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Craig Childress, PsyD – Resume

I’ve got my new three licenses business card. Notice you’re third on the list of what I do.

Top of this list is early childhood ages zero-to-five. Then comes ADHD and grumpy angry kids. Then you in the family courts, then adults on personal growth issues.

Now that I have my WA license I’m going to go around the the local preschools to make them aware I’m here. I’m going to offer free consultation to preschools and parents of wee-ones on any domain of concern.

You’re paying for it. I’ll make my money off of you as a consultant in the family courts – that way I can offer free consults to preschools and parents of wee-ones.

Chalk it up to your karma – good job – you’ll be helping the little ones get a healthy start.

Then I’m going to open up an ADHD grumpy-kid practice online in three states, the Pacific coast of CA, OR, and WA. I use a parent-training consultation model with ADHD and ODD (there’s no such thing), which fits well with an Internet mediated service delivery in the states I’m licensed.

Then… I’ll post foundational seminars to YouTube on the diagnosis and treatment of ADHD and grumpy-angry kids – and – on parenting early childhood kids with challenging stuff (autism spectrum and emotional regulation problems).

I’ll bill for the ADHD clients ’cause that’s something entirely separate. Working with the wee-ones is for me, I like the little guys. Solving ADHD is for you guys.

The adult section of my practice is going to expand into death and dying. I’ve worked within that domain in the past with cancer kids at Children’s Hospitals – except they didn’t die because they have good doctors at Children’s Hospitals.

But death and dying is always within a zone of consideration whenever cancer is the diagnosis. When I entered private practice I joined a practice with another cancer psychologist in Pasadena. He worked with adult cancer patients, and I worked with kid cancer patients and their families.

I also have some background in geriatrics. When I entered private practice I checked out the two pathologies I’d never worked with – family court custody conflict and geriatrics. I’ve worked with everything else.

I got a job going to various “assisted care” facilities to assess and treat mental health issues there. THAT is depressing work. I don’t want to work geriatrics like that.

The old are our abandoned. No one sees, no one comes, they are alone. Whoa. Of the two, you needed me more. You have active child abuse (and spousal abuse) undiagnosed and untreated. Child abuse and attachment trauma is my pathology.

So I came to the family courts and fixed things here. There was a lot of fixing to do – you had (have) broken systems. Bad things were (are) happening… by the psychologists.

They are in the “betrayer” role in trauma – the one who should protect… and doesn’t. Oh my… patients should NEVER need to explain the pathology to the doctor. You need to explain the pathology to your doctors.

That’s so bad. So I did things. Now those things are evolving into solutions to fix the broken systems. Once the systems are fixed… you won’t need me anymore.

Hooray! A good clinical psychologist is always working themselves our of a job. For ADHD, for example, I want to fix your problem in six to twelve weeks – of consultation – six to twelve weeks is roughly how long I need to teach parents how to do the relationship based treatment… to fix things.

Less time for the grumpy-angry kids. Holy cow, “Oppositional Defiant Disorder” is such an easy fix – four to six weeks of consultation (then occasionally as-needed).

Do you know what’s easier to fix than ODD (grumpy-angry)? Attachment pathology. With a cooperative parent, I’d anticipate two to six weeks for substantial gain, and twelve weeks for full resolution.

The problem with attachment pathology out in the wild is that we don’t have a cooperative parent. We have a substance abusing parent or a narcissistic-dark parent. Then it becomes a child protection issue and we have to fix the attachment damage in other ways.

I’m a full scope clinical psychologist. I can seriously answer your questions on anything clinical psychology. Anything. Without looking it up, it’s all in my head.

That’s because I’m an old clinical psychologist – it’s the old part.

Now I’m an old-guy too, and I’m specialty trained in humanistic-existential therapy. I figure I can help other old folks along the Pacific coast where I’m licensed via the Internet.

Death and dying makes people uncomfortable, not me. I suspect I can help with transitions.

So individual adults are number four on my list of to-do.

You’re fixed. The moment you want to solve things – you solve things. As long as you don’t want to solve things – you won’t solve things.

It’s a motivational pathology. I’m working on that. We should be transitioning soon. Wheee…

Into complete destruction… then out into a full solution.

If you want to know what’s coming, look where Dr. Childress is positioning himself. I don’t live in today because today keeps vanishing. I live and work in tomorrow, because tomorrow keeps arriving, which makes my life now so much easier.

Oh look, the Petition to the APA just arrived – five years (minus two years for Covid), my estimates are pretty precise.

In five years I’ll be leaving not arriving. This next phase is building out my online presence in ADHD and Early Childhood, and I’ll finish my Diagnosis book and a second edition of Foundations.

Journal articles are in the works. It’s time now.

You know what happens when I have three licenses across the Pacific Coast, right? You have read the ancient prophesies about the Kraken that I’m just now making up, right?

