The Bottomless Pit of learned ingratitude- Charlie McCready

Alienated parents often experience a painful dynamic where their children feel they have to “payback” for perceived shortcomings. This belief is instilled by the alienating parent, who paints (projects) a picture of the targeted parent as neglectful or selfish. The child, who has been led to believe these narratives, may come to expect constant compensation for the perceived wrongs.⁠

In reality, the alienated parent has been prevented from giving their love and support. Their attempts to provide for and connect with their child have been limited or entirely blocked. Despite their genuine efforts and desire to be involved, the child has been conditioned to see these efforts as inadequate.⁠

The alienated child often becomes complicit in this dynamic, unknowingly perpetuating the cycle of blame. They carry the belief that they have been short-changed by the targeted parent, even though the reality is that the alienated parent had so much more time and love to give. This disconnect creates a lasting sense of injustice and unresolved tension.⁠

Understanding this dynamic can help alienated parents find some solace in knowing that the problem is not rooted in their actions but in the manipulative influence of the alienating parent. It isn’t easy to be blamed so mistakenly when we know our children truly have been shortchanged – against our wishes and at the instigation of the alienating parent – and we have to, despite all adversity, triggers, injustice, grief …, maintain our patience, empathy, and continued efforts to rebuild trust and connection with their children.⁠

#charliemccready #9StepProgram #parentalalienationcoach #parentalalienation #parentalalienationawareness

Do not underestimate Survivors🎯

“Do not underestimate someone who has lost everything and is still here to tell the story.

Do not underestimate someone who has fought dearly for sobriety. Peace. Forgiveness. Self-love. Freedom. Authenticity. Truth.

Do not underestimate the lonely. They have braved wars that only those who understand the absence of human connection can do. Even now. They are holding it all together while coming so wildly undone. And sometimes we may see them unravel ever so softly. Or loudly. Or however their soul unties its cage the best.

Do not underestimate the ones who have suffered the kind of grief that does not seem to end. Who have been broken in places you did not even know existed. The ones who fell into silence because their lungs had no words left to speak.

We will not always be strong.

No.

But we are enduring.”✨

✍️Ullie Kaye Poetry

🔆The Sisterhood of SHE

[Art: Alison Meriwether]

Men : Getting the woman you take care of ❤️🙌

There’s a man out there who will tell you that she’s crazy, emotionally unstable, and aggressive.

There’s also a man who will say he’s never felt more appreciated and respected, that she has created the safest space for him, and that being around her makes him feel nurtured, cared for, and at peace.

Believe them both!

You get the woman you take care of, whatever you give her, she will reflect back to you.

If you show up in confusion, gaslighting her, or are indecisive, of course she’ll seem crazy! 💯

However, if you show up with clarity, know how to lead, and make this a safe space, you’ll see a totally different woman.

Not here to Rehabilitate anyone 💯

That negates , the person you try to help from lessons and experiences

that heal and empower themselves and that’s major evolution .

One reason , I began to blog was because I’d reach this point of needing

my space , my peace , my continued healing journey and evolution .

YOU ARE NOT A REHABILITATION CENTER FOR A MAN WHO WAS POORLY RAISED.

It’s not your job to fix him, mold him, or teach him to act like a grown man.

You need a partner, not a project.

If he brings chaos, disrespect, or immature behavior, walk away.

His issues aren’t yours to solve.

If his own parents couldn’t raise him right, it’s unrealistic to think you can.

A real partner already has self respect, maturity, and responsibility.

You deserve peace and support, not a burden.

✍Chris Perry

🎨Vasily Treadiakovsky

Boy Lessons

16 Lessons Every Boy Should Learn

1. Women are not objects – Treat every female with respect, not as a possession.

2. Fists aren’t solutions – Violence never solves problems; communication does.

3. Happiness isn’t bought – True contentment doesn’t come from money or power.

4. Force isn’t manliness – Real strength comes from patience, not aggression.

5. Respect goes further – More than flowers or gifts, respect is what builds lasting relationships.

6. Trust your gut – Your instincts are powerful; listen to them, they’ll save you more often than not.

7. Never outgrow “Mom” – No matter your age, calling your mother “Mom” or “Mama” shows love. “You” is for friends.

8. Dress the part – Sometimes, neat clothes can be the difference between a “yes” or a “no.”

9. Success has many keys – Whether it’s in sports, art, music, or writing, each passion has its own door to unlock.

10. Choose role models wisely – Bright lights can blind you to red flags. Be careful who you admire.

11. Stay curious – Every corner holds a story; always be open to learning.

12. Earn it, don’t expect it – No one is entitled to what they want. You work hard for what you have and pray for what you need.

