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Dr Craig Childress PsyD : Diagnoses Breakthrough šŸŽŠ Child Phycological Abuse

I’ve been thinking…

Now that I have the three DSM-5 Diagnoses seminars up on my YouTube channel, 1) the DSM-5 Diagnosis, 2) Diagnosing a Persecutory Delusion, and 3) Diagnosing a Factitious Disorder Imposed on the Child, I know what my next Diagnosis Chapter is…

4) Diagnosing Child Abuse

Because the forensic custody evaluators never diagnosed the child abuse – they never diagnosed anything, they do something different of their own devising – they put all the legal professionals to sleep… like things weren’t that important.

This is child abuse. We need an accurate diagnosis in six to eight weeks.

Which means the legal system must respond much-much more quickly… however we also need the psychologists to conduct the clinical diagnostic assessments.

Parents and the courts can ask for a diagnostic assessment of the family conflict as much as you want, if the psychologists don’t do that then it’s not available.

A diagnostic assessment is being withheld from parents and the courts for the personal financial gain of the forensic custody evaluators.

I’m in the AFCC now. I’ll be encountering the forensic custody evaluators there, and they’ll be encountering me.

Paradigms are changing. It’s not incremental change, it’s transformational change. Forensic custody evaluations are entirely leaving – bye-bye – a failed experiment on parents and children.

Clinical psychology is returning, diagnosis and treatment.

All mental health professionals have duty to protect obligations. This is child abuse – and spousal abuse of the targeted parent by the allied using the child, and the child’s induced pathology, as the spousal abuse weapon.

Duty to protect obligations are active – we need to get a proper risk assessment with an accurate diagnosis within six to eight weeks.

Since it will be a disputed diagnosis, each litigant-parent should be allowed to appoint a consultant to participate in the diagnostic assessment sessions through telehealth.

The ONLY cause of the child’s symptoms – a child seeking to flee a parent; a directional change in a primary motivational system – is child abuse by one parent or the other.

We need a clinical diagnostic assessment for child abuse to the appropriate differential diagnoses for each parent. How do we assess for child abuse?

That’s what I’ll explain in the next seminar: Diagnosing Child Abuse.

I served as the Clinical Director for a three-university assessment and treatment center for children ages 0-to-5 in foster care, CPS was our primary referral source.

I’ve personally treated all four forms of child abuse, and I have lead the treatment teams for all forms of child abuse that have included CPS social worker involvement.

I should describe how to assess for child abuse.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.

Clinical Psychologist

WA 71538481

OR 3942 – CA 18857

Mother

We can hold the grief and sadness of not having that Mom… or we can heal those wounds and try to see her humanely . I regret that lost the ability to heal while she was still in her body .

It’s very difficult to acknowledge that our children are so detached from feeling anything but hatred … I’ve accessed my part ( that I’m aware of ) and amassed the varied influences that lead to alienation , fear , hatred and detachment.

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Spiritual Evolution

“Riding the Waves of Spiritual Evolution Energies”

The 9D Arcturian Council, through Daniel Scranton

We are sending you energies from our central star, Arcturus, all the time.

We are inviting so many of you to benefit from all that has been lived , all that has been experienced in our star system, and all you have to do is open yourselves up to those energies. You see, you donā€™t have to do it all by yourself. You donā€™t have to live out every experience to gain the full benefit of that experience. Others have come before you and others are living those experiences right now, and you can benefit from everyone elseā€™s gifts and accomplishments, wisdom and knowledge.

And as you open yourself up to Arcturian energies, you are opening yourself up to spiritual evolution. That is the main theme, the main focal point or our star system, and why beings come here to incarnate in it. This star system is about furthering the spiritual evolution of the consciousness of the entire universe, and that is the shift that we are all in the midst of right now.

It is a universal shift in consciousness, and it is happening because it is the right time for it to be happening. And those who are on a spiritual path can ride the wave of what is happening on that universal level. That is also something that we invite you all to do.

Let go of the idea that you have to do it all yourselves in terms of your spiritual evolution. Set the Intention that you want to Focus on What brings you in a higher-vibrational state , and You want to think the thoughts that are a match to that higher-vibrational state. Set the Intention to Feel better in your physical Bodies , Emotionally, as well as Energetically, and let Yourselves Ride The Wave.

Let yourselves Receive what is coming to you naturally because of the Beautiful Intentions that you put forth. You are there to Benefit from all that this universe has to offer, and in benefiting from everything this universe has to offer, you also get to create an even better universe, experience what already was of it, and then add to it through your experience and through your asking.

You are there to Create ; you are creative masters. You are creating all day long because of the self-imposed limitations that you chose to experience in a physical body. And so, you can Bless everything as it is, while also knowing that everything that isā€”and everything that has ever beenā€”is serving you and helping you to grow without effort, without struggle, without sacrifice.

Create challenges for yourselves because you like the feeling of overcoming a challenge and choose which challenges you want to face. Any challenge you are not interested in facing and overcoming, you can let someone else do it and benefit from the beautiful ways in which they have faced and overcome that particular challenge.

We truly are all one, and when you take an interest in us, an interest in our star system, it is because you are more interested in becoming your whole self, and that is exciting for us, and hopefully, for you as well.

Blame as an escape

Thinking that my years of abuse , the varied betrays aided in my personal growth while I was drugged via psychiatric ineptitude! If continues .. so the tables are turned and balance will be restored, as I graduate šŸ§‘ā€šŸŽ“

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“Your suffering is never caused by the person you’re blaming.”