Never mind, it’s too late for you to learn now. Just wait, it’ll all unfold in the calculational lines of the ruliad for observers like us.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.

Clinical Psychologist

WA 61538481

OR 3942 – CA 18857

Adverse Childhood Experiences-Charlie McCready

Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) are potentially traumatic events from 0 to 17. The original study in 1998 identified seven categories of ACEs, including physical and emotional abuse, neglect, parental substance abuse, parental mental illness, domestic violence, and having an incarcerated parent. These experiences were found to have lasting and profound impacts on mental health, physical well-being, and overall development. The research found that children who experienced four or more ACEs were 12 times more likely to suffer from alcoholism, depression, drug abuse, and suicide attempts. Subsequent research expanded the list of ACEs to include parental separation/divorce due to the recognised adverse effects it has on children’s well-being.⁠

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Parental alienation, a form of emotional abuse, usually following parental separation/divorce, usually involves at least these two ACEs. The attachment system, vital for forming bonds between children and parents, is severely impacted by parental alienation. It can lead to persistent fear and stress. The complete severance of a parent-child bond constitutes psychological abuse and damages this attachment system. Addressing parental alienation is imperative to safeguard children from the lasting trauma it inflicts.⁠

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Those who have faced ACEs are not alone. It’s estimated that 1 in 6 adults experienced as many as 4 ACEs before they turned 18. Support can be found through trauma-focused therapy, support groups, self-care, exercise, healthy living, but there is an urgent need for greater awareness about the problem of parental alienation and training for mental health and legal professionals working with separating families so that there is early detection and intervention. Let us collectively work towards a world where children can thrive, breaking the cycle of ACEs and creating a nurturing environment that fosters their potential and well-being.⁠

#charliemccready

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#childpsychologicalabuse

#narcissisticparent

#parentalalienationawareness

#FamilyCourt

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#ChildCustody

Weaponized Alienated Children

To all those engaged in safeguarding the well-being of children, it is crucial to recognise and address the deeply troubling phenomenon of weaponised, alienated children. This behaviour is far from natural; it results from a manufactured conflict that transforms innocent children into emotional weapons aimed at a parent they have loved and would still love. Family courts and mental health professionals must grasp the gravity of this situation.⁠

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Imagine a scenario where an alienating parent loads a figurative gun and instructs their child on how to aim and pull the trigger against the other parent, a parent who loves them deeply. This shocking analogy draws attention to the psychological abuse and domestic violence within the dynamics of parental alienation. Just as a loaded gun can inflict physical harm, an alienated child, driven by coercive control, fear and confusion, can cause immense emotional and psychological damage to the targeted parent.⁠

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This situation is akin to a psychological war waged against a loving parent. The tactics employed by the alienating parent distort the child’s perceptions, turning them into unwitting participants in this emotional conflict. The consequences are profound and far-reaching. The targeted parent is hurt by the betrayal, the severed bond, and the false accusations, but the child also suffers grievously.⁠

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Family courts and mental health professionals must be equipped to recognise the signs of this weaponised behaviour. A child who acts like a loaded gun demonstrates the results of insidious manipulation. This destructive behaviour should not be trivialised or ignored. Instead, it requires urgent intervention to dismantle the psychological weaponry and to restore the child’s emotional well-being.⁠

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By acknowledging and addressing the gravity of weaponised alienation, we can work toward protecting the targeted parent’s and child’s mental and emotional health. We need to look at who is loading the gun and teaching their child to fire it, as well as educate them so they know the harm they are causing. We can then hope to rebuild healthy relationships and create an environment where the child can flourish without being caught in the crossfire of adult conflicts.

#charliemccready

#parentalalienationcoach

#alienatedchild

#childpsychologicalabuse

#CoerciveControl

#parentalalienation

#FamilyCourt

#custody

#mothersmatter

#FathersMatterToo

#FathersMatter

#ChildCustody

#narcissisticabuseawareness

#traumabond

#parentalalienationawareness

#mothersrights

#FathersRights

#narcissisticparent

#FamilyCourtReform

#attachmenttheory

#custodybattle

Eclipse Energy Report

This eclipse season marks a crossroad and a divine opportunity to shed your story all that is not authentic and in true alliance with truth both on a personal and a collective level. The new earth has shifted into her new orbital dimensional octave and thus you may feel disorientated and no longer being able to make sense of your self.

In other words you may feel an alienation to your old self and to those who you previously felt aligned with vibrationally because those that have done and are in the process of the inner work of shedding their story are literally in a sort of death process and are or have already now shifted to a higher octave that is attuned and aligned with your christed source essence, through which your human persona is dissolved.

This can be a gradual process or an abrupt shift, that can be a shock to your human self. In other words you may loose the sense of self and all the conditioning that kept you trapped in the mind construct hollowgram of who you thought you were.

