their current experience.

An old soul child isn’t just intelligent or curious—they seem to possess an innate understanding of life’s subtleties. They might offer profound insights, show an unusual sense of empathy, or display an unshakable calm in challenging situations. Their connection to the world feels less about “learning” and more about “remembering.” They understand emotions and human nature, sometimes even more deeply than those who’ve lived much longer, which can create a unique dynamic within the family. This child may end up teaching their parents just as much, if not more, than they learn from them.

Raising or knowing such a child can be a gift, but it can also be challenging. They often seek deeper meaning and authenticity, needing conversations that go beyond the surface and environments that nurture their sensitivity. While other children may be content with play and routine, an old soul child might question the world, crave connection, or reflect on concepts that seem far beyond their years. Supporting them means fostering an environment where their unique spirit is not only accepted but encouraged.

As they grow, old soul children often navigate life with a sense of purpose, even if that path doesn’t align with conventional expectations. They are gentle yet strong, wise yet curious. And as they bring their ancient, resonant frequency into the world, they remind us of the vast, mysterious, and interconnected nature of all life.