I regret what was the reality for our sons
Tag: survivors
Narcissist never let you go
Dental Infections & Cancer
100% increased child abuse with a step parent
I’ve heard too many examples of this myself
Child denied help ; fear=anxiety / NO Safety
Craig Childress PsyD Ready
Here I come. It’s time.
I didn’t do a Coffee talk yesterday because the universe grabbed me and sat me down for the day – I slept all day.
I had work to do, I had a report to finish, and I slept all day because the universe said… sleep.
My dreams are odd these days. I don’t visually dream anymore, I think in a different way. I thought in dream-thoughts yesterday. It’s helpful to understanding things.
I’ll be doing my Coffee talk in a moment. It will be Point 0 on an emerging Line that’s been emerging the entire time.
I’m going to enter the Line and give it life.
I tried to bring our two realities as close as I could in Phase 1 before we entered Phase 2. We’re entering Phase 2 now, so this is as close as the realities get before… it’s just a jump.
Jumps are disruptive. Jumps cause splashes of turbulence. It’s best if we only make small jumps, or even steps (little jumps) in understanding to action.
It remains a pretty big jump from one reality to the coming reality. There will be a significant splash when the rock hits the water. The time for educating you is over. It’s now time to educate them… but that’s not in the plan.
If I have to educate them… they are not competent (violation to 2.01) by demonstrated need to be educated by me.
It’s a double-bind. They can’t remain ignorant (lack of knowledge or information), and they can’t become educated without admitting their prior ignorance that needs to now become educated.
And I’ll be educating them, which means I know and they don’t – acknowledged by their need to be educated by me.
Or they can remain ignorant and I will go after their license for their negligent ignorance and incompetence – violations to Standards 2.04 and 2.01.
They can’t remain where they are – ignorant. They can’t change to become educated without admitting their ignorance.
They can’t change to a clinical diagnostic assessment (the application of the DSM-5) without admitting that their quasi-judicial role for doctors was a complete failure.
We’re not going back to the made-up pathology of PAS. Nor are we remaining with forensic custody evaluations that are a demonstrated failure.
We are returning to established knowledge and established professional practices – diagnosis guides treatment – the diagnostic systems are the DSM-5/ICD-11 of the American Psychiatric Association and World Health Organization.
I’m coming out now. They will – for a fact – have to deal with Dr. Childress. Ignoring Dr. Childress is not going to be an option. I still have plenty of things left to do to turn up the heat on them.
The change back to the DSM-5 is coming – fact. Compliance with the APA ethics code is coming – fact.
I’m here – I’m visible – and I’m both.
If nothing else, they will need to testify in support of their reports and I’ll have them for cross-examination. I’ll also have them in my line-by-line reviews of their reports. No escape, I’m in the courts.
They will be unable to ignore Dr. Childress.
But they can’t engage with the information because the information will destroy them. It’s a double-bind.
What’s going to happen? They will be destroyed.
That’s linear-logical reasoning – if they can’t avoid me and I’m their destruction – then they will be destroyed in their careers.
I’m coming for them. It’s time. I am released.
You parents don’t understand yet because you’re as crazy as they are. Watch.
Craig Childress, Psy.D.
Clinical Psychologist, CA PSY 18857
Low emotional intelligence in partner causes disease
Self deception
Self-deception is what keeps us in some relationships.
We bury our gut feelings in overthinking. We want a relationship to work so badly we ignore red flags and justify hurtful behaviors. We hope for a specific answer, so we ignore the answer we get.
We keep asking for clarity because we can’t accept the clarity toxic behaviors give us. We find excuses for the most apparent
neglect.
We hope for change, we hope to be chosen, we hope to finally be seen-so we wait, we stay, no matter how much it hurts.
We forget that the answers we’re looking for don’t hide in a fleeting thought or a feeling, chemistry or intensity, not even in the connection we feel.
Answers lay in behaviors, in the way we are treated.

Gut Brain Barrier
Yep 👍 news to me , but I took way too many prescriptions of antibiotics in marriage ….
Quality of Mom’s happiness has most effects on baby/child thriving
I had to consider my Mom , who was someone I tried to avoid due to her moods and distance …
Sad 😢