The photonic light coming through this eclipse window is dismantling every bit of you that is out of tune with your soul’s essence. Because the incoming source light is not coherent vibrationally with duality mindset beliefs or imprints, that have previously distorted or disabled your ability to see thru the veil of deception. The veils of deception are dissolving and with it the mind trap of distortion of separation and of perception of time.

This may cause a sense of loosing controle, as your sense of self is dissolving. You might feel disorientated and in no man’s land and truly that is not just a temporary transitional space you are moving thru as you navigate thru this death portal that is designed for you to shed all that kept you in separation from your source origin and all the expressions of god that you “have been” and are living as your multidimenional self in the time/space continium in order to transcend the polarity and matrix of 3D. This sense of nothing-ness is the divine space of grace that you will embace and perceive once your human self let go.

Your human self may struggle and fight for it’s “life” and refuse to surrender to this death process for it is making no sense of being a no one but actually this no one or sense of being nothing is the very essence of your source self where you have transcended the construct of an individualised separate self.

A deep sadness may surface and be felt these coming weeks, this is the remnants and ancient memory stored within your cells of the “downfall from grace” which you experienced milleniums ago dating back to the times of the downfall of Atlantis and Lemuria, which are surfacing right now as well as other time lines where you experienced death and/or separation from god. This time on you have the opportunity to exit the death loop karmic wheel and unite with god as a living soul in embodiment. This has never happened before and this is indeed the very purpose of why you came here. To be the living christ in the flesh. To transcend the illusion from time and death which is the fundamental construct of the 3rd dimension. Bc of the timeline collapse you may go thru a timeline review which is caused by the dissolving of the mind construct of time that allows you to feel, sense and perceive every part of you is co-existing side by side in this time space continium on different frequency bandwidths.

Once you surrender completely and allow for this death process to kick in and take you “over” you cross the separation veil, which have kept you separate from your very source and true essence of divine love. In other words you reconnect with source and all your expressions of your parallel higher dimensional expressions which aligns and attunes you to your angelic and galactic blueprint..

You will suddenly realise, that the veil of maya is only a mind construct that is a fatamorgana hollow construct that is only held intact through your mind and in the coherent frequency bandwidth on which it vibrates which was set in place to hold you imprisoned in the mind prison of separation.

Now this eclipse window is a resurrection ascension gateway designed to usher you through the eye of the needle which peaks or should I say bursts at the upcoming solar eclipse on March 29th. It is an unplugging from the old frequency bandwidth of the old earth. The old earth matrix has already separated from the new earth likened to a snake shedding its skin so thus the feeling of depresion or anxiety, that many are feeling is caused bc your body and mind is in opposition to surrender and dissolve to give way for source energy to take up full occupancy of your body and god omnipresence to merge into being within your human vessel. When I merged with the elohim and solar logoi years ago I had the sense of falling which ignited deep fear of loosing controle but as I let go I instantly felt like I was floating in space spiraling in oneness with source of all that is and I felt a profound uplifting onto a higher vibrational octave of divine grace and rapture, which is our naturel state of being and home band frequency.

As you are letting go of the 3D mind construct that your body has vibrated on and been constricted to you may feel all sorts of physical symptoms as your physical body and cells are releasing the mind constriction of your body as a limited space of 3D density that you were trapped in.

So now this body construct is being dismantled thru the higher photonic light pouring in from the cosmos and turning your body into a more fluid state. Your cells are turning crystaline and density in your very bones is being alchemized by the galactic plasma and this process can be painful and causing distress as it decompresses into liquid plasma and starts to vibrate on higher octaves of light.

The affects of polarity that is still in place in the frequency bandwidth of 3D will only impact you to the extent that you allow it. Thus engaging in lower frequencies of us/versus them mindset will only create turmoil both physically, mentally and emotionally. Refrain from engaging in 3D lower timelines and those who vibrate on and engage in this realm for it will create attachments and prevent you from fully embodying christ consciouss with source. There is currently a lot of distractions set in place thru psyops to create drama and division.

The division has never been greater and will increase until the tipping point of the collective quantum shift. The best way you can assist in accelerating this is to detach from engaging in the us/versus them scenarious. Keep heart centered in 0-point neutrality. Trust the divine plan though nothing may make sense, you cannot figure out exactly what is going on and being played out on the world stage and there is no point of trying to make sense of it bc in truth nothing is as it seems. Find solace and peace within your sacred heart and breathe moment to moment and allow everything to unfold in divine grace. You are not missing out on anything. Trust the divine order and orchestration of the divine plan to unfold.

Embrace all that is being ripped apart all that is brought to the surface right now to be embraced, witnessed and let go off. The inner most core wounds of your human self is being displayed and expossed in the coming weeks thru this eclipse gateway for the resurrection into christ consciousness.

Time to get naked to love, to throw in the towel and surrender.

You got this. God in you is in charge.

Amma Grace ❤️