Tag: abuse

Cutting Cords

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My cycle with you has ended, I have nothing else to offer you, except more complaints and reproaches product of emotional exhaustion in which I find myself.

I don’t want to continue in a relationship that steals my peace and causes me more anguish than happiness, I realized I had an idea of our relationship that didn’t fit reality, I idealized you, I dreamed you, I granted you attributes that you finally didn’t have.

I gave this relationship a lot of chances because I held on to my good memories and my idea of a future with you.

I let you go and close this chapter.

I understand that love is not demanded and should not be forced, I leave this relationship, to focus on the most important relationship in the world:

The relationship with myself ❤️ 🩹

De la red 👩 💻

Wounded Angel Child

The wounded child inside many males is a boy who, when he first spoke his truths, was silenced by paternal sadism, by a patriarchal world that did not want him to claim his true feelings. The wounded child inside many females is a girl who was taught from early childhood that she must become something other than herself, deny her true feelings, in order to attract and please others. When men and women punish each other for truth telling, we reinforce the notion that lies are better. To be loving we willingly hear the other’s truth, and most important, we affirm the value of truth telling. Lies may make people feel better, but they do not help them to know love. ~bell hooks

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(Art: ‘The Wounded Angel’, 1903 by Hugo Simberg)

Anger

ᴛʜᴇ ᴍᴏꜱᴛ ᴅᴀɴɢᴇʀᴏᴜꜱ ᴀɴɢᴇʀ ɪꜱ ʙᴜɪʟᴛ ɪɴꜱɪᴅᴇ ꜱᴏᴍᴇᴏɴᴇ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴀ ɢᴏᴏᴅ ʜᴇᴀʀᴛ.

🌟 It’s the quiet ones. The helpers. The ones who forgive, again and again.

🌟 It’s the ones who swallow their pain to keep the peace.

🌟 It’s the ones who wear a smile even when their soul is screaming.

But here’s the thing about good hearts: they can only take so much.

💔 That anger? It’s like a ticking time bomb.

💔 It’s the years of being overlooked, dismissed, and hurt.

💔 It’s the silent sacrifices that go unnoticed, unappreciated.

When a good heart finally erupts, it’s not just anger. It’s a volcanic explosion of every betrayal, every heartbreak, every moment of silent suffering.

⚡ Beware the anger of a good heart. It’s not born out of hate, but out of a desperate need to protect what remains.

⚡ It’s a cry for justice, for recognition, for a chance to be heard and healed.

⚡ And when that anger speaks, the world should listen.

So to those who carry this silent rage, know this:

❤️ Your anger is valid.

❤️ Your pain is seen.

❤️ Your voice matters.

Use that anger, not to destroy, but to rebuild. To carve out the respect, the love, the understanding you deserve.

And remember, even a good heart has the right to roar. 🗣️🌿

Words and image © Amanda Weston

Narcissist give subtle hints

Yes , there were hints, which intensified, waxed and waned kinda energy .

It took me a long time to understand that his confidences in sharing his

” friends” experiences were in fact his ..

Prowling , with one of his besties , he talked of cruising the prostitution

are of town..3 months after we married .

His employees crossing the highway for lunch hour paid sex ..

So, yes when I wasn’t viable , he wasn’t available, because it wasn’t his

” job ” .

Expressing the same non interest as his Dad expired or a long period

I began to understand that it was problem with him, and ditto for Mom.

Our sons follow this model, and it’s been heart breaking .. I am worthy

of being cared for .

This Dr’s message was indeed a gift , on this full moon 🌕 Gemini .

Blessings & Peace 🫶🏼

Dona Luna

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