Category: Parential Alienation-Child Abuse

You were trapped. You are being held captive, and you are being abandoned.

Clinical psychology doesn’t want to work with you, your ex- is too dangerous and difficult, clinical psychology has willingly abandoned you and your children to this “special” field of psychology, forensic psychology.

The sentence you will hear from clinical psychology is, “I don’t work with high-conflict divorce.”

Forensic psychology also actively claims you as their own, they own you, and clinical psychology willing abandons you, your families are too difficult, your ex- is too dangerous… “I don’t work with high-conflict divorce.”

I was one of them. Look at my vitae, I wasn’t working with your families, everywhere else, not your families, “I don’t work with high-conflict divorce, you need to see a forensic psychologist.”

We abandon you, even now.

In the outside world, in ADHD, autism, school behavior problems, juvenile justice, you don’t exist, we won’t work with you and your families, you’re too hard, and your ex- is too dangerous, I don’t need it, I don’t work with high-conflict divorce.

The bystander role. The one who should protect, who should see… but doesn’t. Because they don’t want to see. The bystander role in trauma.

When the neighbors down the street disappear, oh well, I’m sure they’ll be okay, wherever they are. The bystander role. I don’t work with high-conflict divorce, you want a forensic psychologist, they’re the “special psychologists” who’ve been assigned to your families.

The forensic psychologists are… deeply problematic.

I’ve read their formal stuff, I see, I know what happened. I fully understand what happened. They separated themselves from clinical psychology in a false and grandiose assertion of their superior “objectivity” – that’s a lie. They were born in a lie, and it led to some bad things.

What followed after was their decent into narcissistic self-indulgence and financial exploitation, and cruelty, an immense absence of empathy leading to incomprehensible and inexcusable cruelty. Their absence of empathy, for you, the parents, is stunning. From the mental health people, an absolutely stunning absence of empathy.

It’s foul. The absence of empathy is the capacity for human cruelty. I’ll bet you feel that cruelty, don’t you. I know. Do you know how I know? Normal human empathy. Your grief and loss, your suffering, is staggering in its immensity, as is their cruelty.

The absence of empathy, the capacity for human cruelty.

The absence of empathy is only associated with two pathologies, narcissistic personality pathology, and psychopathic personality pathology. Autism too, but these people are not autistic.

Absence of empathy, immense cruelty. Grandiosity, they are a “special” field, apart, exempt. Their haughty and arrogant attitude, exploitation, entitlement. Forensic psychology.

An interesting set of characteristics. Seems like I’ve seen that pattern somewhere before.

Clinical psychology, we won’t work with your families, we don’t work with high-conflict divorce. So who does? Who does come over here to work with your families, and why? Why do they come when the rest of us won’t?

They come for the money. That’s the only reason to work with “high-conflict” divorce. They solve nothing, they know that, everyone knows that, that’s why no one wants to work with your families. It’s impossible to solve because of the severity of your ex-‘s pathology, and your ex- is exceedingly dangerous if we cross them – they are too dangerous.

So why would anyone come and work with a pathology that is unsolvable and dangerous? The money.

There are no standards of practice over here. You can simply declare yourself to be a “custody evaluator” or a “reunification therapist” and you’re good to go. Do you need any knowledge or training? No.

I reviewed one vitae for a “custody evaluator” – she was an LCSW, a social worker. No worries on social workers, but they are the least trained of all the mental health people in therapy, their primary training is in social services delivery, and they get just a tad of therapy training. They’re social workers, not psychotherapists.

On her vitae, all the rest of her employment history for ten years and currently was in providing social services to the elderly, making sure they got set up with medical care, food and housing, things like that. And then one entry, “Private Practice: Provide child custody evaluations and parenting coordination with families in high-conflict divorce.”

Everything else in her training and background as a social worker is in providing social services to the elderly, except this. You know what it is, she’s making some extra money on the side off your families. To help make ends meet she’s doing occasional “custody evaluations” and “parenting coordination.” She’s just here for a little extra money.

She’s not here to solve anything. She just meets with you people, reports what everyone says, and then decides whatever she wants and calls it a “custody evaluation.” It’s sealed by the court, that’s it, she pockets her money to supplement her income as a social worker with elderly patients. Easy money. Next.

Financial exploitation. Then you have the full-timers, the big-time financial exploitation – the full-blown custody evaluator, they’ll toss an additional six or eight letters after their name. They’re really special, you can tell.

I’ve worked with several, that was before I knew. I thought they were like normal ethical psychologists, I didn’t appreciate the degree of financial corruption throughout. It’s not just a couple of them… it’s all of them. They know, but they are all doing it, so as long as they are all doing it, it’s okay, right? It’s normal.

Standards 2.04, 2.01. Why has no one diagnosed the persecutory delusion? Why has no one ever brought up Minuchin’s diagram for exactly – exactly – this pathology?

They’re not here to solve anything, they’re here to feed.

For some of them, it’s a emotional feeding on the suffering of the parents, punishing the “bad mommy,” the “abusive man.” These malignant mental health humans self-adopt the delusional role as the “protective therapist” in the false Kabuki theater of the pathogen’s lies.

