Tag: relationships

No ordinary Love ❤️

Sade

I discovered Sade while drugged via psychiatry…ala the ” chemical

straightjacket ” and she helped keep the flame of love alive , while

my reality was of the disposal process , of a highly disinterested,

disturbed , detached , depressive person who had dumped all his

shadow on me and one of our children .

Like a light in the dark , a flickering flame , heart knowing that I

would know that love . That light became brighter and brighter as

After having the mother load of trauma , while still shedding decades

and pre birth trauma come all at once , without a single soul being

aware ; a gal befriended me and showed me the female version of

narcissism…It took a while but man, I walked away from that situation

with no regrets . It was an invaluable teaching experience.

I had to learn to roll through my feelings and traumatic memories, to

go within .. That was driven to move to the mountains that brought me

a slower pace , but first I had to slow my mind down …The pace of city

life was a challenge that had to be eliminated .

That accomplished , my normal Pisces mind can ‘roam’ as it were and

I own that , and try to not be overly excited as I was years ago and

it didn’t turn out well…

Thy Will Be Done ..

I have known I had to clear the tragedy and trauma of my family

and I have had to leave that to Divine Love , who know their hearts

and their horror , what they feel… I will trust that healing , for them

will allow healing on a comfortable degree with mother & child .

Today , messaging is of love ❤️…and I had this in mail, and thought

of this song , so anchoring in my world of horrors , and dissolutions .

I had to be able to roll through

Angel message :

https://youtu.be/AXenZU3XLIk?si=Hg3Ia4VDISxCYUP5

Sade,

No ordinary love ❤️

https://youtu.be/_WcWHZc8s2I?si=cEYJjeAub_w0VuVW

youtube.com/watch

Black sheep are lions of the family

BLACK SHEEP SHOULD BE CALLED LIONS OF THE FAMILY

Within every family there are unique members who break patterns, the so-called “black sheep.” “However, far from being a burden or a problem, they are in fact the lions of the family system, the scouts towards the liberation of the family tree.

From an early age, they often question beliefs, challenge traditions and pave the way for paths never traveled.

They are the ones who are criticized, judged or even rejected, but they play a fundamental role: freeing the family from repetitive patterns that cause frustration for generations.

These revolutionary spirits who do not fit in, those who cry out for revolution and do not conform to the status quo, are agents of change.

They are the ones who heal, purify and they regenerate the family tree, creating new branches, full of life and potential.

Thanks to their courage and perseverance, the family roots are renewed.

Their rebellion is fertile soil, their apparent madness nourishes the tree like refreshing water, their persistence brings new winds and their passion lights the flame that rekindles the hearts of those who came before.

Do not allow anyone to dim your light or make you doubt your essence. Take care of your uniqueness, this “rare” that is the most beautiful and precious flower of your family tree.

You are, in fact, the dream that came true of your entire ancestral generation and an inspiration to humanity.

~ Victor Madrid

Enduring Love

I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death.

They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make.

Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories.

We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love..

(Leo Buscaglia)

The bonds of love transcend the limitations of time and space. Even when death separates us from those we cherish, their influence remains, woven into the fabric of our being.

Every choice we make, every thought we entertain, every action we undertake carries the echo of their love, a silent yet powerful presence guiding our steps.

Their memory is not merely a collection of cherished moments; it’s a living legacy, a profound and enduring imprint on our hearts and minds.

The comfort we find in remembering their love is a testament to the enduring power of human connection, a beacon of hope that shines brightly even in the face of loss. ❤☀

Projection

“Have you ever noticed that when someone can’t face their own faults they make you the problem instead? It’s easier for them to paint you as the villain than to confront their own mistakes or take responsibility for their actions. By placing the blame on you they create a convenient distraction from the truth they’ve been avoiding. But no matter how much they deflect or shift the narrative it doesn’t change the reality of their behavior.

Their actions are a reflection of their own inner struggles and insecurities, not a measure of your worth or who you are.

You don’t have to carry the weight of their unresolved issues. Those belong to them, not you.”

Yes, always remember that when someone struggles to acknowledge their own faults, they often resort to shifting blame onto others, painting them as the problem rather than facing their own shortcomings.

By casting you as the antagonist, they evade the discomfort of confronting their mistakes or owning up to their actions.

This tactic serves as a convenient distraction from the truths they seek to avoid.

Despite their attempts to deflect or distort the narrative, the reality of their behavior remains unchanged.

Their actions stem from their internal battles and insecurities, reflecting their struggles rather than defining your value or identity. You need not bear the burden of their unresolved issues; those burdens belong solely to them, not to you.

The Beauty of Solitude

I have been on my own for decades and know myself well enough that in relationship of important, I will respect the need for each to have freedom and space to be on our own . Very easily done with commitment and a foundation of truth.🥰