Category: Parential Alienation-Child Abuse

BabyCries

The education I received , perhaps through Dr Spock was to allow baby cry up to 15 minutes . I am not sure if I allowed 15 minutes but I disregarded my gut too much with regard to our sons. If I asked , the Dr etc he trusted my intuition and he was misinformed through his education which has been lacking in authentic knowledge . And allowing for new information, growth and change that are fact .

Another news flash for me was the universal cry sounds of babies that are specific .

I felt I had way too much to do ,being responsible and pleasing others to sit with my infant in my arms but I talked to them , acknowledged them as our family grew . I had few outlets ; walking was therapeutic but waxed and waned .

I am sure I was not held for my Mom was never demonstrative , tender or nurturing in my memories . I have knowledge of whys she may have been with holding and marriage to that same energy within a sacred union with children involved was devastating.

Their love was so healing and highlighted the lacks of love by others especially their Dad .

And he weaponized that love to advantage himself .

I enjoy sacred hugs but am touched by many in my life without physical contact .

I feel held

I feel supported

I feel loved 🥰

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NeverEnding Owing to the Narcissist

When you decide to end things with the narcissist, they view this as direct confrontation.

They might contact your employer or the people in your church, or they may saturate your circle of friends so they can cut you off at the pass.

Now that they can’t control you, their main focus is changing how other people perceive you, and this can include your own children. They will do everything in their power to take you down and destroy your life.

This is when they will start their mission of sabotage on steroids. They’ll ramp up their smear campaign against you (which has already been going on a while behind your back), push all your button to make you seem crazy, and sabotage your career, your hobbies, and your friendships.

You are now their mortal enemy. No ending things civilly or diplomatically. No chance of staying (true) friends. They might pretend they’re going to be flexible and friendly about it, but prepare yourself…because they are planning your ultimate annihilation.

But, you can still walk away powerfully. Don’t fall for their tricks or lies.

Kim 🕊️