They collude, they participate, to gratify their own twisted emotional needs. That’s one group.

The other group is simply here to feed financially on the bank accounts of the vulnerable parents. The parents will do anything… pay any price… to restore their healthy and authentic child. That attracts those who come to feed. Easy money.

These mental health people are just piggies at the financial trough of these parents’ bank accounts, $20,000 to $40,000 for a child custody evaluation that is worthless, then there’s the money needed for years of “reunification therapy” (there’s no such thing) that solves nothing – things only get worse.

They don’t care. They’re not here to solve anything. Everyone knows this is impossible to solve. They’re just here for some of that easy money that’s being thrown about. You just have to follow the proper procedures to protect yourself, and it’s golden, easy money. Next.

Who else? No one else. There’s the Gardner people, but they’ve just become a cult of personality around their failed PAS thing and Gardner… let it go… it is a shared persecutory delusion… ICD-10 F24.

That’s it. Forensic psychologists who are feeding off of your suffering while they collude with the child abuse out of a delusional belief that they are the “protective other” for the “abused child” in their own vicarious trauma reenactment.

Or, forensic psychologists who are only here to feed off of the financial bank accounts of vulnerable parents in need of mental health support, they solve nothing but are paid handsomely for their nothing.

And me. I’m not a forensic psychologist, I’m clinical psychology; treatment not custody. I’m not special, I’m just the first. I had to lay out the structure to keep the others safe, the ones who will follow.

Your ex- is dangerous, so are the attorneys, so are the surrounding forensic psychologists.

Forensic psychology threatens the license of clinical psychologists if we work with you, we have to be very careful in what we say. They own you,

If we make any statement about child custody without first doing one of their $20,000 to $40,000 child custody evaluation procedures, we could lose our license. Only they are allowed to have an opinion about child custody… after they conduct one of their $20,000 to $40,000 child custody evaluations.

If we do their “procedure,” though, then we can decide and say whatever we want, there’s no standards for that, we just have to do the “proper procedures,” you know, the ones that cost $20,000 to $40,000 and take a leisurely six to nine-months to complete, with all finances paid in advance, and by court order… you know, those procedures.

Meanwhile, a high-end assessment in clinical psychology for the most complex of multiply overlapping child pathologies costs about $5,000 and takes six to eight weeks to complete.

But forensic psychology can’t seem to bring in their evaluation for less than $20,000 to $40,000 each, and taking six to nine months of continuing untreated pathology as everyone waits for the “custody evaluation” to be completed.

Hmm, I wonder why the cost discrepancy?

I can bring in a clinical psychology assessment for this court-involved attachment pathology to the referral question, “Which parent is the source of pathogenic parenting creating the child’s attachment pathology, and what are the treatment implications?” for around $2,500 and in about six to eight weeks.

And they can’t seem to bring in a child custody evaluation for less that $20,000 to $40,000. And I’ve seen their work product. It’s worthless. Completely worthless.

Just to give you an example of how worthless, Q: Does the child have a shared persecutory delusion with the allied parent directed toward the targeted parent?

They won’t answer that question.

So even at the end of their $20.000 to $40.000 child custody evaluation, we still need another assessment. Holy cow, how worthless is that. We still need an assessment to tell us if there’s a shared persecutory delusion, even after their big, bloated, nine month evaluation.

That is worthless. We still need an assessment. Absolutely pointless. But it sure did make them a pretty penny.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.
Clinical Psychologist, PSY 18857

There is no such thing as a virus.
Erlich and Koch and some others made up the theory in the late 1800s.
All the modern chemical giants were just getting started mid century, around the time that germ theory was taking off.
When people were getting sick and dying from exposure to the new chemical poisons, they needed a way to divert attention. They tried to claim these illnesses were infections, but could find no infectious agent under the microscopes. So they made up viruses.
They were hypothesized to be little tiny bugs too small to see. What is telling is, the word virus means liquid poison.
It was not until the late 1930s that they invented the electron microscope and could see really small things, things the size of small snips of dna floating around in the lab juice. When they found these things they just pointed at them and said, “Ah hah! We’ve found what we were looking for.” Which is ridiculous because they did not know anything at all about what they had just found, what it was, where it came from, what it did.
In order to prepare a specimen for the electron microscope, you have to kill it. So when they are looking at “viruses” they are looking at cellular debris from cells that have been poisoned.
How do they find a virus? They take tissue, blood, or whatever, culture it in a lab, then poison it so the cells die and become just a pile of goo. They then make the electron microscope slide and look at the gunk on the slide. In all that gunk are little snips of dna. And there you have your virus.
A virus is a piece of poisoned, lab grown dna.
When they say, “viral illness” what they mean is poisoning. If you have a viral illness, you have been poisoned and your body is cleaning itself out.
What else besides things we ingest or inject can destroy our cells and make us ill, causing little snips of dna to show up in lab cell cultures? Electromagnetic radiation.
What is more, they are identifying this virus via pcr testing (polymerase chain reaction testing). They are identifying tiny little fragments of the dna code of these snips. They are not sequencing the entire thing in each patient.
So all these people are coming down with illnesses that cause the destruction of their cells and it is being called a viral illness because they find bits of dna in the resultant dead tissues.
They are finding the results of what they do and thinking it is the cause of the illness. They are making people sick, then blaming something they find as a result of their actions.

