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Charlie McCready- Lawyers $$$$
Does anyone care to comment? When I have more time, I’d like to gather more data on what alienated parents have actually experienced in the family court system. How long did it take? What was the outcome? How much money was spent? Did it lead to reunification? If the court ordered contact, was it enforced—and if so, how did that go?
Alienated parents often pour their life savings into a legal system they once believed would protect their rights and their children’s well-being—only to emerge financially drained, emotionally shattered, and, in many cases, no closer to justice.
This highlights the urgent need for reform. Lawyers dealing with these cases should be trained to recognise attachment disordered parental alienation – the false narratives and coercive, manipulative behaviours that drive it. The legal system must do better, not only for parents who are being erased from their children’s lives but, most importantly, for the children themselves—caught in a battle they never chose.
Perhaps we expect too much. Perhaps we should know better by now. After all, injustice isn’t confined to family courts or parental alienation. Look at the wider world—those who commit crimes often walk free, while those who expose them suffer the consequences. The alienated parent is no different: seeking truth in a system that too often fails to protect the innocent while enabling the abuse.
I don’t mean to sound cynical. I try to stay focused on solutions. But we shouldn’t have to ‘fight’ to see our own children in a court of justice—because we are not criminals. We are parents. Parental alienation isn’t simply a legal matter; it’s a psychological and relational issue—one that the law is often ill-equipped to handle. And for many, prolonged legal action is not only financially impossible but also emotionally destructive. While sometimes necessary, court should be a last resort, used only when every other effort to protect a child’s well-being has been exhausted.
If you are going through what’s commonly known as ‘parental alienation’, know you’re not alone. I’ve been through it myself. Personally and professionally, I have over 20 years of experience. I am reunited with my children and here to offer support with daily posts on social media and also with the coaching I offer. Feel free to reach out to me anytime.
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#parentalalienationcoach
#parentalalienation
#parentalalienationawareness
#alienatedchild
Holy War
This gave me full body chills…
“👁️ Did you ever wonder why the baby’s taken across the room? Why the cord is clamped fast, the mother left shaking, the lights so bright it feels like judgment?
Did you ever feel the stillness—the eerie quiet when the father’s hands are empty, the grandmother’s not in the room, and the newborn is nowhere near a breast?
It’s not just medicine.
It’s not just policy.
It’s a ritual.
And it’s not ours.
🧬 They inject pig-derived Pitocin to mimic the hormone God designed to flood a woman’s brain in labor. But it doesn’t reach the brain. It only contracts the body.
The love doesn’t flow.
The imprint doesn’t land.
The bonding doesn’t seal.
Just pressure. Just force.
💉 Synthetic love.
⚡ Counterfeit release.
🧠 Neurological silence.
And while the woman is watched but not touched, while the baby is wiped but not suckled, while the father is praised for being “supportive” but not leading—
they cut the thread.
👶 The mother-baby dyad was made to reflect divine intimacy. To pass down trust, peace, protection.
But when it’s broken—
the body remembers.
The child stores the grief.
The mother learns disconnection.
The father fades from view.
That’s how it starts. But it doesn’t end there.
Then come the bottles.
The cribs.
The high chairs.
The eight-hour separations called school.
The praise of independence that is really just early detachment.
The lie that the nuclear family is enough. That Mom runs the home. That Dad is just for weekends. That children are safest raised by strangers in buildings funded by gods they do not know.
🕳️ We are not looking at broken systems.
We are looking at precision-engineered fragmentation.
And you feel it. You’ve felt it all along.
That something was taken before you could name it.
That someone was missing even while you were being told you had “everything you need.”
But listen: the lie only wins if we let it.
And we won’t.
We are pulling the babies back to the breast.
We are restoring the mother’s voice in the birth room.
We are putting grandmothers back at the table.
We are praying over the placenta.
We are keeping them close at night.
We are burning the counterfeit and walking in the design.
This is not soft work.
It is a holy war”
– written upon the heart of almost every midwife
– author – Cardinal Birth Midwifery Service
The Blessings of Being Rejected by your child
Watching your child(ren) go through so much of life enmeshed with a parent who abuses them , to savage you … is the Hell on Earth no one wants or deserves .
That said , I have been on my own since 1993 . As the toxic RX increased the unpleasant side effects of being the target physically, I had no one who cared .
