Aging Narcissist

The ugly truth …

Ageing is a nightmare for a narcissist because they’ve fabricated, over the years, a false personality based on a sense of superiority. They need followers, attention, adoration, and validation which feeds the dark void of their deepest selves where they believe themselves worthless. The shame and self-loathing are hidden behind the grandiosity of the false self. As they age, they don’t get better at accepting criticism, and their need and reliance on external validation doesn’t alleviate either. Alienating parents get a lot of validation and support from their children, but this source, unlike them, grows up, and (hopefully) becomes independent. They can become incredibly bitter. They can also become lonely as many friends might have had enough of them by now. Alienators/narcissists like to control situations, but they can’t control time and the ageing process.

Please see more of my posts on Instagram. I post them there first, two or three a day. They’re there to spread awareness about parental alienation, to inform and to uplift. I hope they help.

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser .. View all posts by GreatCosmicMothersUnited