Category: Parential Alienation-Child Abuse

Aging Narcissist

The ugly truth …

Ageing is a nightmare for a narcissist because they’ve fabricated, over the years, a false personality based on a sense of superiority. They need followers, attention, adoration, and validation which feeds the dark void of their deepest selves where they believe themselves worthless. The shame and self-loathing are hidden behind the grandiosity of the false self. As they age, they don’t get better at accepting criticism, and their need and reliance on external validation doesn’t alleviate either. Alienating parents get a lot of validation and support from their children, but this source, unlike them, grows up, and (hopefully) becomes independent. They can become incredibly bitter. They can also become lonely as many friends might have had enough of them by now. Alienators/narcissists like to control situations, but they can’t control time and the ageing process.

Please see more of my posts on Instagram. I post them there first, two or three a day. They’re there to spread awareness about parental alienation, to inform and to uplift. I hope they help.

https://www.instagram.com/charliemccready1/

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Shadow Confessions Coming

By Rick Jewers

UPDATE

To effect more of the advancing timelines, and to commence shortly, a confession theme by those remnants of darkness in higher places of their old power regime.

Voluntarily, confessions will be publicly proclaimed by these individuals that facilitate further rapid destruction of the 4D timeline, catapulting further and rapid Awakening and preparation for the New Reality. These confessions will primarily come from the political and financial sectors of the old power regime.

Shortly after confession, these certain individuals will vanish from the timeline through natural circumstances, leaving an unprecedented level of Truth disclosed to the Ascending timeline and to the appropriate 6 billion Souls advancing forward.

There is no redemption for the darkness and not the choice to disobey an Omnipotent order, therefore, they must reveal themselves and ill intent, to clear the slate and open the door to see for the Souls of Light to go forward. There is no negotiation of this Divine Order, it is Absolute, and directly individually given to the confessors.

Love and Light
Rick Jewers

Girls are hitting puberty earlier

During the coronavirus pandemic, pediatric endocrinologists saw a new surge of referrals for girls with early puberty—the number of these referrals doubled or even tripled during the lockdown periods of 2020, recent studies show.

www.newyorker.com/science/annals-of-medicine/why-more-and-more-girls-are-hitting-puberty-early

Confusion – The Positives

Confusion is so often thought to be a negative feeling, one that is hard to tolerate. In our culture, it’s a feeling we are most frequently averse towards. Today, let’s take a look at confusion as a feeling and how we can support ourselves in changing our attitude, response, and understanding of it. We can also learn how to make it an ally in our life, rather than simply viewing it as a disturbance.

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#confusion #Blog #selfcarematters

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How Confusion is often a Sign of Depth and Potential for Fulfillment

www.awarenessthatheals.org/how-confusion-is-often-a-sign-of-depth-and-potential-for-fulfillment/

Boy oh Boy- Proud to have been able to assist

These boys who am sure look different today or I would not share .

Neighbors in a complex that was 2 boys under 2 and then the twins arrived early .

This couple was up against it in every way possible and knew no one .

My council was agreeable to the owner – landlord until it wasn’t .

The eldest 2 were on the spectrum and I shared what I knew .

They left , no court for anyone else in these situations; just me .

Deputies were called many times to that unit where environmental toxins were hard to keep at bay and kids were adversely affected .

I asked for help on my local group on Facebook and an angelic couple did respond .

I sat with the gentle man with the boys while his wife took Mom to clear some legal issues.

When they returned I had the infant twins in my arms and each was sleeping !!!

How’d you do that ? I smiled and just glowed inside because I do know and don’t diagnose it .

There were many rumors about this couple but I didn’t witness illegal acts and my focus was on the boys .

I learned later that though my council of the Dad ,Mom had surrendered to her spiritual journey and that was super great news !!

Moving out of Virginia was the very best thing these parents could do for their sons and themselves .

The owner – landlord was knowing before this couple moved in and had a record as well… I feel I had a right to know but things went from very bad to worse as I became weaker and learned more that insured my eviction as COVID gave landlord the opportunity to retaliate.

Blessings & Peace

Dona Luna

The Crone

“If you weep, the Crone will move closer to you. Laugh, and she wants to hear the joke. Dance, and she wants to dance with you and in you. She has help for the hurt and for the one poisoned by bitterness. She can pull the thorn from the breast, and tattoo your scars with flowering boughs.” This is the power of the Crone, ready to assist each of us to “fulfill the callings of the souls on this earth ~ with verve, with style, with critical insights, with wisdom, and with love.”~

~Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estés

🖤🖤 art via Pinterest 🖤🖤🖤

Dark Goddess

“The Dark Goddess lives at a woman’s core. She guards the self. She is the friend of the soul, whose purpose in your life is to fiercely protect and further the whole process of your learning to live authentically from your core. She never trades in deceit, she never lies, nor does she veil her power. She refuses to uphold any relationship that doesn’t work, and she tears away at anything within us that is greedy or grasping or infantile. She continually urges us to reclaim our own power—the power to set limits and shout ‘no,’ and the power to say, ‘This is what I will do and this is what I won’t do’ when we are faced with any sort of abuse or anyone trying to steal our power or dominate us.”

~ Leslie Kenton, Passage to Power

Art by Elly Smallwood

http://www.elly.ca

Mama

To the mama nursing the baby in the guestroom while everyone else chats around the charcuterie board or clinks champagne glasses . . .

To the mama wrangling the overtired toddler who refused to eat anything except a roll at the holiday dinner . . .

To the mama trying to eat her meal off a paper plate on the counter while balancing an infant on her hip . . .

To the mama with her eye on the clock, anxiously trying to figure out how to get a nap in for her little one so she can actually get some sleep tonight . . .

To the mama who can’t finish a conversation without having to console a child or keep them from putting something in their mouths they shouldn’t . . .

To the mama who has to leave the party early so bedtime doesn’t go haywire . . .

To the mama who leaves every social engagement feeling drained and anxious instead of grateful to be with people she loves . . .

I was you once.

And I promise—it gets better.

Someday you’ll eat at the table again, and you’ll sip your drink and eat hot food and take your time.

Someday your kids will run off to play with their friends or cousins and entertain themselves.

Someday you’ll be able to linger until the party’s winding down and talk into the night with other grown-ups about grown-up things.

Someday naptimes will be a distant memory.

Someday your hands and lap will be free.

Someday these days will be long in the past.

But you’ll never forget them.

I won’t tell you you’ll miss them, because some things you just won’t.

But you’ll look back and understand they were part of a precious short and fleeting season.

And when you see a younger mom deep in the trenches of motherhood, a mom who has her hands full—you’ll reach out one of yours to help.

You’ll make sure she’s got a pillow to prop up her elbow while she’s nursing.

You’ll make her a plate and offer to hold the baby while she eats.

You won’t utter a word when she says they have to go now, it’s time for someone’s nap.

And maybe as you grab the diaper bag and help her out the door, you just might say—

“You’re doing an amazing job, Mama. These babies are beyond lucky to have you . . .

And I promise—it gets better.”