13. Kneel before God – When you know how to humble yourself before God, you’ll have the strength to stand up to anyone.

14. Own your choices – Your friends won’t be held responsible for your actions. Think before you act.

15. Choose humility over arrogance – Running with the popular crowd teaches arrogance; sitting with everyday people teaches humility, and humility will take you further.

16. Take God with you – Don’t go anywhere or do anything you wouldn’t want to invite your Heavenly Father to. He’s your ultimate protector.

The Stranger I love – Movie release on Parental Alienation / Charlie McCready

One week until Theresa Godly’s The Stranger I Love, a short film about parental alienation, screens at the Sussex International Film Festival, where it is nominated for Best UK Short Film. Please get tickets or support however you can.

Here are links to the Crowdfunder and to buy tickets for 15th November at the Sussex Film Festival -The Stranger I Love is screening at 16:30.

[https://www.crowdfunder.co.uk/p/tsil-festivals-marketing](https://www.crowdfunder.co.uk/p/tsil-festivals-marketing)

[https://hailshampavilion.co.uk/…/siff-finalists-screening/](https://hailshampavilion.co.uk/…/siff-finalists-screening/)

@theresa_godly

@tsil_film

#charliemccready

#parentalalienationcoach

#parentalalienation

#childcustody

#FathersMatter

#mothersmatter

#ChildAbusePreventionAwareness

Craig Childress PsyD – Election Aftermath

If I had not listened to Election Astrology which I posted here , I’d be real disturbed.

*Kamala would have given us all puppies. Instead, you chose to drink Drano.

Ha-ha-ha-ha-ha… and I get to watch.

Kamala was sane. She smiled and laughed. She was smart and tough and kind. She would have given us all puppies.

You didn’t want that.

You chose to put our nation in the hands of a psychotic Dark Tetrad. Ha-ha-ha-ha-ha… so now you get to drink Drano. Lucky you.

He wants to burn it all to the ground, you know that right? And this second time he knows exactly how to do that now. He knows how he was stopped last time by sane people around him…

…so there’s no sane people around him now to stop him. Aha-ha-ha-ha… there’s a reason its unwise to put the stupidest in charge. Wanna know the reason?

Watch. Aha-ha-ha-ha-ha… oh my goodness this’ll be fun. We’ve crossed the event horizon – no light can escape now – there’s nothing you can do.

He has absolute power and complete immunity for anything he does. Weeee… let’s make Amerika Great… Again. Remember when we had no polluting immigrants? Remember when White men were in charge and our womenfolk and people of color knew their ‘place’?

Wasn’t that Great. Let’s go back and do it again. We can be so Great just like we were once. Remember how Great it was in the 1950s, or 1920s, or 1820s… how far back are we going?

We’re not going back – ha-ha-ha-ha – yes you are. Hold on, get ready, we’re headed back to our future’s past.

Kamala would have given everyone puppies. You didn’t want puppies. Now you get to drink Drano. Ha-ha-ha-ha-ha…

And I get to watch. I hope you get everything you want. You deserve everything you get.

It’s what you want. It’s what you’ll get.

Aha-ha-ha-ha… this’ll be so fun, won’t this be fun? Let’s make Amerika Great – Again. I’m fine with Amerika’s ‘greatness’ – I’m White. I’m a man. I’m old and I’m leaving not arriving. I’ll be fine.

You, on the other hand… I suspect not so much. They’re making you Great – again. You should be grateful. There’ll be some suffering for some at the beginning, but its what we all need to do to be Great – again.

With the all-star cast he’s assembling – only the finest – he’ll lead Amerika to our Greatness… Again. Remember how wonderful things used to be?

Not like now. Not like how dark and evil our nation’s become. We need a purge of our evil inside – our enemy within. It won’t be too bad, it won’t last long.

Have you ever been through a purge of your evil inside? Wait. I hear they’re fun.

Aha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha… and look, it’s only November still, this group of our best-and-brightest he’s assembling haven’t even started to make Amerika Great to their vision of our greatness.

It’s not even started. We’ll still get to enjoy this for four… years – day-in and day-out, week-after-week, month-after-month… year after year… with no escape.

No end.

He gets to do whatever he wants to us. He has unlimited power and absolute immunity for anything he does as president – for anything he does.

Wait… the universe is always telling me to wait. We still have December to get through before we begin becoming… Great.

January will be our times of Great Celebration. I suspect he’ll pardon all the Jan 6 Patriots as one of the first things he’ll do, don’t you think? That’ll send a clear message to everyone – no matter what you do… Trump will pardon you.

Then… well, you could of all had puppies. Now, you get to drink Drano. Don’t struggle, it’ll only make it worse. Accept your fate – drink it – you have no choice.

Stop struggling. Accept your fate.

Your life – their choice. Aha-ha-ha-ha-ha…

Wait.