Blame is an easy escape, but it never leads to freedom and encases you in a prison of false perception. Itā€™s tempting to believe that suffering is caused by someone elseā€”that their words, their actions, or their choices are the reason for the pain. But what if the real source of suffering isnā€™t what they did, but the way it is perceived, processed, and held onto?

The mind has a way of creating narratives. It builds stories around pain, assigning fault and attaching emotions to past wounds. But the moment blame is given away, power is also given away. Blame keeps the focus outward, waiting for someone else to change, apologize, or make things right. But what if peace doesnā€™t depend on their actions? What if it has always been an internal choice?

No one can control how others act. People will make mistakes, they will be unfair, they will disappoint. But what happens nextā€”the response, the emotions carried forward, the way the situation is interpretedā€”is entirely within personal control. And this is where true strength lies: in realizing that suffering isnā€™t created by the external, but by the attachment to what cannot be changed.

Personal accountability is not about excusing othersā€”itā€™s about reclaiming power. Itā€™s the understanding that while pain is real, suffering is optional. Itā€™s the choice to see difficult situations as lessons instead of burdens, to shift perspective from victimhood to growth. The world will not always be kind, but inner peace is not determined by external forces.

Letting go of blame is not about denying hurt; itā€™s about refusing to let it define the future. When responsibility is taken for thoughts, reactions, and emotions, life no longer feels like something that happens *to* you, but something shaped *by* you.

Freedom begins the moment responsibility is claimed. The choice is always there: to remain bound by blame or to step forward in strength. In the end, the only true control is over oneself, and that is where real peace is found.

A childā€™s view of parental alienation

From a child’s perspective:ā 

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Mom/Dad tells me I can’t see my other parent because they’re bad and they’ve done all these bad things, but I don’t understand why they’d do that. I always felt happy to be with them and I miss them. It hurts when I’m not allowed to see them. Why can’t I have both my parents like before? Why can’t I see both my parents like my mom/dad does? They’re angry with my mom/dad, but I’m not … although the things I hear are really upsetting. ā 

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I remember when we did things together ā€“ like picnics and playing games. Now it’s just me and Mom/Dad. They say the other parent doesn’t care about me, but I can’t believe that’s true. Surely that’s not right! They used to laugh with me and hug me. It’s confusing because the stories I hear are so different from what I remember. It’s like my Mom/Dad I miss so much has always been a monster, and I didn’t know it. All the time, I had no idea how bad they really were, and I can’t get my head around it. I’ve kind of lost all the good memories too because I didn’t know the truth of what they have been all this time. It’s so sad. ā 

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I try to understand it all, but it’s hard. I want to ask questions, but I’m scared it’ll make Mom/Dad angry or sad. Sometimes I hear them talking about court or lawyers, and I don’t know why. I wish I could tell them that I love both of them and want to see Mom/Dad too. It feels like a secret I’m not supposed to say out loud.ā 

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I don’t know why everything changed. I don’t want to think that one of my parents is bad. It’s like my heart is split in two, and I want things to go back to how they used to be. I wish I could understand why this is happening. I don’t think I can cope with thinking about it anymore. I’m just going to have to cut off because it’s too hard and upsetting. I do believe what my Mom/Dad says. Why would they lie to me? They are doing all they can to protect me from all this.

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Crazy Horse – One Circle

The Oglala Lakota man Crazy Horse had a final Vision in which “He saw his people being driven into spiritual darkness and poverty while the white people prospered in a material way all around them. But even in the darkest times , He saw that the eyes of a few of his people kept the Light of dawn and the wisdom of the earth , which they passed on to some of their grandchildren.

He saw the coming of automobiles and airplanes, and twice he saw the great darkness and heard the screams and explosions when millions of people died in two great world wars.

But he saw, after the second great war passed, a time come when his people began to awaken, not all at once, but a few here and there, and then more and more, and he saw that they were dancing in a beautiful light of the Spirit World under the Sacred Tree even while still on Earth.

Then he was amazed to see that dancing under the tree were representatives of all races who had become brothers and sisters, and he realized that the world would be made new again and in peace and harmony not just by his people, but by members of all races of mankind.” Kiteyihtakosiw ekwa kihcheyihtakwan (Honor and respect) to Crazy Horse.šŸŽšŸ’•šŸŽ~ Joseph White Eagle

Those who do not move , do not notice their chains

The quote about liberation from oppression captures how people can become so entangled in a situation that they fail to recognise their own subjugation. Alienated children are caught in a web of emotional manipulation, coercive control, psychological abuse, fear, and loyalty binds that prevent them from seeing the truth about the situation and, as a result, being distanced from a loving parent. The alienating parent creates a situation where the child’s perception becomes skewed, making it difficult for them to recognise the unhealthy dynamics at play and how theyā€™ve become stuck, as if in chains. The children might believe they are acting out of their own free will, but they are held captive by invisible emotional chains, preventing them from breaking free and realising the depth of their situation. Often during custody battles, the control over the children and the indoctrination going on worsens. We need to keep raising awareness about parental alienation and its effects on children, as well as the need for intervention to help these children break free from the psychological control that binds them.ā 

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Rosa Luxemburg was a Polish theorist, philosopher, economist, and advocate for democracy, women’s rights, and worker’s liberation.ā 

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