Tag: spiritual wellness

Wrong Life ?

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You did not live the wrong life, friend.

You made choices, yes, the best choices you could have made at the time, the only choices that were possible for you, choiceless choices that led you willingly or unwillingly to the place where you are now.

Perhaps there was never any choice anyway.

You said yes, you said no, you said no when you meant yes and yes when you meant no.
But these were the only answers you could have given at the time, considering what you knew, where you were, what you needed; considering your genetics and the trauma you had not yet healed, the insights you had not yet had, the path you had not yet trodden on your way to your deepest self.

You did not live the wrong life.

You can look back and say you lived the wrong life.
But these are only thoughts
and you did not live the wrong life.

For you are here. Your breath is rising and falling, right on cue.
The sun is rising in the sky and the leaves are falling from the trees.
Your mind is full of the thoughts that must be thought now.
Your body holds the feelings that you must feel now.
Sounds you must hear, longings you must turn towards.
Regrets you must illuminate, fears you must smile at.
Or not.

And every choice, every missed opportunity, every right path that turned out to be the wrong path, every bridge burned or connection made, every loss and every gain, every moment of doubt, inaction, courage, joy, every depression and every moment of unbridled ecstasy, led you right here.

Here. Now. A new beginning.
A new chance to live. To love.
To make amends, or not.
To laugh or cry at the world and your place in it.

To fall to your knees in awe and humility.

The cosmos does not make mistakes,
even when it does.

You did not live the wrong life, friend,
because life did not live
the wrong You.

  • Jeff Foster

Lesson Learned via Narcissist

What we learned in the trauma, drama and dysfunction is to tolerate the intolerable.

We learned to sacrifice our own sense of self to become whoever and whatever others needed.

It is said the Empath must have the experience with the Narcissist to reach capacity of understanding the human condition

Reposting

Thing is…

As adults we often continue that pattern in our adult relationships.

Learning to listen to our own inner wisdom can help guide us to healthier relationships.

This….so we can see an end to the drama and difficult adult relationships.

So – if we’re seeing that every relationship is the same only different players…

We can start learning to let go of those relationships that feel bad so we can stop replaying the patterns.

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Intregrity

GAWD. Was this ever taught me and resulted in celibacy!

I met a young man who said the same thing .

I just wanted to clear that energy and I’m surely vested in ending the horrors that can and does traumatize and psychologically affect children .

www.facebook.com/reel/806353323997205

Past Life Healer

Carole Carbone was a major contributor to my healing and I am certified through her as an Intuitive Healer ; I didn’t feel Psychic Healer would be welcomed on a business card in Virginia , lol

We had several years together and moving and money matters nipped our sessions but I highly recommend this lady who encouraged me to accept myself and my gifts .

She allowed me to ask the questions and answer them myself . She was very proud of my progress and complimented me highly on my perceptions!

Ex called me asking for her contact information and I discussed it with her and she said there was no way she’d discuss anything about me with him ; far too much abuse and trauma in the past .

I plan to contact her soon and that’s my gift to myself ❤️💯🎁

http://www.drcarolecarbone.com/

Carole Carbone is also on Facebook