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Detachment from Narcissist

After awhile, you start not to care about the narcissist. The constant drama, the endless manipulation, the exhausting games – it all becomes too much to bear. You reach a point where you’re numb to their antics, indifferent to their needs, and unresponsive to their provocations.

The spell is broken, and you see them for what they truly are: a master manipulator, a skilled deceiver, and a heartless exploiter. You realize that their behavior is not about you, but about their own insecurities, their own fears, and their own desperate need for control.

You start to detach, to let go of the emotional investment you once had in the relationship. You stop trying to fix them, stop trying to please them, and stop trying to understand them. You accept that they are who they are, and that they will never change.

With detachment comes freedom. You’re no longer held hostage by their whims, no longer trapped in their web of deceit. You’re free to live your life, to pursue your own interests, and to cultivate meaningful relationships with others.

You start to care about yourself, to prioritize your own needs, and to nurture your own well-being. You rediscover your own identity, your own values, and your own sense of purpose. You emerge from the toxic fog of the narcissist’s world, blinking in the bright light of your own liberation.

And when the narcissist tries to reel you back in, to manipulate you once more, you’re immune. You see through their tactics, you resist their charms, and you maintain your distance. You know that you deserve better, that you’re worth more, and that you’ll never again surrender to their toxic grasp.

The Stranger I love – Movie release on Parental Alienation / Charlie McCready

One week until Theresa Godly’s The Stranger I Love, a short film about parental alienation, screens at the Sussex International Film Festival, where it is nominated for Best UK Short Film. Please get tickets or support however you can.

Here are links to the Crowdfunder and to buy tickets for 15th November at the Sussex Film Festival -The Stranger I Love is screening at 16:30.

[https://www.crowdfunder.co.uk/p/tsil-festivals-marketing](https://www.crowdfunder.co.uk/p/tsil-festivals-marketing)

[https://hailshampavilion.co.uk/…/siff-finalists-screening/](https://hailshampavilion.co.uk/…/siff-finalists-screening/)

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The Stranger by Albert Camus / Charlie McCready

From The Stranger by Albert Camus:

“In the midst of hate, I found there was, within me, an invincible love.

In the midst of tears, I found there was, within me, an invincible smile.

In the midst of chaos, I found there was, within me, an invincible calm.

I realized, through it all, that…

In the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer.”

Of course, some days are darker than others but always look to find that invincible summer inside of you. Every day.

It is painful to experience the parental alienator not acting in the best interests of our children which is to have both loving, available parents in their lives. But know yourself as a good, mentally healthy and strong parent. Not quitting, not rolling over, not letting this experience destroy you. And you are going through this with so many other wonderful, good, loving parents, people who love so much they feel the grief very profoundly. But feel happy too. You absolutely deserve it.

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Full Moon Taurus – Open to Receive

To The Ascension LightWorker Collective

The last supermoon of 2024 will occur on November 15, appearing up to 14% bigger and 30% brighter than a normal moon , it is in the sign of Taurus it will emphasise themes of stability in the physical world, making it a significant and powerful celestial event to prepare for. The super full moon in Taurus will amplify energies related to abundance, income, Self stability, sensuality, self love , self respect .

This full moon presents an opportunity to engage in all the senses, to feel grounded, and appreciate the wonders of the world .This super moon is ruled by the planet Venus ,Taurus energies remind us that our earthly existence is a miraculous and unfolding journey. It encourages the ascending to center the self in the sacred heart space , acknowledging inner strength, and recognising that self holds the power to manifest to greater potential.

During this time it will be about identifying and evaluating existing comfort zones, which may hinder self’s growth despite offering a false sense of safety. The ascending are acknowledging and releasing attachments that may possibly be holding them back, expanding into earths transformational changes, taking some big leaps of faith into the unknown and developing a much stronger inner resistance .

The full Moon in Taurus is a time to reflect on existing attachments to comfort zones, which hinders rather than nurtures self growth. These comfort zones can manifest as people, places, or things such as jobs, relationships, or places of residence that hold us back due to familiarity.

This full moon is encouraging the Ascending to step out of these particular holding zones to enhance inner creativity , face existing fears , strengthen inner reliance and self-trust. Recognising selfs own power to navigate any path and build the desired and vibrationally aligned life that is desired.

Trusting in selfs abilities and understanding of what is truly worthy of time and energy , possessing the necessary tools to shape the desired life empowers the ascending to venture into the unknown with a greater sense of confidence.

As the energy of this super full moon illuminates our path, it highlights the beauty and magnificence of the soul’s true essence enhancing inner resiliency and creativity power. By connecting deeply within the human body and senses, navigating this transformational planetary phase with higher conscious awareness, mindfulness, expanding in the present moment and releasing fears that inhibit inner progress.