Realizing the blatant abuse and X’s desire to recreate as much of my trauma of childhood , I could more easily distance myself
Women Who Run With Wolves
When a woman makes the decision
to abandon suffering, lies and submission;
When a woman says,
from the bottom of her heart:
“Enough— this far I have come”,
Not a thousand armies of ego
and not all the traps of the illusion
will be able to stop her
in search for her own truth.
There the doors of her own soul open
and the healing process begins.
The process that will return her little by little to herself, to her true life.
And nobody said that this path is easy,
but it is the path.
That decision in itself
opens a direct line with its wild nature
and that is where the true miracle begins.
~ Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estes, “Women Who Run With the Wolves”
http://www.clarissapinkolaestes.com
Art by Kimberly Webber
The Dance of healed polarities ❤️🌹
“The feminine cannot, will not surrender
To the wounded masculine…
A man who criticizes her
Belittles
Dishonours
Controls
Manipulates
Abuses
Or attacks her
Her own inner masculine will not allow it
He will rise fiercely to the forefront
To stand guard
To do the job himself
The feminine can and will only surrender
To the divine masculine…
A man who is devoted to her
Elevates
Honours
Cherishes
Supports
And protects her
A man with boundaries
Presence
Direction
Integrity
Accountability
And humility
In this space
She will feel him penetrating her very essence…
Her body
Her mind
Her heart
Her soul
And she will feel safe…
Safe enough to surrender
This is the natural law
This is the dance of healed polarities
This is surrender…
To Love”
Written by Gemma Star
The Narcissist Target
Narcissists often make mistakes and hurt people around them. They look for victims who are forgiving and will overlook their mistakes. Forgiving people are easy to manipulate and control because they are less likely to hold the narcissist accountable for their actions.
They also look for victims who are highly empathetic because they are more likely to put the narcissist’s needs before their own. Empathetic people are also less likely to see the narcissist’s flaws and more likely to make excuses for their behaviour.
Powerless Triggers – Charlie McCready
I’ve come to understand that this isn’t about me personally; it’s a deeply rooted attachment pathology, and complex family dynamic involving disordered parenting. It’s spiralled into a situation where my child’s thoughts, beliefs and behaviours have been significantly influenced – trauma-bonded, coercively controlled, emotionally manipulated. Learning about this has helped me see the bigger picture, though I am working on my sense of isolation, frustration, injustice, and of course the grief. There’s nothing like it. People say it’s like a ‘living bereavement’ and that’s so true. It seems people don’t truly understand this unless they’ve been through it, and alienated parents are united in feeling let down by the mental health and family court system.
Still, I’ve learned a lot. I’ve learned not to react to the hurtful behaviour anymore. Sometimes, I catch myself just shaking my head, thinking, ‘Oh, this again.’ It’s like recognising a pattern. I remind myself that ‘this too will pass.’ My focus now is on maintaining my love for my child, even if they can’t see it right now. Detaching with love has become my way of preserving our bond through this difficult time. Nobody can take the love I have for my child away from me. Nothing and no one.
Conscious parenting plays a significant role here. It’s about recognising the importance of my child’s emotional well-being even when they may not fully comprehend it themselves. So, I make an effort to create a safe and loving space for them whenever/should they ever walk through my door. My door, and my heart, are open. I don’t let their negative behaviour dictate my response. Instead, I model the behaviour I want them to see—unconditional love, patience, and understanding. It’s challenging, but it’s also empowering because I believe this will help me and it will help my child heal and come back into my life when they’re ready.
Meanwhile I’m getting on with my life and not feeling sad or guilty about it. I have my moments, but I’m focussing on the present not the past, the love not the loss. If I can do it, and I’ve been in the pits of despair believe me, I know you can too.
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#parentalalienationcoach
Awakening is Remembering 💯❤️
To The Ascension LightWorker Collective
As our frequency changes, a new world will emerge. This transition to a higher dimensional way of being is the 3D to 5D Shift, it requires that we shift our thinking to a higher vibrational frequency from mind centered thinking to heart centred knowing.
They call it ‘awakening’ but really it’s remembering, a deep wordless knowing that rises from within, it’s not something you learn but something you have always embodied. All memories are stored in the soul’s imprint, beyond time, beyond logic,
Wisdom from lifetimes encoded in your energy. In dreams and in De ja Vu. in the quiet moments when the noise fades, activation of remembrance is why some truths feel so familiar the first time you hear them, why certain symbols, sounds or places. stir something ancient in you.
