God finds Woman where she is

THIS HIT ME HARD.

Have you ever noticed how in the scriptures men are always going up into the mountains to commune with the Lord?

Yet in the scriptures we hardly ever

hear of women going to the mountains.

But we know why — right?

Because the women were too busy

keeping life going;

they couldn’t abandon babies,

meals,

homes,

fires,

gardens,

and a thousand responsibilities to make the climb into the mountains!

I was talking to a friend the other day,

saying that as modern woman

I feel like I’m never “free” enough

from my responsibilities,

never in a quiet enough space

I want with God.

Her response floored me,

“That is why God comes to women.

Men have to climb the mountain to meet God, but God comes to women where ever they are.”

I have been pondering on her words for weeks and have searched my scriptures

to see that what she said is true.

God does in deed come to women

where they are,

when they are doing their ordinary,

everyday work.

He meets them at the wells

where they draw water for their families,

in their homes,

in their kitchens,

in their gardens.

He comes to them

as they sit beside sickbeds,

as they give birth,

care for the elderly,

and perform necessary mourning and burial rites.

Even at the empty tomb,

Mary was the first to witness Christ’s resurrection,

She was there because she was doing the womanly chore of properly preparing Christ’s body for burial.

In these seemingly mundane

and ordinary tasks,

these women of the scriptures found themselves face to face with divinity.

So if — like me — you ever start to bemoan the fact that you don’t have as much time to spend in the mountains with God as you would like. Remember, God comes to women. He knows where we are and the burdens we carry. He sees us, and if we open our eyes and our hearts we will see Him, even in the most ordinary places and in the most ordinary things.

He lives. And he’s using a time such as this to speak to women around the world.

-Heather F

Strenght

She is strong. Not because of how much she can lift but for how she lifts others up when they’re at their lowest. Not because she is capable of withstanding the storm but because she’ll navigate the storm and then show you how to do the same. Not because she is indestructible but because after every fall, she will always, always rise.

She is strong. Not because she chose to be but because the world demanded her to be. She has walked through hell, faced battles most will not comprehend and yet despite it all, she still chooses to be kind; to be soft at the hands of the world that tried to break her. Her strength comes from within. From learning how to turn pain into power, chaos into peace, wounds into wisdom.

Strong is she, who knows her worth and refuses to settle for less. Strong is she, who will not back down, who will fight for what she believes in. Strong is she, who has love wrapped around her heart, courage knitted in her bones and fire running through her veins.

@quotes for the day

Why women are divorcing/ leaving at high rates

Trauma bonded with Mom

Family of Origin was honored over ours

Mental , Physical, Spiritual, Financial and Psychological Abuse

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Try a little tenderness

You need to understand woman sexuality. Her deepest thrills are psychological, not physical. Her mind is the most potent erogenous zone, and the key to her arousal lies in understanding her emotions, thoughts, and desires.

You need to understand that her fantasies and passions often dwell in the realms of connection, intimacy, and emotional resonance.

You need to understand that this submission is a gift she gives willingly, and it should be cherished and honored.

You need to understand that communication is crucial. Open, honest, and empathetic dialogue can help unlock her true desires and needs.

You need to understand her words, but more importantly, the feelings behind them. Active listening and responding with genuine interest and care can deepen your connection and enhance intimacy.

You need to understand that her sexual satisfaction is intertwined with her emotional well-being. When she feels loved, respected, and appreciated, her sexual desire flourishes.

You need to understand that creating a supportive and nurturing environment will help her feel secure and open, allowing her to fully express her sexuality.

You need to understand that every woman is unique. Her preferences, boundaries, and fantasies will differ from others.

You need to understand and respect her individuality, taking the time to learn what specifically excites and fulfills her. Tailoring your approach to her unique personality and desires will create a more fulfilling and intimate relationship for both of you.

– Abhikesh

Respect & Manners in relationships

As I was coming to and going out , I listened to young women discussing dating and I was aghast !

They talked about dates where they paid for meals etc then sex later .

I’m not a fan of dating due to past experiences and the pressure to know what we should do and casual relationships/sex just doesn’t get it !

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