The energy of this full moon will urge many to explore the depths of the inner being, realising self’s capacity to navigate life’s uncertainties while staying true and centred .

It is highly beneficial on the Ascension path to allocate some quality time alone in nature, as this practice possesses the remarkable ability to bring in a deeper sense of inner peace . Engaging in activities near bodies of water and absorbing energies in the sunlight offer a revitalising energy boost. Prioritising self-care transcends beyond the physical well-being, acknowledging the significance of harmonising and balancing self-ascension with intellectual pursuits and maintaining Self’s physical health is equally important .

The November 15 supermoon in Taurus carries with it a sense of stability, practicality, and resilience for the ascending This powerful lunar event will emphasise themes related to home, security, and personal resources. It can be a time to focus on grounding in new earth energies , establishing a sense of security from within , and nurturing loving connections and relationships with loved ones.

This supermoon in Taurus will highlight the importance of balancing practicality with emotional needs. It is time to reassess life matters, investments, and long-term goals. Embracing the Taurean qualities of patience, determination, and self-reliance this helps the ascending to navigate any challenges or changes that arise during this planetary Lunar phase .

The November supermoon in Taurus offers Ascending individuals opportunities to connect with their inner strength, core values, and sense of abundance. It will inspire a deeper appreciation for the comforts of home, nature, and the simple but meaningful pleasures in life.

The ascending collective in this super Moon in Taurus ruled by loving Venus are opening their higher heart chakra , reminding the Ascending that it is now a safe time to be authentically true . This moon activates an ancient memory and a future responsibility that were placed deep within each Starseed before coming into this world.

In different stages of the Ascension process the most challenging aspect can be coming to terms with the idea of shedding the person the self once believed it had to become.

Ascension revolves around liberating the limited self from the burden of expectations, the relentless pressure to conform to certain standards, and the weight of striving for perceived perfection. This journey of healing and self-discovery involves releasing the shackles of societal norms and personal demands that may have dictated self’s sense of identity for so long.

By letting go of these assumed roles and learned behaviours, self creates space to authentically explore who the self truly is beneath the layers of expectations. It is a process of unraveling the masks worn to fit in or meet others’ expectations and standards, allowing the genuine self to emerge. In this process, realisations that Self is inherently worthy and enough just as self is , without needing to conform to external ideals or constantly seek validation from others.

This loving supermoon in Taurus is highlighting the true self , it is activating the inherent worthiness and this is a profound act of self-love and self compassion. It involves recognising the beauty and uniqueness that exists within , independent of societal constructs or fleeting notions of perfection. By acknowledging self’s inherent value and expanding in authenticity, higher self paves the way for clearer direction deeper healing and inner peace.

Ultimately, the journey of true self exploration allows for a truthful existence , honouring self’s unique journey, this creates a deeper sense of self awareness into self-worth and this comes from within.

Remaining ascension focused, and true to the metamorphosis in self . Taurus energies amplify this supermoon’s frequencies to manifest soul desires and enhance their sense of security and well-being. by finding stillness, gratitude, exploring the unknown, and releasing any fears that hinder conscious progress. Trusting in higher self’s ability to intuitively guide the conscious self into heightened awareness and ascension evolution .

Allowing the energy of this last super full Moon in 2024 to guide the ascending self into higher conscious timelines , illuminating inner strength, perseverance, and highlighting existing abilities to shape a new earth desired future .

In Loving and Devoted Ascension Service

By Ascension Lightworkers ©️

Relationships – Divine Timing

Relationship Paradigm Shift Occuring

What is imperative to understand from now on and in the next ten years leading up and into 2032, is that there is a huge shift now, into the wholeness.

I experience this every time I do a relationship reading now, just how deep this change of dimension is affecting our relationships. This is a paradigm shift in the highest degrees – which will now intensify!

When I mention WHOLENESS, it means wholeness within!

WHOLINESS.

The deep sacred union of the Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine within.

This is where the most sacred of union lies. Within. Not so much without.

This has a profound effect on the whole.

So many are still seeking desperately for the ONE AND ONLY who will fulfill them, make the whole. Who will bring that happiness that they so seek. Yet this is in truth illusion.

For the ONE AND ONLY is already there within you!

It is an intense shift here: it means that we now are healing so deeply within that we finally learn to take full responsibility for our own inner happiness, our own wholeness, and living life fully soul empowered from within.

For the 5th dimensional state and the 7th, brings a totally new way of loving to the fore, and in the context of loving relationships, this means that there will be no marriages anymore, nor marriage contracts, for these are old manmade things, which do not apply in the rest of the Universe nor creation.