Not all transformation looks dramatic. Most Of it is Cellular, Silent. Subtle. But no Less Powerful. The most important shifts often happen when it feels like nothing is working. Because that’s when the old system within begins to dissolve.
Not mistaking stillness for stagnation or mistaking quiet for failure. You are in the moment between timelines. The breath before the leap. If It Feels Like Nothing is Happening this is a strong sign that shifts are occurring behind the scenes .
Growth is messy. It loops, spirals, and stings. You’re not ever failing, you’re peeling back layers.
For some ascending that feel frustrated in certain parts of their awakening journey, you are not stuck. You are in the quiet part, the part where everything starts to shift within . You might not see it yet or all at once . You might feel at times like the momentum slowed down or disappeared but underneath the surface, something greater is recalibrating.
Human beings are not meant to be doing Machines. If you have been feeling tired, stuck, uninspired recently, It’s not because something is wrong with you. You were not divinely created to wake in fear or with dread. To measure your worth by output or spend your days surviving routines that strip the essence of the Soul.
For those that feel like your life doesn’t reflect who you really are at this point in life. That’s not failure. That’s evidence that you are remembering. You are not lazy. You are not broken. You are not ungrateful. You are simply sensitive to misalignment.
You are not stuck forever. Your current reality is not your final form. You are not late. You are not lost. You are remembering and waking up to the truth.
Humanity were taught to call exhaustion in self “normal.” To silence the aches and pains. To press on. But that ache, that pain is sacred. It is the Soul’s calling of what needs to be consciously recognised.
Reality Doesn’t Respond to What You Want
It Mirrors Who You Are. The universe isn’t reacting to your desires . It’s reflecting your frequency. We are not passive observers. We are transmitters, Projectors. Reality isn’t “out there.” It’s unfolding from within.
Why visualising a new life doesn’t always change your current one. Because your system isn’t just listening to your words, it’s vibrating to your field.
The ego is a tool, it just needs to be aligned, not erased. A healthy ego serves your soul, while a distorted ego serves only illusions and fear .
You manifest what matches your nervous system baseline. What you have practiced. What your energy believes is real. Not what you hope for but what you inhabit and embody, when things don’t seem to be shifting , ask: What part of me doesn’t believe this is possible? What fear am I still building around? What version of me is this desire assigned to?
You don’t create by wishing, you create by becoming and when your being holds the frequency of truth reality bends to meet it.
Resistance Isn’t the Problem It’s the Portal.
What you’re pushing against might be the very doorway you’re meant to walk through.
Most people fear resistance. We may take it as a sign to stop. But resistance is sacred. It’s where your system is trying to hold the old reality together. When something inside you resists change it’s not trying to ruin your progress. It’s trying to protect you from the unknown.
The greater the change you’re stepping into, the louder the resistance becomes. The reason why is because you’re leaving the terrain your nervous system calls safe.
The moment you stop making resistance wrong-it begins to dissolve . It’s not a wall. It’s a signal. And it’s pointing you exactly where to go. Recognising where resistance is showing up the strongest in life, consciously exploring what it is pointing towards.
The nervous system holds time differently.
Safety doesn’t come from age, it comes from permission. Permission to soften, to open, to feel and to finally Rest .
Not everything that asks for your energy deserves it. Your power is sacred-guard it with intention. Energetic clutter within and without will scramble the nervous system. You thrive in stilhess, not chaos.
You are not starting from zero, you are returning, reconnecting, reclaiming what has always been yours this is the great remembering and your soul has been waiting for it.
Healing isn’t linear. It’s cyclical and the moment you feel safe you shift conscious timelines. You don’t heal the past by reliving it. You heal the past by finally becoming the one who was missing all along “Yourself”.
You don’t need to be perfect to Ascend
Being spiritual doesn’t mean you stop feeling. True growth is learning to feel everything without letting it control you. Your humanness is sacred too.
It’s never too late to become the True Self
There is no deadline for becoming real.
All are always welcome to return home to who they truly are.
Ascension is not escape, It’s not about floating away from Earth. Real ascension is integration, grounding your higher self into the physical body and living with awareness in this reality.
In Loving and Devoted Ascension Service
By Ascension Lightworkers .
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