Young lady speaks out on Mormon abuses

I witnessed this , openly hitting her youngest , in public , then years later

as the older kids brought him around , hearing more , witnessing a child

that had issues. But Mom took little responsibility, Dad was away a lot

working ..the huge family let the older kids be in charge of a little one .

I ended any contact , as she groomed one and they kept bringing the

youngest , or unable to come because of ” homework”

I was allowed to know she was greatly feared as a Mom.. one was being

forced to leave , one couldn’t wait to leave , one was give a gutted space

to prepare for his space ..But above all doing what Mom wanted etc.

Each child had a disability , which I didn’t ” handie cap ” , noted

the poor diet , and reaction to sugar … many ways to improve .

Not enough sleep was huge .

I had Mormon neighbors , who had 4 daughters and they were not like

that …

I’m sure Mom is spewing lies about me , and upon hearing from her

her future intentions

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Persecutory Delusion – Craig Childress PsyD

Persecutory Delusion

Diagnosis is a pattern-match of symptoms to diagnostic criteria. The pathology of concern in the family courts surrounding child custody conflict is a possible shared (induced) persecutory thought disorder created in the child from the pathogenic parenting of an allied narcissistic-borderline-dark personality parent. The definition of a persecutory delusion is provided by the American Psychiatric Association:

From the APA: “Persecutory Type: delusions that the person (or someone to whom the person is close) is being malevolently treated in some way.” (American Psychiatric Association, 2000)

Google malevolent: having or showing a wish to do evil.

Writing in the journal, Family Court Review, Walters and Friedlander (2016) describe the shared persecutory delusion that is often present in the family courts surrounding child custody conflict and attachment pathology displayed by the child:

From Walters & Friedlander: “In some RRD families [resist-refuse dynamic], a parent’s underlying encapsulated delusion about the other parent is at the root of the intractability (cf. Johnston & Campbell, 1988, p. 53ff; Childress, 2013). An encapsulated delusion is a fixed, circumscribed belief that persists over time and is not altered by evidence of the inaccuracy of the belief.” (Walters & Friedlander, 2016, p. 426)

From Walters & Friedlander: “When alienation is the predominant factor in the RRD [resist-refuse dynamic}, the theme of the favored parent’s fixed delusion often is that the rejected parent is sexually, physically, and/or emotionally abusing the child. The child may come to share the parent’s encapsulated delusion and to regard the beliefs as his/her own (cf. Childress, 2013).” (Walters & Friedlander, 2016, p. 426).

Based on the nature and severity of the attachment pathology in the family courts, I recommend that a proper assessment for a possible shared (induced) persecutory delusion be conducted with families in high-conflict custody litigation that will return an accurate diagnosis regarding the nature of the pathology in the family, to then guide the development of an effective treatment plan to fix the pathology in the family.

The concern is that the allied parent is psychologically controlling and manipulating the child into creating a false pathology,

From Barber & Harmon: “Psychological control refers to parental behaviors that are intrusive and manipulative of children’s thoughts, feelings, and attachment to parents. These behaviors appear to be associated with disturbances in the psychoemotional boundaries between the child and parent, and hence with the development of an independent sense of self and identity.” (Barber & Harmon, 2002, p. 15)

From Soenens and Vansteenkiste: “Psychological control can be expressed through a variety of parental tactics, including (a) guilt-induction, which refers to the use of guilt inducing strategies to pressure children to comply with a parental request; (b) contingent love or love withdrawal, where parents make their attention, interest, care, and love contingent upon the children’s attainment of parental standards; (c) instilling anxiety, which refers to the induction of anxiety to make children comply with parental requests; and (d) invalidation of the child’s perspective, which pertains to parental constraining of the child’s spontaneous expression of thoughts and feelings.” (Soenens & Vansteenkiste, 2010, p. 75)

Participation in Child Abuse

One of the prominent professional dangers of misdiagnosing a shared persecutory delusion is that if the mental health professional and/or the Court misdiagnoses the pathology of a shared persecutory delusion and believes the shared delusion as if it was true, then the mental health professional and/or the Court become part of the shared delusion, they become part of the pathology. When that pathology is the psychological abuse of the child by an allied pathological parent, then the mental health professional and/or the Court become participants in the parent’s psychological abuse of the child by validating to the child that the child’s false (delusional) beliefs are true when they are, in fact, symptoms of an induced persecutory delusion.

The Court’s decision-making will be much enhanced by an accurate diagnosis of the problem returned by mental health services BEFORE making custody decisions influenced by the child’s pathology.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.

Clinical Psychologist, CA PSY 18857

Symptom of Parental Alienation/Child Psychological Abuse

When a child decides they never want to see one of their parents again, they might come up with a silly or made-up reason.

It could be a story with little or no real evidence, but somehow it becomes a strong, believable experience in their mind.

This often happens when a child is caught in the middle of a difficult family situation, and their emotions may lead them to create reasons that might not be entirely true.

It’s important for adults involved to understand and address these situations with sensitivity and care, considering the emotional impact on the child and working towards a resolution that benefits everyone involved.

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Touch Starvation – Associated with Narcissist

This was treated like it was normal. Romantic gestures , kisses , hugs , intimacy were not part of marriage . It was deadly to my spirit and my soul , yet I held faith that change would come ..I think I became fearful of what life would be like with 3 small sons .. I learned to pick my battles in an time when there was soooo much going on . Discovering I had been responsible for everything except his day to day work, was daunting …

My body spoke to me when I quit smoking , Xanax covered and smothered my symptoms , as my highly sensitive self became an addict quickly and overdosed which was seen as bipolar ..

Touch was just one weapon in the brutality of a man at war , and is in charge ..

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Charlie Mc Cready – Social Services

It is tragic that social services etc in this case, and so many others, are so concerned about the alienating parent’s mental health, that they sacrifice the child’s and the target parent’s. The child has finally come to a teacher saying they’re afraid to go home, that their parent is ‘trouble’ and yet this isn’t seen as an opportunity for the ‘target’ parent to step in because that will upset the alienating parent. It’s madness. Of course, the child will probably be saying they don’t want to go to the alienated parent’s home because they fear the retribution, and also they’ve been programmed to believe this is not good for them either (for many reasons that have been imprinted on them). It is incredibly sad that this isn’t an opportunity to mend the relationship with the non-abusive parent. Social services try to do their best, but it is based on false information and a child who has been enmeshed, trauma bonded and psychologically abused.

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