Every soul is sovereign, and every soul is a true Son and true Daughter of the Prime Creator.

You cannot belong to another soul. It is impossible. You can only stand fully empowered in your own light.

What this means is that when we choose to walk a path of love with another soul, we will give them the freedom to be simply themselves.

We are so soul-empowered from within that whether they are in our lives or not, we will still be happy and content, as we are responsible for our own happiness and not expect them to make us happy.

This brings transcendental love, love with great tenderness, where we do not place restrictions on each other, but encourage the other to shine in their uniqueness, in their soul glory, as we do as well.

So many souls will find that they finally in the New Golden Age, should they choose to ascend, now can be with their true Twin Flames again, as so many never had their Twin Flames incarnate on earth.

As these Twin Flame were of a much higher dimension than on earth, they could only reunite in their sleep state, although the twin was always with them, as higher guide.

As we now take on our new Light bodies, we will be able to interact with the Universal Intergalactic Races again, and they can walk amongst us, without the danger of us disintegrating or not being able to see them because they are of a much higher dimensional embodiment.

Therefore, understand that every soul has its own choices to make now.

If you wish to ascend, then know the current partner may choose not to.

That is perfectly ok. IN their own time and space, they can choose when and where they wish to do so, or not.

Many will choose not to ascend and that is ok.

No soul is ever lost for the Prime Creator is within them too, as much as within you.

Give them the freedom to make their own choice. You cannot piggyback them into the New Earth, no matter how much you try to.

You can love someone dearly and wholly, without needing to attach.

Indeed, the greatest of all love gives the other the freedom to be. To make their own choices, with the full knowing, that love is eternal.

One does not need to be in the same place, in order to love.

The new relationships in the New Earth will be a SOUL merger.

It is a totally whole new way of relating which is opening up, and it is transcendental.

We do not have anything like it as yet on earth, yet our soul has always remembered, and this is why we always searched for such a loving relationship on earth and yet never found it.

Some may have a glimpse of it, even now – but it is still a glimpse.

I am experiencing this now, how cosmic love, true love is divinely on such a level, which defies words nor description. More than this I will not say, for words fail me and this is not on earthly levels.

This is awaiting us.

But first the total shift needs to occur within us.

And that is find the (w)holiness within us and shifting fully into the 5th and 7th dimensional state, and we will indeed find that it goes way beyond anything physical, and into the realms of purity and true love, we simply could not access in the third dimension.

So do the inner preparation work and become whole and complete within and allow the sacred union between the Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine within to occur and then concentrate on the ascension pathways, and as you are ready, the path will open.

This is one reason why one cannot predict at this moment whom you will be with in the future.

For the future indeed is already manifesting in the here and now within you, and your own choices of whether to stay in the Old Earth or whether to fully ascend into the new.

And even if you make such choices, if your partner or the person you are interested in or see as potential partner, may not choose the same option.

Do your own inner work and allow the miracle to unfold in perfect Divine timing and far greater than you can even think of or dream of right now!

~ Judith Kusel

Art: Carlos Alberto Quintero

Charlie McCready – worse after visits with Alienator parent

It’s almost as if when they’ve spent time with a toxic, alienating parent (or other), they become contaminated. It can even be a phone call or a five-minute visit. The toxicity is that strong! You might notice an increased contempt or disrespect. I always feel it’s like they’ve plugged into the source of negativity and there’s a boost of activity. Have you noticed something similar?

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Cherokee Women – It’s a cellular memory within me . To stand .

In Cherokee culture, women held significant positions and enjoyed certain privileges and responsibilities.Women in Cherokee society were considered equals to men and could earn the title of War Women. They had the right to participate in councils and make decisions alongside men. This equality sometimes led outsiders to make derogatory remarks, such as the accusation of a “petticoat government” by the Irish trader Adair.

Clan kinship was matrilineal among the Cherokee, meaning that family lineage and inheritance were traced through the mother’s side. Children grew up in their mother’s house, and maternal uncles held the role of teaching boys essential skills related to hunting, fishing, and tribal duties.

Women owned houses and their furnishings, and marriages were often negotiated. In the event of a divorce, a woman would simply place her spouse’s belongings outside the house. Cherokee women had diverse responsibilities, including caring for children, cooking, tanning skins, weaving baskets, and cultivating fields. Men contributed to some household chores but primarily focused on hunting.

Cherokee girls learned various skills by observing and participating in their community. They learned story, dancing, and acquired knowledge about their heritage. Women were integral to the Cherokee society, and their roles played a central part in the community’s functioning and adaptation to changing circumstances.