Wait, wait, wait, wait… it’s coming for you soon. Are you ready? Are you ready to be Great… Again? I’m so excited.

I know what puppies are. I’ve never watched an entire nation drink Drano. Mmmmm, so tasty… I hope.

Hope? Remember when there was Hope?

Abandon all hope where you’re going. You’re going to get what you deserve, and apparently you don’t deserve puppies.

You deserve to be Great… Again. Aha-ha-ha-ha-ha, and I get to watch.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.

Clinical Psychologist, CA PSY 18857

Relationships – Divine Timing

Relationship Paradigm Shift Occuring

What is imperative to understand from now on and in the next ten years leading up and into 2032, is that there is a huge shift now, into the wholeness.

I experience this every time I do a relationship reading now, just how deep this change of dimension is affecting our relationships. This is a paradigm shift in the highest degrees – which will now intensify!

When I mention WHOLENESS, it means wholeness within!

WHOLINESS.

The deep sacred union of the Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine within.

This is where the most sacred of union lies. Within. Not so much without.

This has a profound effect on the whole.

So many are still seeking desperately for the ONE AND ONLY who will fulfill them, make the whole. Who will bring that happiness that they so seek. Yet this is in truth illusion.

For the ONE AND ONLY is already there within you!

It is an intense shift here: it means that we now are healing so deeply within that we finally learn to take full responsibility for our own inner happiness, our own wholeness, and living life fully soul empowered from within.

For the 5th dimensional state and the 7th, brings a totally new way of loving to the fore, and in the context of loving relationships, this means that there will be no marriages anymore, nor marriage contracts, for these are old manmade things, which do not apply in the rest of the Universe nor creation.

Every soul is sovereign, and every soul is a true Son and true Daughter of the Prime Creator.

You cannot belong to another soul. It is impossible. You can only stand fully empowered in your own light.

What this means is that when we choose to walk a path of love with another soul, we will give them the freedom to be simply themselves.

We are so soul-empowered from within that whether they are in our lives or not, we will still be happy and content, as we are responsible for our own happiness and not expect them to make us happy.

This brings transcendental love, love with great tenderness, where we do not place restrictions on each other, but encourage the other to shine in their uniqueness, in their soul glory, as we do as well.

So many souls will find that they finally in the New Golden Age, should they choose to ascend, now can be with their true Twin Flames again, as so many never had their Twin Flames incarnate on earth.

As these Twin Flame were of a much higher dimension than on earth, they could only reunite in their sleep state, although the twin was always with them, as higher guide.

As we now take on our new Light bodies, we will be able to interact with the Universal Intergalactic Races again, and they can walk amongst us, without the danger of us disintegrating or not being able to see them because they are of a much higher dimensional embodiment.

Therefore, understand that every soul has its own choices to make now.

If you wish to ascend, then know the current partner may choose not to.

That is perfectly ok. IN their own time and space, they can choose when and where they wish to do so, or not.

Many will choose not to ascend and that is ok.

No soul is ever lost for the Prime Creator is within them too, as much as within you.

Give them the freedom to make their own choice. You cannot piggyback them into the New Earth, no matter how much you try to.

You can love someone dearly and wholly, without needing to attach.

Indeed, the greatest of all love gives the other the freedom to be. To make their own choices, with the full knowing, that love is eternal.

One does not need to be in the same place, in order to love.

The new relationships in the New Earth will be a SOUL merger.

It is a totally whole new way of relating which is opening up, and it is transcendental.

We do not have anything like it as yet on earth, yet our soul has always remembered, and this is why we always searched for such a loving relationship on earth and yet never found it.

Some may have a glimpse of it, even now – but it is still a glimpse.

I am experiencing this now, how cosmic love, true love is divinely on such a level, which defies words nor description. More than this I will not say, for words fail me and this is not on earthly levels.

This is awaiting us.

But first the total shift needs to occur within us.

And that is find the (w)holiness within us and shifting fully into the 5th and 7th dimensional state, and we will indeed find that it goes way beyond anything physical, and into the realms of purity and true love, we simply could not access in the third dimension.

So do the inner preparation work and become whole and complete within and allow the sacred union between the Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine within to occur and then concentrate on the ascension pathways, and as you are ready, the path will open.

This is one reason why one cannot predict at this moment whom you will be with in the future.

For the future indeed is already manifesting in the here and now within you, and your own choices of whether to stay in the Old Earth or whether to fully ascend into the new.

And even if you make such choices, if your partner or the person you are interested in or see as potential partner, may not choose the same option.

Do your own inner work and allow the miracle to unfold in perfect Divine timing and far greater than you can even think of or dream of right now!

~ Judith Kusel

Art: Carlos Alberto Quintero