Home, a message for men..

A MESSAGE FOR MEN…

I get a lot of random messages on here from strange men asking what turns me on.

So, I thought I might just put it out there because I think I speak for a lot of women on this and I’m here to help.

Do you want to know what turns me on? What makes me burn for you?

What makes us breathless? What awakens every passionate instinct and unwraps every layer of fiery feminine sensuality?

Go to freaking therapy.

Do your inner work.

Heal yourself.

Lead yourself.

Be brave enough to get uncomfortable for the sake of wholeness and depth.

Be willing to build your emotional muscle so your arms are strong enough to hold the fire of an awakened woman.

Be open enough to lean into a level of depth you’ve never experienced.

Talk.

Be humble enough to admit that you don’t know everything.

Go deep.

Get real.

Stop hiding behind surface-level sex.

Evolve.

Confront what you need to confront so you can move forward without the shadow of your past.

Stop thinking that vulnerability is weakness. It takes a GIANT of a wild man to get vulnerable and it’s HOT.

Stop running from magic when it’s exactly what you need.

Stop telling yourself she’s too much when the reality is you’re just afraid to be enough.

Lead yourself so you can lead ME.

Believe that you can handle it. Act accordingly.

Be the safe space. The strong ground. The calm for her storm.

Do this and you’ll find your Goddess. Do this and you’ll be taken to a place of wholeness and ecstasy you didn’t know existed and likely wouldn’t have found on your own.

Do this… and you’ll be home.

P.S. Sisters -do the same or stop complaining.🙃

Author: Gina Caruso Hussar

Photo from movie : Pompeii

Wild Woman Sisterhood

Lost Boys: The Violent Narcissism of Angry Young Men – The Atlantic

The distorted ” Peter Pan ” I don’t wanna grow up , I don’t wanna grow old ” non responsible ,enraged ” kid ” is alive and not so well in elder men, as it gets more pronounced with age . Sadly stuck , and doomed to loss and failure for the damages done those targeted individuals who fail to be aware of the masked child/boy/man , in Groundhog Day mode .

What to do about the deadly misfits among us? First, recognize the problem.
— Read on www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2023/01/lost-boys-violent-narcissism-angry-young-men/672886/

Narcissist & Food Control

Whew this was so factual per my experience that I knew I had received a gift.

I was very thin when we met and married and pregnant 3 months later .

I gained weight and was always hungry . In this marriage I had a much better diet, access to food and I gained 60 lbs , loosing 30 within 3 days of childbirth .

It did begin a serious issue that wasn’t discussed , as he stated later on , that he would have sex more often IF I lost weight .

I had little respect , for his continued using sex , with me as a sleeping elixir , and his extremely loud snoring precluded my sleep. I wasn’t desirous of sex with him .

Back to the eating … he loved food and I think we both had childhood food issues.. . But he defiantly wasn’t interested in me with weight on , which psychiatrist RX authenticated , as my weight increased , a red flag , in many ways .

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11 Key Things High-Value Men Do Differently From Narcissists | Thought Catalog

Dating a high-value and high-quality man is drastically different from dating a narcissist (and narcissists can be male or female).
— Read on thoughtcatalog.com/shahida-arabi/2023/05/11-key-things-high-value-men-do-differently-from-narcissists/

Men Rising – Thank you ,❤️😘🙏🏼

The Divine Masculine is rising…

What the hell does that mean?

It’s all very well for us women to be voicing our opinions but men want to hear it from other men…

MAN to MAN …

Those of you who are the forerunners

Those of you who have already taken the leap of faith into the unknown

Those of you who reached rock bottom and dug your way out

Those of you who have said goodbye to the corporate world to follow your heart’s calling

Those of you who are tuning into your feelings and emotions

Those of you who are healing

Those of you who are creative

Those of you who know there’s gotta be more to life than what we have been conditioned to believe

Those of you who have found your peace

Those of you who are hurting

Those of you who are lost…

You

Please speak up

Stop hiding your magic

The world needs your truth

Now more than ever

You are doing a huge service yourselves and to each other when you speak, write, express and share your truth from your heart

Fearlessly and honestly

This is the new courage

This is the new strength

This is the new power

This is the new masculinity

It’s time for change

And to change

We have to be the change

When we lift each other up

We all rise in love

~Gemma Star