When I used to speak up for myself, I felt bad about it afterwards.
I would either remain silent, or speak up and experience painful self recrimination.
Most women from my generation were taught to keep our mouths shut and comply.
We were taught to be good, agreeable, and nice.
It’s taken me over five decades to overcome this programming.
Now when someone misunderstands me, I explain myself until they understand.
When someone makes assumptions, I clear it up.
When someone tries to take advantage, I set a boundary.
I speak up.
I use my voice.
I set my boundaries.
I cannot even begin to describe how good this feels, and how powerfully it has impacted my life, my relationships, and my self-esteem.
I think that the dramatic difference in how I show up now versus how I was years ago is the driving force behind my passionate mission to empower other women.
That, and the knowledge of the brilliance, creativity, beauty, and formidable genius that would lie dormant in womankind if it continues to be suppressed.
In what ways do you stand for yourself?
Where do you still have a hard time speaking up?

~ Goddess Oceana

Fate whispers to the warrior, “You cannot withstand the storm.” The warrior whispers back, “I am the storm.”

A storm is coming, a tsunami as a matter of fact. You are the storm.

A cleansing of all the dark places, reaching into all the dark cracks and crevices, the hiding places for the pathogen, the cleansing waters of truth will find the roots of darkness. It cannot hide.

A storm is coming, a flood, a tsunami, an unstoppable force – moms and dads – empowered.

You are more powerful than you know.

Noah was told to build an ark, do you feel the raindrops beginning to fall? A storm is coming, the cleansing waters of truth.

Don’t worry, we’ll be safe when the waters rise, we’re on the high ground, the waves of destruction won’t touch us here, we’re safe. We own the high-ground of the APA ethics code, we own the high ground of the the DSM-5 and ICD-10, we own the high ground of established knowledge, Bowlby, Minuchin, Beck. We’ll be safe.

Because you are the storm.

The pathology held you captive in a “special” field of psychology – forensic psychology – a field of psychology made… just for you – apart – away – in the woods, where no one sees.

We are breaking your captivity, we are returning you to clinical psychology – we treat, we fix pathology, we restore bonds of love, we are returning you and your children to a proper path – treatment.

This is a pathology of lies. We’re done with lies. This is a pathology of professional sloth. We’re done with professional sloth. This is a pathology of exploitation. We’re done with the financial exploitation of vulnerable parents by professional psychology – it stops.

We’re done with abandoning parents to brutal and savage spousal abuse using the child as the weapon, we’re done with abandoning children to devastating and destructive child psychological abuse.

It stops. Now.

You – your children – and the courts – deserve the highest caliber of professional practice, not the lowest.

The world is changing. A storm is coming. You are the storm, speak truth, it’s time, the universe has this, the waters are coming… do you feel the first raindrops?

We own the high-ground, we’ll be safe, no worries.

As for the others, the ones in the cracks and dark burrows, the venomous bugs and crawly things, the foul rats and vermin of ignorance, sloth, and cruelty, the waters flow into the cracks and crevices, into the dark hiding places, the waters find the roots of evil in it’s deepest recesses where it seeks to hide.

There is no hiding from the waters of truth when the storm comes, the tsunami. There is no escape except to the darkness, safety from the flood is only on the high ground – the APA ethics code – DSM-5 & ICD-10 – Bowlby-Minuchin-Beck. We’ll be safe.

My role is not yours. You be kind, always be kind, show your character. It’s time, the universe has this.

We are switching to a treatment path, away from “custody” – away from who “owns the property” – we need to fix things, we need to restore bonds of love and affection.

We’re done with lies. We’re done with “acceptable” ignorance and incompetence, we’re done with the financial exploitation of you, the parents, we’re done with the collusion of professional psychology with child and spousal abuse – we’re done.

We cannot make them change. But the rains, the waters of truth, are coming, a storm is coming, a tsunami. We don’t need to make them change – the waters are coming.

You. You are the storm.

When you fight alone – you are alone – when we fight each for the other, you become an unstoppable force. You simply needed the words-of-truth from professional psychology – empowerment – the diagnosis.

I’m a clinical psychologist – that’s my role.

You’re the mom, you’re the dad – most important role of all… and your coming for your children… a storm is coming.. a force… a tsunami.

Turn your face to the sky, feel the raindrops starting to fall.

You are more powerful than you know, when you come together, each for the other, and for those who follow after, you become an unstoppable force of change. You’re dads, you’re moms – separated from your children.

What is more powerful than that? You just needed the proper path – treatment – not custody – knowledge – not ignorance.

A storm is coming, a tsunami, an unstoppable force.

You.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.
Clinical Psychologist, PSY 18857