NeverEnding Owing to the Narcissist

When you decide to end things with the narcissist, they view this as direct confrontation.

They might contact your employer or the people in your church, or they may saturate your circle of friends so they can cut you off at the pass.

Now that they can’t control you, their main focus is changing how other people perceive you, and this can include your own children. They will do everything in their power to take you down and destroy your life.

This is when they will start their mission of sabotage on steroids. They’ll ramp up their smear campaign against you (which has already been going on a while behind your back), push all your button to make you seem crazy, and sabotage your career, your hobbies, and your friendships.

You are now their mortal enemy. No ending things civilly or diplomatically. No chance of staying (true) friends. They might pretend they’re going to be flexible and friendly about it, but prepare yourself…because they are planning your ultimate annihilation.

But, you can still walk away powerfully. Don’t fall for their tricks or lies.

Kim 🕊️

Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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